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rocker -> What is a slave 'boi"? (1/24/2005 10:43:19 PM)

Dear Ladies;

i have come accross a term that i am unsure what it means
What is a slave "boi" ???

is it a f2m boy/male

another way of saying????

i know that often a t-girl will be call a gurl
but this is one i do not know

Any Consideration Appreciated
rocker




SwitchNCgal -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/24/2005 11:24:13 PM)

i think is just a mangling of the word "boy"

And the gurl comments bother me a little. I mean I know I'm not quite a full girl, yet, and never will be a Gentic Girl (GG) but does that mean I'm not worthy as a person to be called correctly by my gender, am I to forever be considered a second class citizen? After all Gender is a Social Construct while Sex is a Biological Construct. It makes me wonder why some people choose to focus on my flawed body and not the mind which inhabits this flawed body. After all who's body is not without some flaw? Show me a flawless body and I'll show you a statue or a person that's ego needs deflating.[:D] Anyway my body's flaws are many and severe but not beyond the realm of repair these days.

I'll be adding this post with more info in the Health and saftey section now before it leaves the purpose of this thread which I as take it is the the meaning of mispelled words that are in common usage now.




Mariposa -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/24/2005 11:33:42 PM)

While boi can just be a mainstream teen culture mangling of the English language, I have also heard it used by other (kinky) dykes to identify themselves.....That said, rock on SwitchNCGal!




SwitchNCgal -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/25/2005 12:07:17 AM)

I will and I ask for nothing but the basic respect do all people vanilla, kinked, or TGBL. I'm even taking the fight to my school and the GBL group (they pay lip service to the T, but I'm changing that and they are going to amend their Discrimiation policy to in clude gender expression and try to change the Universities Discrimnation Policy as well which would trickle down to all the clubs and what not on the campus.)

However I hadn't heard that the Lesbain Community used that term, learn something new everyday! and I hope I never stop learning............ Because that would mean I was DEAD!!!!![;)] and only the white power groups, the kkk (if they are the master race how come they keep mispelling clan?), the roman cathlic church, and bigots would be happy about that!

edited to make more sense [:)]




rocker -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/25/2005 6:46:34 AM)

it was not ment to offend.

i love E/everyone and do not have hate for any person regaurdless of gender.
it was an honest question

nothing more and nothing less

it was not ment to be a negative in anyway
and i appologize if You took it that way

good luck


quote:

ORIGINAL: SwitchNCgal

i think is just a mangling of the word "boy"

And the gurl comments bother me a little. I mean I know I'm not quite a full girl, yet, and never will be a Gentic Girl (GG) but does that mean I'm not worthy as a person to be called correctly by my gender, am I to forever be considered a second class citizen? After all Gender is a Social Construct while Sex is a Biological Construct. It makes me wonder why some people choose to focus on my flawed body and not the mind which inhabits this flawed body. After all who's body is not without some flaw? Show me a flawless body and I'll show you a statue or a person that's ego needs deflating.[:D] Anyway my body's flaws are many and severe but not beyond the realm of repair these days.

I'll be adding this post with more info in the Health and saftey section now before it leaves the purpose of this thread which I as take it is the the meaning of mispelled words that are in common usage now.





rocker -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/25/2005 6:48:15 AM)

Thank You Mariposa; i knew it had something to do with something... ;-)

rocker


quote:

ORIGINAL: Mariposa

While boi can just be a mainstream teen culture mangling of the English language, I have also heard it used by other (kinky) dykes to identify themselves.....That said, rock on SwitchNCGal!





ProtagonistLily -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/25/2005 7:00:55 AM)

quote:

i love E/everyone


Really? Where was this love when I was shoveling a foot of snow from my driveway yesterday? If you loved me so much, you'd have been here and at the very least helping.

Unfortunately, I don't love everyone. I love very few people in my life and like even more. But I certainly don't love everyone.

Lily




MaitresseEden -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/25/2005 7:02:47 AM)

It originates from the Lesbian Leather tradition. "Boi" is a lesbian submissive in a Dyke daddy/lesbian boi relationship. The Daddy/ boi dynamic is prevalent throughout the Gay leatherman community. To distinguish between male and female boy's the woman opted to spell boy with an "i". I alway chuckle when I see men use it mistakenly.

Ms. Eden.




perverseangelic -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/25/2005 9:27:54 AM)

In my circles it is used to mean someone who was born biologically female but identifies male. It often indicates a bottom, but not always.




LadyTantalize -> Lady T. loves the "bois"!!! (1/25/2005 1:48:31 PM)

Actually, I'd like to add a bit, if I may.....


A boi is not only a lesbian-dyke-butch submissive/slave but the key is that he identifies as a male, prefers to be addressed as he, treated and thought of as a male. It's a transgendered terminology most often found only in the D/s gay/lesbian world, as not used much in the vanilla lesbian world as it does connotate submission or slavery. (i.e. Daddi/boi or HighFemme/boi) Often lesbians can use terminology such as butch for a "manly woman" or a dyke" which is appropriate in the homosexual world, as is "transmen" or F2M (Female to Male) and these terms are most often seen in the vanilla transworld. But the boi label along with a few others fit more precisely into the BDSM world. And, the difference between a "boi" and a butch is that a butch is not necessarily Dom or sub, top or bottom, but is a lesbian, possibly "dyke", but who probably still identifies as a female. A "boi" is a genetic female who identfies as a male submissive!!

And, Lady T. does love a boi or two!!

*wicked smiles*


Truly,

Lady T.

Lady Tatiana Tantalize
Atlanta's Sadistic Southern Belle
http://www.ladytantalize.net




rocker -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/25/2005 2:03:48 PM)

Dear Ms ProtagonistLily;

i was near Nashville Tennessee because i just paid off the mortgage last june, gave the house away in minnesota in dec, and am never going to live where i have to shovel snow again... i am sick of freezing and i can take my buisiness anywhere...

sorry for the snow, but that was Mother Natures fault...

rocker




quote:

ORIGINAL: ProtagonistLily

quote:

i love E/everyone


Really? Where was this love when I was shoveling a foot of snow from my driveway yesterday? If you loved me so much, you'd have been here and at the very least helping.

Unfortunately, I don't love everyone. I love very few people in my life and like even more. But I certainly don't love everyone.

Lily





SwitchNCgal -> RE: What is a slave 'boi"? (1/25/2005 3:53:45 PM)

on offense taken I just saw a moment to give some "Transgender" information and veiw and took it I hope that you don't think I'm just a harpy here but educating others on how to treat girls like me is unfortuantly the task of every girl like me because if we don't, who will?

On that note I hope you found the answer to your question sastfactory.




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