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mystique2003 -> Golden, brown showers and why these work (10/12/2006 3:21:11 PM)

What is the attraction to golden or brown showers in some lifestylers relationship?  Is it they just like it ?  Is it humiliation?  Or just fun?
 
  Why do you think there is very little info on these two activities?  Are they that taboo ?

Thank you




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (10/12/2006 3:30:46 PM)

There's actually a lot of info on them if you know where to look- specially golden showers.

Anything with bodily fluids is considered edge play in my book- and bodily fluids tend to be very powerful and symbolic parts of ourselves to share.  Whether it's humiliation, worship, possession, or simply sharing a part of yourself with another- it tends to be a powerful act.

With excrement you have the increased safety issue as well as the increased taboo and distasteful factor. 




Bearlee -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (10/12/2006 3:34:52 PM)

Well, for me personally, I can only speak to Golden Showers (aka Watersports).  For me, whether it is for the humiliation factor, the intimacy factor or just for the fun of it depends on the delivery.  For me, watersports can be all these things and more…and sometimes it’s just fun to pee outside.  LOL




JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (10/12/2006 4:30:35 PM)

[:D]I can go for the pee outside since I have a weak bladder lol but anything beyond that is not for me..




ownedgirlie -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (10/12/2006 10:38:41 PM)

For me, it is intimate, a deep connection, incredibly humiliating, and makes me feel small.  It is not a "kink" that turns me on.  It is something that makes me feel his power quite strongly. In some cases it can be intensely overwhelming, which puts me in quite an amazing state of mind. 




toservez -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (10/13/2006 9:50:47 AM)

It all depends on how they are done as they can mean or feel many things. From a strong sign of devotion, a very powerful show of the power exchange aspect of a relationship and sometimes just enjoyable to the people especially if into humiliation and/or objectification.

Watersports are not really taboo but can be a limit to a very good percentage. Brown showers would certainly be in the taboo realm and not talked about outside of the dangerous aspects to them and a limit for most.





OrdoObseqium -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (10/13/2006 10:25:35 AM)

Indeed, it is the case of humiliation, possesion, worship, as the earlier participators pointed out.
For me though, it has always been the balance in the pleasure or debasement on my behalf, and confirmation of committment on behalf of the slave.

A slave willing and pleasurably serving toilet for her Master is truly a committed slave.

The safety in brown showers is certainly always an issue, but is much overrated for * CONFIRMED HEALTHY AND RESPONSIBLE* participators.
Regards,
OrdoObseqium





JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (10/13/2006 11:21:27 AM)

I will not be a toilet to no man..............( omg i can't believe i said that )[8|]




DustyDubinsky -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (12/31/2006 8:06:51 AM)

Let me suggest the option of urine control - hold that pee just a minuet longer.  As a way of enhancing the women ultimate climax and heightening your own - I believe that requiring the sub to hold it in can not be matched.   Allow her to urinate just after intercource and I think you'll find that golden shower has some real power.




Mercnbeth -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (12/31/2006 8:33:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72

I will not be a toilet to no man..............( omg i can't believe i said that )[8|]


Would the "can't believe" be the use of a "double negative" indicating some deep repressed "Freudian" desire to experience what one is professing to loath? [8|]

HAPPY NEW YEAR![8D]




nephandi -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (12/31/2006 10:51:45 AM)

Have you ever seen the TV series Shogun, there a prisoner is held down and peed upon, ut is such a strong sense, it is utter humiliation, and it is in a way somthing somone dont do whit another human being, it is in a way saying your are somthing so lovly i can pee on you like i would in a toilet.

Ofcourse others hav eother opinions on the matter.




Aileen68 -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (12/31/2006 5:51:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mystique2003

What is the attraction to golden or brown showers in some lifestylers relationship?  Is it they just like it ?  Is it humiliation?  Or just fun?

Why do you think there is very little info on these two activities?  Are they that taboo ?

Thank you



I've never participated in brown showers, but I have with golden showers.  For me it is a huge sense of humiliation and control.  Being made to do something that is so dirty is a huge turn on.  I get off on being humiliated, so it plays right into that whole mindset.  The fact that I do indeed enjoy it is also extremely humiliating.  "Nice girls" don't do that.




masterfixer -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (1/3/2007 9:35:25 PM)

shit, piss, or throw up, the only inhibitions and the important bonding experiences.




Noah -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (1/4/2007 7:48:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72

I will not be a toilet to no man..............( omg i can't believe i said that )[8|]


Okay ladies, the line forms in Jersey.

PS(SSSSSssssssss)
Is it okay if they do that "go as a herd" thing?
(dribble)




Noah -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (1/4/2007 7:50:56 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: masterfixer

shit, piss, or throw up, the only inhibitions and the important bonding experiences.


Rather eminds one of wedding toast from the first marriage of Prince Charles, eh wot?

"Drink up, Chuck and Di"




Pulpsmack -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (1/8/2007 7:41:25 PM)

It is an apt experession of humiliation, which done properly leads toward a deeper level of intimacy. The initial deterrent "shock" becomes the obsticle overcome by determination and willingness. The result becomes a closeness that comes from mutual respect and admiration... at least with my brand of D/s (and that brand comes in the gold label, not the brown).




ownedgirlie -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (1/8/2007 9:12:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Pulpsmack

It is an apt experession of humiliation, which done properly leads toward a deeper level of intimacy. The initial deterrent "shock" becomes the obsticle overcome by determination and willingness. The result becomes a closeness that comes from mutual respect and admiration... at least with my brand of D/s (and that brand comes in the gold label, not the brown).


You summed this up wonderfully, from one who has received both labels.




Caitriona -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (1/8/2007 9:24:39 PM)

I wasn't interested in golden showers when I met My Lord.  However, I tried being on the receiving (kneeling? peed upon?) side of things and found it rather interesting.  Not something that immediately lights my fire, so to speak but I can handle it. 

Being the person doing the urination is something that is still difficult for me - I tend to have a shy bladder and that's always been something so private for me that it's incredibly intimate to share with him.  It's something we're working on, and I am glad to have my boundaries tested and stretched in a way that is not overwhelming.




MasterHXB -> RE: Golden, brown showers and why these work (1/9/2007 3:00:11 AM)

Once I own a slave the first thing I do is piss on her. For me its the right of ownership of that person.




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