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NetherLord -> new Dom gaining experience? (4/25/2004 9:59:37 AM)
I noticed there was a thread in "ask a submissive" about a new Dom gaining experience. I'm a switch (in Top mode right now), but have found that very few female submissives seem to be willing to play with an inexperienced Top/Dom. Any suggestions for locating someone to play with, so I can become more experienced?

Sinergy -> RE: new Dom gaining experience? (4/26/2004 6:48:17 PM)
Well, there is an aspect to playing with a submissive as a new Dom that may seem to them as if they are being asked to Top from the bottom. I suggest you find local groups and go to play clubs and watch others, and when you meet somebody you would like to play with simply ask them out. Telling them you are new without them asking seems somewhat like unnecessary foreplay to me. Sinergy

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