MsKatHouston
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Joined: 6/7/2006 From: Houston, TX Status: offline
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Well, if you want some answers, you're going to need to try to answer some of the questions posed. Why are you not ready for it? Is it lack of experience or lack of desire? One is easily remedied. The other may be a recipe for disaster with both of you left unfulfilled. Lack of experience can be remedied by, well, getting some. Educate yourself, read, get involved in your local community, observe, communicate, experiment. Lack of desire is something that is not so easily remedied. Maybe if you try it you will like it and take to it. Maybe not. If you are wired as a submissive and desire to be dominated, putting on an act will leave you unfulfilled and possibly end up being resentful. You do yourself and your wife a disservice. I would highly suggest doing some long, honest introspection of your needs, desires and motivation. I would suggest your wife do the same. Then, I would suggest the two of you, together, clearly and honestly communicate those to one another and come up with reasonable expectations and possible solutions that will suit both your needs.
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-Kat ~If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning~
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