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Your definition of edge play - 10/10/2006 2:48:16 PM

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I would like to ask the subs , slaves or switches here what their definition of edge play is? I understand to some it can begin simply by being put in restraints while others need to get a bit deeper into something such as breathplay or needles.
In my own experience i would say breathplay and knifeplay to name two. And my interests have grown in the years i have been owned by Master. In time i would like to experience , if it pleased Master, deeper knifeplay , breathplay, fireplay.

RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/10/2006 3:04:48 PM

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Yes, I'd agree; edgy is a personal thing. Still, generally speaking, I'd suggest that 'edgy' means riskier; perhaps...but again, it's all in the eye of the beholder, no?

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/10/2006 3:05:18 PM

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For me, anything involving fluids, breathplay, food play, choking, suspension, fire, and rape is always in my "edge play" file.

But obviously, any type of play can be shoved into the "edge play" category if you twist it enough.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/10/2006 3:08:27 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_357430/mpage_1/key_edge/tm.htm#357454
Is 'edge play' just another meaningless term?

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/10/2006 3:54:44 PM

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Hmm, for myself ONLY

breath play would be the ultimate of walking the edge... Probably why he refuses to even think about it with me

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/10/2006 11:35:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

But obviously, any type of play can be shoved into the "edge play" category if you twist it enough.

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm Well said! :D
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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/11/2006 5:24:14 AM

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Breath play, knife play, interrogation scenes, resistance play are among my favorites.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/11/2006 7:05:02 AM

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I define it as being on my personal edges.
Fireplay/heat play is one of my favorite things. Knifeplay?, Fuck me with it!
Come near me with a stingy cane or needles and I will: (depending on who is holding it)
A) rip your head off
B) curl up in a ball in fear

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/11/2006 8:06:51 AM

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knifeplay , breathplay, fireplay.

All three I consider edge play and I enjoy them very much

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/11/2006 8:24:42 AM

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For me, anything involving fluids, breathplay, food play, choking, suspension, fire, and rape is always in my "edge play" file.

food play... mmm squished banana.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/11/2006 9:31:44 AM

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Edge play on a personal level can be anything but when people speak of it in the scene they are generally refering to play that pushes common boundaries.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/11/2006 10:09:09 AM

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my idea of edge "play" (ick, i hate that word in reference to anything in this lifestyle...it's not play, it's life dag nabbit...but i digress)....would be anything where one's life or sanity was highly at risk. things like extreme breath control or cutting over major veins, extreme psychological torture, etc.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/11/2006 10:12:28 AM

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my idea of edge "play" (ick, i hate that word in reference to anything in this lifestyle...it's not play, it's life dag nabbit...but i digress)....would be anything where one's life or sanity was highly at risk. things like extreme breath control or cutting over major veins, extreme psychological torture, etc.

Everything in life is life. But there's playtime in life. Play is important for everyone.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/11/2006 5:29:12 PM

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Edgeplay, for me, is defined not by what you are doing but by how it feels. There are times when I am "playing" (I too think play is not the right word, but I use it for want of another) with Master and he does something that is out of the ordinary range of things we do, pushing me further than usual outside the comfort zone. Sometimes I'll go with this fully and float around in the joy that is my experience of subspace, and this is not edgeplay for me when this happens... but other times, my mind tries harder to resist it.

These times I feel very deeply afraid and want to say "no" (but no such word exists in my language to my Master). He sees my distress and I am aware he has noted it. But often, rather than back off, he will remind me of my place and continue. I'm still afraid, but no longer resist. I feel the fear. I don't try to stop it. I feel my trust in him - and I am aware I have no other choice. I give up my sense of self, not into peace, but into terror, agony, or sometimes even shame. I may feel my life is truly in the balance. I may cry. I may feel that something terrible - perhaps death - is going to happen..... and I know I will willingly let it happen. He praises me and it helps me through it. Eventually he brings me back to my feet (mentally speaking).

That, to me, is edgeplay - whatever gives me that feeling. It could be extreme pain, more than I believe I can take, it could be high-risk physical play like breath play or blood, or it could be something as simple as him describing a very psychologically threatening scene to me. It is hard work to endure, but after it, I always feel changed by the experience - more his, and more adoring of him.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/12/2006 6:21:16 AM

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my idea of edge "play" (ick, i hate that word in reference to anything in this lifestyle...it's not play, it's life dag nabbit...but i digress)....

S&M is not life, while M/s is the foundation of our personal interactions with each other, S&M is recreational for us, it is play, iuts fun and enjoyable.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/12/2006 7:21:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

my idea of edge "play" (ick, i hate that word in reference to anything in this lifestyle...it's not play, it's life dag nabbit...but i digress)....

S&M is not life, while M/s is the foundation of our personal interactions with each other, S&M is recreational for us, it is play, iuts fun and enjoyable.

you're right, S&M is not life. when my Master and i engage in edgy "activities", they are not under the realm of S&M, they are just part of our everyday lives, as most everything else. i realize for many it is different...they have scening, they have playtime, etc...just don't want folks to forget that for some of us that's just not a part of things.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/13/2006 8:25:05 PM

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Edge play to me would be something that causes a reaction of fear or dread within me...............Tempting

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/19/2006 12:04:49 PM

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Everyones definition will invariably differ. I would say, knife and needleplay. That said, the more we do them, the less they seem like edge play.
The risk element lessens as they become more familiar.

A more constant definition in my case; working as a pro submissive...the risk is constant.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/19/2006 2:35:56 PM

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I thought egde play was just a trem for knife play, or razor blades. You know something with a sharp egde.

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RE: Your definition of edge play - 10/19/2006 4:03:05 PM

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I think that edge is in the eye of the beholder. I used to consider knife play, something edgy, but not much anymore. Probably needles, blood, extreme beating, breath play.. things of that nature I consider more on the edge now.

What's extreme to one, might be old hat to the other.

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