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what should i do,let go? - 4/25/2004 7:08:32 PM

awakenedsoul

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i was to meet this Master. we spoke for 2 months. things came up and i could not. he understood. the second time around it did not happen again (health issue). i am OK now. he has shut me out. i tried to IM him once, email him one letter. he will not respond. it has been a month and a 1/2 since he closed the door on me. things do come up and happen in our lives. i do not understand this. am i wrong? should i try anymore? why is he being silent? i really need an experienced Dom/Master to help me out here. i am not a novice slave. but i am a bit uneasy about this. thank you.

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 4/25/2004 7:52:53 PM

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If you have not had contact in a month and a half and he is not answering you, it's past time to let go. Move on, it was not a match, or you wouldn't be being ignored.

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 4/26/2004 4:20:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: awakenedsoul
i was to meet this Master. we spoke for 2 months. things came up and i could not. he understood. the second time around it did not happen again (health issue). i am OK now. he has shut me out. i tried to IM him once, email him one letter. he will not respond. it has been a month and a 1/2 since he closed the door on me. things do come up and happen in our lives. i do not understand this. am i wrong? should i try anymore? why is he being silent? i really need an experienced Dom/Master to help me out here. i am not a novice slave. but i am a bit uneasy about this. thank you.

Ok, two scheduled meets were called off, or were they no showed without prior notice? Have there been any other issues such as attitude, disobedience... or any brattyness, or other issues that were discussed in the two months?

It seems as presented here, that you were shut out simply for not being able to meet as planned, twice, and that was the final straw? If that's the entire scope, and no other issues are or have been involved, then it should be apparent what his intentions are, and you are left to determine what your's are at this point. Can you change his mind about any possible related issues, or simply about the two non-meets? Probably not, and after 1½ months later, very likely not.

Either way, the end result appears to be that you are now seeking, but if there are or were other issues involved in this previous relationship, it is to your advantage to deal with them prior to engaging with another Master.

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 5/6/2004 7:49:02 AM

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let it go if your seriously seeking a master email me at yahoo and we can chat and get to know each other email me at [email protected] im from wisconsin and seeking to collar a women serious replys only

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 5/6/2004 9:18:15 AM

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Yes that is exactly what she needs. Someone to take advantage of her. Good one bill

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 5/6/2004 1:58:30 PM

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Yes that is exactly what she needs. Someone to take advantage of her. Good one bill

Well hey if I lived in Wisconsin...I would take care of Bill. It probably would'nt be in a good way...but oh well such is life.

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 5/7/2004 1:00:50 AM

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quote:

i really need an experienced Dom/Master to help me out here. i am not a novice slave. but i am a bit uneasy about this. thank you.

MasterBillinwi
offered and seems
available. Why not
start there? Drop
the other as it seems
He has Dropped you.

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 5/7/2004 4:29:38 PM

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You have a yes vote from me ~
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This is good____-

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 5/8/2004 12:19:55 PM

sub4hire

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You have a yes vote from me ~
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This is good____-

Dirty,
You'd have to understand my way of helping. It is not what the man would want. I prey on abuser's. I run a BDSM group that I started entirely for newbies. So they would have a safe haven to learn. People like this, I tend to eat up and spit out. Of course if he didn't do anything real unsavory then there would be a difference. Although the comments come across as the opposite.

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RE: what should i do,let go? - 5/11/2004 8:11:54 AM

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move on awakened . . . unless you need to embrace the rejection mindset, he is not for you. also beware of those that would prey on you when you are at your lowest, doubting your worth as a sub/slave. you are worth a lot to the right someone(even if it is just 'right now'). your strength and beauty lies in your gift of surrender that is earned . . . never demanded, taken or abused.

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