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RE: what is a switch - 11/27/2006 7:53:02 AM

defiantbadgirl

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A switch is someone who likes both controlling and being controlled. I think they make great partners because they don't dish out what they can't take themselves.

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RE: what is a switch - 11/27/2006 10:07:04 AM

Aine

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Don't dish out what we can't take ourselves?

*blinks*

That's a new one. I could dish out a lot that I could probably take, but probably wouldn't. At least not willingly.

What I -won't- do, is dish out something that the person I'm with isn't willing to take. I could be -very- sadistic, there are a lot of things that I would do, and I've thought about doing with my switch boyfriend. But I know he's not the kind of person to agree to a lot that I would find interesting and fun. He's most certainly not as masochistic as I am by any means. So I don't give him anything that he doesn't want.

That doesn't mean I wouldn't do it if the opportunity presented itself. There are things that I describe to him that I would want to have done to me, but rarely do I speak any further than something I wouldn't myself take. Mostly because I think that at this point in our relationship might make things a little rocky. He's got an idea of my dominant side and the things I'd be willing to do, but since those things aren't things that he enjoys...it's not something that comes into conversation. He's comfortable with what he knows and what -we- do in our relationship, he doesn't push me to know things that aren't conducive to our relationship. Those things I've referenced are things I've willingly put on the back burners because they do not have a place in relationship at this time.

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RE: what is a switch - 11/27/2006 12:46:15 PM

BitaTruble

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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

A switch is someone who likes both controlling and being controlled. I think they make great partners because they don't dish out what they can't take themselves.

Well, a fem switch can perform CBT on a subject, but certainly can't take it. ::chuckles:: There are lots of switches who are pain wimps but have huge sadistic streaks and could never take what they like to dish out.

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RE: what is a switch - 11/28/2006 9:43:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: Bearlee

I'm very submissive...but I LOVE to top. I don't really believe I have a dominant bone in my body...but I can be sadistic as hell to somebody I've got restrained. I couldn't imagine 'switching' with the same person...but am I a switch?

beverly

Bev,

Your definition and mine are very much alike. In terms of my primary partner (my husband/Dom) I am submissive. But give me a girl in restraints, or just another girl in our relationship, and I am anything but submissive.

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RE: what is a switch - 1/2/2007 8:43:26 AM

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Switch in the mid-scene!!!!! This is the greatest moment!!!!
Just try it!

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