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RE: Fresh Ideas For Playtime - 10/14/2006 6:35:57 PM

shadevarr

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ORIGINAL: SirDraven

Im thinking kidnapping and interogation but as you are new to all this that might be a bit much.

Your 18 you know all about wax play and Im 38 and dont know that much??

Is it me or is something a bit odd here?

Yeah, It is odd but welcome to the bandwagon anyways Oldtimer :P Jokes aside, it is just a matter of when we figure out that those desires exist. I was about the same age when I started doing this and I read a lot. The internet age will lower the average Dom age significantly as this lifestyle gets more mainstreamed.

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RE: Fresh Ideas For Playtime - 10/14/2006 7:15:02 PM

SweetSarijane

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Reading some of the non fiction bdsm books will help you learn and from that your own ideas may spark. Books like SM 101, Consensual Sadomasochism, The Loving Dominant, Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns, The Topping Book, The Compleat Spanker, and many others as well as fiction bdsm erotica such as some from Elloras Cave can give you ideas. Best to read and learn about being a Dominant if that's who you are than just getting ideas to Top in a kinky scene.

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RE: Fresh Ideas For Playtime - 10/14/2006 10:35:50 PM

maskedsow

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as a 21 year old you may be supprised to learn i agree with you i have done a lot and enjoy a lot and deffinatly have a lot of experince but am still learning there is always new things too learn i go to the workshops run by our bdsm store and read as much as i can amalways on the look out for new ideas but have my core kinks that i still enjoy even after doing them several times simply because its refreshing after abseling down a 100 foot rock face making sure your in control and keeping your self safe to just give up that control to someone else to be tied up and used at that persons whim with no choices and no thoughts but to serve and just subbing out into sub space is the best thing ever in my opinion

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RE: Fresh Ideas For Playtime - 10/15/2006 5:50:09 AM

MadRabbit

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*shrugs* I'm 23 and dont have a whole lot of experience yet as a Top, but that is because I am taking my time in learning and bottoming to some close experienced friends. It doesnt matter what age you are, just as long as you are willing to take the time to educate yourself. I've read Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex, The New Topping Book, Erotic Surrender : The Joys of Female Submission, Loving Dominant, and Screw the Roses, Give Me The Thorns. Also have a whole archive of essays from mentors, friends, and the Internet. Just because I dont have a whole lot of experience using wax and candles doesnt mean I dont know the safe kind are non dyed, non secented, non oiled, pure white wax candles and to avoid beeswax because of the high melting tempature. The important thing is to test the wax on your own arm to get the right height. And if you bottom to a Top using wax play and know how it feals when the wax hits every spot, then your all set.

But for some reason, given this guy's profile, I seriously doubt he does know what he is doing (Female and Male Supremacists are often funny and dangerous in my opinion because they are too superior to take the time to learn anything)

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