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Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 1:00:00 PM

zzzstinky

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Hi All,

Well as always I wanted to say hello and thanks for all the great people who take the time to offer sincere responses and suggestions... I wished to ask the group for some assistance around my Domme desire and my acceptance of trying chastity... We have been thinking about it for a while, and it sound like it does offer some great benifit for controlling you slave. Plus I do like all of the keyholder and control dynamic...

So now the day comes when the CB3000 show's up at my door....

Does anyone have experience strarting a novice into chastity... How long is a good starting period... (I suggested fiftteen minutes), but Mistress seems to think not :)

Any thoughts or insights greatly appreciated...

robby.

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 1:23:58 PM

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robby,
There is no real reason not to start with however long she likes! Medically, chastity is just as fine as not, with the odd exception being a few studies that link prostate health to regular orgasms and things like that. I like to start boys at 2 weeks, then surprise them with an extension. Generally I go for around 3 months at a shot...sometimes I just lock 'em up for the duration of their relationship with me.
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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 1:28:51 PM

zzzstinky

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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :)

Thanks... I have read a little bit about the subject and I tend to agree... I have heard a bit about prostrate milking as a form or relief of sorts...

Actually, like most men I will be the first to admit I do loose some of my submissive tendancies after orgasm... well actually I loose all tendancies except to sleep :) So I can see how pleasuring her while keeping myself locked (for a little longer) has benifit...

Anyhow... Tonight my Mistress intends to lock me up... so I guess I will find things out soon :)

Thanks,
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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 1:32:00 PM

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15 minutes.... HAHAHHAHA

< Message edited by Elegrea -- 10/12/2006 1:33:07 PM >

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 1:32:02 PM

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15 minutes?!? Yes, I think not LOL but nice try

Starting a novice would depend on their history. I usually start a week at a time and then increase by another week at a time. I usually have some type of sexual relationship with my sub so the longest full time I have gone is about 3 months. If there is a concern regarding prostate health, milking is a good way to handle that.

Hope she has fun :)

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 2:12:34 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Hi All,

Well as always I wanted to say hello and thanks for all the great people who take the time to offer sincere responses and suggestions... I wished to ask the group for some assistance around my Domme desire and my acceptance of trying chastity... We have been thinking about it for a while, and it sound like it does offer some great benifit for controlling you slave. Plus I do like all of the keyholder and control dynamic...

So now the day comes when the CB3000 show's up at my door....

Does anyone have experience strarting a novice into chastity... How long is a good starting period... (I suggested fiftteen minutes), but Mistress seems to think not :)

Any thoughts or insights greatly appreciated...

robby.

robby --

While this isn't the answer to your question, I feel the need to ask this. Does your mistress have ANY experience at all? You seem to come here and bring us every single question about things in your "relationship". I can't say that I'd be ok with that in my household.

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 2:27:25 PM

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At first he may get a rash. Put powder on each time it goes on. I would start with with a few hours at a time. It won't kill him. Do it at home and see how it goes. If it seems ok send him out for the day or extend it over a weekend.

There are people who go months but they work up to it.

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 5:41:14 PM

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Hi All,

Thanks again.. okay 45 minutes it is :)

Oh and MisPandora... she does have "some" experience however I think she values the contributions and experiences of others. For instance she hasn't kept a man in Chastity for an extended period before, however felt that someone on here probably had. Like the saying goes, better to learn from the mistakes of others as you may not live long enough to make them all yourself...

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robby...

PS After an excellent dinner and a glass of fine wine... my Mistress closed me up tightly...

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 8:14:54 PM

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My first experiance was for a week. Everytime my wife is out of town, I am locked up. Mistress prefers that.I recently had to spend a night in a cage with my cb 2000. I guess Mistress and my wife wanted to really know I was going to behave. Being freed was an experiance to behold.

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 9:08:26 PM

MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Hi All,

Thanks again.. okay 45 minutes it is :)

Oh and MisPandora... she does have "some" experience however I think she values the contributions and experiences of others. For instance she hasn't kept a man in Chastity for an extended period before, however felt that someone on here probably had. Like the saying goes, better to learn from the mistakes of others as you may not live long enough to make them all yourself...

Thanks,
robby...

PS After an excellent dinner and a glass of fine wine... my Mistress closed me up tightly...

Yeah, I can appreciate that....but I'd be fetching the information myself from reliable sources, not from total strangers!

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/12/2006 10:00:59 PM

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lol, then there is the 15 minutes trying to get the device on your swelling penis (that would be before the 15 minutes of actually wearing it)...until she figures out how a little ice helps

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/13/2006 9:44:03 AM

MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Hi All,

Thanks again.. okay 45 minutes it is :)

45 minutes is hardly anything, really.

There is a plethora of information on male chastity on Altarboy's website:
http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/male.htm

There are other sites out there full of information from regular practitioners:
http://www.chastitylifestyle.com/
http://www.exobelt.com/
http://www.keptforher.com
http://www.locknkeep.com (good pics and message boards)
http://www.lockmeup.com/

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RE: Easing into Chastity.. (I hope)... - 10/13/2006 1:47:19 PM

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Thanks, for the links and resources... :)

Actually... I have tried to look at multiple resources including posting here for suggestions...

Goodness know's... I don't want to just believe everything I read... after all if I did that one day I might end up walking around in with some sort of plastic chastity device on, and the Woman beside me with a slightly unexplainable constant smile.

Well it hasn't quite been twenty four hours yet.. and although it was tough sleeping, and going to the bathroom... so far it's not to bad...

Well excuse me know while I go search around the house for the key to this lock :) (he he).

Thanks,
robby.

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