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RE: question about punishment - 10/11/2006 11:30:01 AM

RedSavageSlave

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Until you have a collar around their neck or they have otherwise indicated your ownership over them.. you have no right to "assign, expect or require" anything of them. They are not yours to control or punish.

<shakes head and walks away once again>

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RE: question about punishment - 10/11/2006 2:46:20 PM

KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: pyrobabe
but how long do you stay in the interviewing stage?

Simple - When all involved wish to elevate it to beyond the interview stage Or... one declines the offer for more.

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So far I've learned that I need to be a little more precise on what stage we are in. I definately don't just start handing out punishments... but I like what MasterFireMaam has to say.

I think you need to understand that "YOU" don't decide what stage your in..... It is a "We" (as those in the relationship) decides what stage we are in. Granted we can communicate our individual perception of what stage I want to be in, but we don't advance unless it is agreed by all. "Take all to make a relationship work... only takes one to bring it to an end"

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