perverseangelic
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Joined: 2/2/2004 From: Davis, Ca Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: sydneycouple I guess the real question is........ If a Dom asks a Sub "well what do you want" He would lose to some degree respect. But on the other hand if the Sub isn't getting anything out of the relationship then they arn't going to get into the relationship in the first place or stay in it if it's ongoing. So where do you draw the line here is the key ? Why would a dominant person loose respect for asking a potential partner what he/she wants? Isn't the point of the relationship to provide for the needs (whatever they may be) of both parties? THe way I see it, when coming into a relationship, there is no power exchange in place yet. You haven't agreed to the way it'll work. Sure, everyone's welcome to come in saying "This is how I want the relationship to be" but to expect someone to obey "protocal" as soon as you meet is jumping the gun IMHO
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