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"Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/13/2006 11:58:00 PM

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I personally know someone who is on collarme who is a douchebag, plain and simple. He is aggressive to the point of almost-stalker, he is a phoney, and he is out for sex however he can lie and manipulate the woman into it. He told me he pursues submissives because they are "easier" than vanilla women.
How can i warn other women about this botttom feeder?
Winnie

RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 12:46:45 AM

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I have no idea but I know a friend who ended up with a loser who tied her up, blindfolded her, hurt her and left her crying.. just walked out right after and didnt even tell her what would happen. She is new and felt that being a slave meant taking anything. It really sucks, its like he found a legal way to abuse and hurt women/subs and there wasnt much she could do. Main thing is just to be aware of what is acceptable play and take precautions.

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 2:17:14 AM

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Winnie...........
As I'm sure you know, you cant warn about a ~bottom feeder~ for a number of reasons. They exist and will continue to. The best thing you can do is give rational thought to any who ask for advice and remind them being submissive does not equal being a door mat.

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 6:18:17 AM

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Winnie -

Honestly, you can't. It's up to the women on this site to use their judgment, brains and common sense to decide who they will and will not associate with. It's hard to stand back and let the natural course of events happen when you feel that you have information that will prevent something bad from happening. But... it's not for you to become the warning light for all the other women here. It sucks, but it's true.

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 7:35:41 AM

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Actually that is one of my favorite lines, but I rather think that given the gist of this thread it would have been better to write it:

Danger, Willa Cather! Danger!

I didn't know my good buddy Kev was back again.....LOLOLOLOL.

In any case, how is what he is doing wrong? He apparently is rather a straightforward douchebag, if he has communicated these things to you. What is there to warn? He is a user of people, and aren't we all? Perhaps he is a known axe murderer?
It is rather incumbent upon two people to ascertain amongst themselves what is and isn't truth and desire between them.
There are two possible reasons that you would try to disseminate this information.

Vindictive. That's going to the horse show as sour grapes and you will be ignored and insulted in any case.

Because you FEEL you have to do something. QUIT FEELING!!! You will not be believed in any case and people want to make their own kinda mistakes and rarely take any type of advice, especially here............

Ron

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 7:57:16 AM

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Quivver - where have you been lately?

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 8:02:51 AM

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Dont want to Hi-Jack Winnie's thread......... but I'm here, sitting quiet in the corner.

Gotta Love Ron dont ya!! Hugs 4 Mnottertail

Q

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 12:05:52 PM

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Hugs back at you Q.....

How you settling in?

ALL good news there I hope?

Ron

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 1:46:12 PM

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There are a couple of points I would like to add if I may.......
1)You should have a safecall - either a friend or someone from your local group. If there is a problem - then they know who and where you are. As well; meeting someone for the first few times does not make you a slave to them - that 'should' happen over time - not 'velcro'.
2) Any woman (or man) has the right to say 'no' if things move to fast or become unsafe.
3) If this individual is in your community - let others know - the community is small and needs to be kept decent and stable. Others will learn of him fast - and will warn and protect those at risk.
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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/14/2006 9:56:11 PM

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If he's under the pretense that subs are easier than vanilla, I think everyone is safe. Most female subs that I knows have tasers, pepper spray, and a good grip for tearing off balls. The subs that I know including the one who lives with me happen to be the most strong will and stubborn of people that I've ever encountered. One way or another, all have there way to make "no" mean "HELL NO!"

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 2:12:45 AM

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Another very good rule is never play on the first meet. Let them know this, if they are not patient (and that doesn't require much patience anyways) then just move on. I also tend to be leary of Doms who don't suggest safety measures for new subs.

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 4:17:26 AM

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Gasps,,,,,,,

A fake here looking for sex ? and he is a man ????

say it isn't so......
LMFAO

this site could be renamed FakeHereMarriedCheatingAndLookingForSex .com

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 6:00:47 AM

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I make it a point to send a message to any completely new submissive I see pop up here and advise them to leave Collarme.com alone for awhile and find a local BDSM community to help them and get educated. Every submissive I have talked to on this site has had some kind of horror story regarding a bad or Fake Dom. Some of the pictures I have seen of injuries are just horrifing. Collarme.com is just NOT the place for someone who is completely new to the lifestyle and in my opinion, only a good match finding service for people who are experienced and knowledgable about BDSM.

I see the same thing happen everytime a new sub with no experience or no idea which way is up or down pops up here. Its like Fresh Fish in jail. They get bombarded with a 100 emails in the first day from every fake, wannabe, predator, and player. I have had a lot of these emails forwarded to me and its just amazing the utter BULLSHIT that they guys throw at these girls.

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 7:22:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I make it a point to send a message to any completely new submissive I see pop up here and advise them to leave Collarme.com alone for awhile and find a local BDSM community to help them and get educated. Every submissive I have talked to on this site has had some kind of horror story regarding a bad or Fake Dom. Some of the pictures I have seen of injuries are just horrifing. Collarme.com is just NOT the place for someone who is completely new to the lifestyle and in my opinion, only a good match finding service for people who are experienced and knowledgable about BDSM.

I see the same thing happen everytime a new sub with no experience or no idea which way is up or down pops up here. Its like Fresh Fish in jail. They get bombarded with a 100 emails in the first day from every fake, wannabe, predator, and player. I have had a lot of these emails forwarded to me and its just amazing the utter BULLSHIT that they guys throw at these girls.

And you believe you are part of the solution, or part of some other problem entirely?

It's fine to believe that your sense of morality allows you to feel sorry for those who are unwitting. This, however, seems like tampering.

There are more people here than users. You should also allow that some of these 'about to become abused' might have a lick of sense.

Jeff

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RE: "Danger, Willa Cather! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 7:25:17 AM

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That's ok, I send all the new girls an on your knees bitch message with a cockshot, so it kinda balances it out..........keeps the universe safe from the mis-guided do gooders kinda thing.

Ron
edited to fix the subject line, mixing metaphors is one thing, mashing them an entirely different realm.

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RE: "Danger, Willa Robinson! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 8:02:07 AM

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If he's found that *submissives* are *easier* than vanilla women, then erm.......maybe enough times it's been the case, for him. You may not like his view but if he's formed it from experience, it is a valid one, isn't it?

I don't think it's JUST to do with *submissiveness* ......Naivety, gullibility, the odd deviation from good judgement and plain old *bad luck* comes into play too.

The chap in question seems to have *outed* his motives well enough. You can avoid him.

I read mnottertails comment that ..*people want to make their own kinda mistakes*.....and for me, that's the case.

agirl

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RE: "Danger, Willa Cather! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 8:02:12 AM

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Saving idiots from other idiots is a task for idiots.

If they are stupid enough to vote for Bush or fall for some half human moron, you just can't save them.

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RE: "Danger, Willa Cather! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 8:14:45 AM

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quote:

Saving idiots from other idiots is a task for idiots.

Amen.
I can't stand the knight-in-shining-armor kink

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RE: "Danger, Willa Cather! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 8:52:03 AM

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Me neither. It can be irritating to be *saved* from something you wanted to experience. .......lol

agirl

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RE: "Danger, Willa Cather! Danger!" - 10/15/2006 9:00:14 AM

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I heard a great name for it...

Captain Save'aho

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