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RE: A Question if You please - 10/17/2006 6:40:30 AM

Celeste43

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"Just because I'm submissive doesn't mean I'm your submissive". I've used that line in response before. When I don't use it, I've been known to scold them as to their lack of manners and ask if this is how their mothers taught them to talk to women. For some reason, they never come back after that!

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RE: A Question if You please - 10/17/2006 8:00:13 AM

sweetnurseBBW

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ORIGINAL: rascallymisty
He wrote back and said i did not answer His question, and that i am not submissive because i did not tell Him what He wished to know. So my question is, since this is not the first Sir to ask such a question, What makes a Sir think He can ask any question even if its a rude one and that we should have to answer it just because we are a submissive? This man also wrote me i did not write Him to chat. Oh then the clincher is.....He sends me another e-mail calling me names and then blocks me....whats up with that? My last question is.... how is a sub supposed to learn to trust anyone on here if so many " so call Sirs " pull this? Do You real time Sir/Master find it hard to find real subs because of guys like this one?

Thank for Your time and any answers i may recieve. May You all be well and find that which You seek.
~misty~

He wasn't your Dom or Master, he was just someone you had met recently online. Being a submissive doesn't mean you submit to everyone that calls themselves a Dominant. He was just another insecure little man with something to prove. If they sound like a wannabe they probably are. Trust is learned it isn't an instant thing.

< Message edited by sweetnurseBBW -- 10/17/2006 8:02:41 AM >

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RE: A Question if You please - 10/17/2006 8:48:04 AM

lilmado

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"Some" doms assume that I'm gonna be their sub as long as they want me, or I already became their sub at the morment they allowed me to be, no matter I choose them or not. Or they think they own me after 1st chat...And they expect me to do what they ask, but I just ignore them...so they get mad or keep claiming how bored I am ...damn!!...They don't even know the basic knowledge that "we subs obey only one who we decided to obey". Better not worried about those ignorant....:)

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RE: A Question if You please - 10/17/2006 10:57:41 AM

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i wonder if he reads this board....and will know this is what others think as well as i did of him and others like him........ or will some new sub that has no clue fall for the likes of him?!?!

i have made a post in my journal.....that hopefully will keep guys like him away. i thank you all so much for your advice.

~misty~

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RE: A Question if You please - 11/3/2006 1:31:02 PM

ShreveportMaster

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In answer to the original question,
Yes, We who are genuinely looking for true consensual slavery, r/l 24/7 do indeed have a much harder time of it because of idiots like this.

I wish you well,
Shreve

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RE: A Question if You please - 11/3/2006 4:08:50 PM

CandleInTheWind

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in answer to your question the answer to any of these wanna bees should be this
I am a submissive.....I am not YOUR submissive!

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RE: A Question if You please - 11/4/2006 1:19:01 PM

losttreasure

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

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ORIGINAL: rascallymisty

Thank You all for Your advice and well wishes.

LOL i wonder if He has wrote You also Najakcharmer.....as he did use U and 2 and 4 and so on.

Most of these types do. It's very hard to type complete two and three letter words when typing with one hand.

While I didn't really expect it to make a difference, I did request in my profile that "netspeak" not be used when contacting me... but I wasn't surprised that the practice continued. However, I was amused by a case where the sender concluded his message by making the effort to explain that his use of "u" was a term of endearment similar to calling someone "pet".

I had to give him credit... he at least demonstrated that he'd read my profile... and he was creative.

Didn't help him any, though.

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RE: A Question if You please - 11/4/2006 3:01:17 PM

medicalsub

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As many others have said... Just because you identify as a submissive (or slave for that matter) doesn't mean you have to submit to every one who calls himself a dominant, master, top, lord, or king of the universe. Just block him and put it out of your mind.

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