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How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 7:10:14 PM

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I'm a straight guy and would like to find some other guys in my area - West Virginia - who are into spanking. If I see a guy I'd like to spank me or that I'm interested in spanking, how can I find out if he's interested without totally humiliating myself? Any ideas?

RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 7:11:43 PM

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"Please spank me."

That'll work.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 7:14:51 PM

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Just ask. It's ok.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 7:45:34 PM

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Well if you meet them on here....ask. Simple as that.

If you meet them on the street...eh, don't know what to tell you. You're straight, so it's not like you're looking for a guy to get more intimate with, so there goes the affectionate swatting him on the ass to break the ice.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 7:49:32 PM

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Have you tried searching the profiles at http://www.collarme.com/bdsm/default.htm ?

If you click on the blue box that reads "Interest Search Off" you will be given a screen to search the profiles by interest. Spanking is listed under the "BDSM 3" tab.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 8:03:22 PM

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You have to read up on telepathy so you and learn to read other peoples minds.

During casual conversation, mention phrases such as "Spank you very much" "Somebody spank me" and "Something like that is going to get you spanked" See who takes it as a joke and who takes it as flirting.

Get more envolved with sports. Football and Baseball players slap each other on the arse all the time.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 8:06:13 PM

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Best reply ever!

Ya, as others have said...for the most part, you can just ask him. Most men wouldn't be too bothered by the question.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 8:08:17 PM

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My secretary says "Gag me" to me all the time. Bitch. We both know what's going on, and we both know nothing's going to happen, because I'm not going to do shit about it.

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During casual conversation, mention phrases such as "Spank you very much" "Somebody spank me" and "Something like that is going to get you spanked" See who takes it as a joke and who takes it as flirting.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 8:12:01 PM

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I'm a straight guy and would like to find some other guys in my area - West Virginia - who are into spanking. If I see a guy I'd like to spank me or that I'm interested in spanking, how can I find out if he's interested without totally humiliating myself? Any ideas?

Well yungspankee, i guess you take the same chance that everyone else does around here when you approach another. Sometimes you have to ask to know...and might be embarrassed by their response. If you approach them, i guess you will have to expect that. On here, it might help to only apporach those who specify spanking somewhere in their profile. That might cut down on the 'available opportunities'...but you may save yourself some 'humiliation'.

But beside that.....there are other groups outside of this whose main focus is spankings...male/fem, male/male, fem/fem, etc. You might try a google search for 'spanking groups' (or something simliar). i actually do have a link to a spankings personals site but can't seem to find it right now :(

If you'd like that opportunity, please email me directly and i will try to find what i have.

Otherwise, best wishes to you....

Daddysgirl

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 8:54:38 PM

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Dear yungspankee, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Perhaps these links may be of assistance;

http://dmoz.org/Adult/Regional/North_America ... s/Washington,_DC/Society/BDSM/

http://www.the-crucible.com/groups.htm

These links are spanking club specific.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 9:07:50 PM

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Shake Dat Thing at 'em ..... if they slap it, they are, if the slap your face, they're not. :)

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/18/2006 10:34:21 PM

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Ya, as others have said...for the most part, you can just ask him. Most men wouldn't be too bothered by the question.

Most men would not be bothered if a guy just up and asked him to spank him? What planet is this?

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/19/2006 12:22:50 AM

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My secretary says "Gag me" to me all the time. Bitch. We both know what's going on, and we both know nothing's going to happen, because I'm not going to do shit about it.

LMAO

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/19/2006 12:38:46 AM

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I can totally see your dilema, and given that you do not have that intimacy with men like women do with one another, even moreso difficult. Instead of asking how to find a man who will deliver you, ask yourself why you want this. It may broaden your horizon as to your search.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/19/2006 7:10:45 AM

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And go to a WHIP meeting- that's the WVA group and they are very active and fun people.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/19/2006 8:00:32 AM

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When I was new, I joined several yahoo spanking groups and chatted with some people online about it until I realized that I was wanting more than just spanking. To find these groups, just go to the yahoo groups page and do a search on spanking, and you can even make it specific to your area. Once you join one, you usually get a document that lists all of them in the US, which can be helpful.

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RE: How do you find out if someone's into spanking? - 10/19/2006 9:25:50 AM

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