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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 2:23:41 PM

KatyLied

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People, can we just agree that there is some major dysfunction going on? I think we've heard enough (from both sides) to make that judgement (yes, I said judgement). I would never treat a guest in my home like that. Period. I don't care what their lifestyle is or what issues I have with my Dom at the time. There is a time and place to get angry, and it's not in front of a guest.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 2:32:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

it gets deeper and deeper doesn't it

I got a spare set of waders, want to borrow them?

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 2:58:39 PM

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I'd be mad except if I only knew who got into my account. Anyways I came to check collarme out and lo and behold. I was signed out. So I signed in, came to see about the art and bdsm post and seen this. Thought WTF. Read it. So I am only going to say this. Believe what you will. But I want to clear all this up. I do not own dogs what so ever. For god's sake where would they sleep? The ceiling? My master, who will be informed of his name also being used, has never posted anything in discussions. My master and I share a small apartment. We don't entertain guests for there would be no place for them to sit. Hell we pretty much trip over each other here. He dosen't know any slaves in the area except for me. In fact he don't talk to other slaves even on collarme. All he does is just see who's new and goes on to check Myspace. And hey I'm an artist. Yes I WAS in the military. Army to be exact. I also don't own any vehicle. I either take the bus or walk. My master and I have thought of threesomes briefly but found that it would not work. Also with an unmentionable a poly wouldn't work. I don't want to have to explain to my unmentionable BDSM nor do I want to explain to other parents about the lifestyle. Hell its hard enough to explain to the cops half the time with my ex's shit. Again I wish to stress that my master and I are happy and do not wish to ever discuss our personal lives. Also we would never drop such a problem onto the community. It is the most disrespectful and waste of time. Nor would I ever dream of doing such a thing to any guest. I may hate my mom, but I don't treat her like shit. I just grin and make the best of it. Even if that means having to hear her complain about making windows. I also DO NOT HATE females. I have met many that were pretty nice and cool. Some I am still friends with.

Again I apologize to everyone here for the waste of time and anything else this post has caused. This was not of my doing. So I am off to recreate my profile since it was also deleted and to take care of my unmentionable. I bid you all a good day.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 3:07:56 PM

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Wow. *blink blink* THAT was bizarre.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 3:15:34 PM

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i am currently in the state of confusion (and i prefer it that way)

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 3:21:13 PM

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Just when you think it can't possibly get more dysfunctional.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 3:23:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: twicehappy

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

it gets deeper and deeper doesn't it

I got a spare set of waders, want to borrow them?

After reading that last bit, yes please!

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 3:32:22 PM

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And now...stay tuned for another episode of ... "LifeStyles of the Weird and Strangest" Starring....???

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 3:40:42 PM

cynthiamarie

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Hm, so this is what everyone means when they say online dramas.

Glad that all of this hit the fan BEFORE I responded, heh.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 6:50:08 PM

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EDIT TO ADD: Guess that's what happens when you don't read ALL the previous posts. What a bunch of wierdos!! Someone hacked my computer and made up the wacko post? Geeze pass the meds...think I have a headache.

Just my reading between the lines it sounds like master brought the 2nd home as a suprise?
Being rude isn't acceptable ever...wolf dogs included. Being upset/ bothered/ pissed off at something that wasn't discussed is normal, talking to your master about it at an appropriate time is the correct way to handle this. Some believe that as a slave you have no choice in these things...I don't. Part of consent is consenting to things that can fundimentally change your life. When you add in the other pieces it seems like there is more going on that you explained in this one scenario.
Summary is you need to apologize to BOTH of them. He needs to get a better grip on who you are and you need to discuss his expectations again. If he's changing the rules midstream it's his bad for setting a bad scene into motion. Deciding to become poly changes the rules. Bringing home a beta with whatever good intentions is a bad idea especially since by now(assuming the unmentionable is his) he should already know that you and the dogs don't play well with others. He should also apologize to this beta because he likely told her that he'd discussed everything with you (guessing not true), that you couldn't wait to meet her (pretty obvious not true) and you were both eager to have her join you (hard to consent when she's a suprise). This likely soured yet another eager beta because he lied.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 7:00:10 PM

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As far as I can see she did NOT make guest feel unwelcome.Guest left due to fear of pets.She tried her best, which may or may not be up to some peoples ideas of adequate but nonetheless tried to put on as good a face as possible..I am sorry but Master was at fault for delivering surprise, and for breaking said agreement, as stated this guest was brought in as slave not just as a guest. He tried to test the waters and present Wolf, his slave, with fait accompli...I give him credit for taking responsibility for this debacle...but it was simply not cricket...now they explain guest will come as that simply guest and I have no doubt that all will be well...IMO if the said crying slave can forgive and return as a guest then maybe what happened was not so badly treated but realized that maybe she was overreacting to the pet situation...best wishes to you both..Tempting

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 8:11:01 PM

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If you have a guest, you ought to be polite. Offer them coffee, sit and talk.

However if he invited her without asking you if it was convenient, and you had things to do, I see nothing wrong in saying that this is not a time you're available, you have to supervise homework, make dinner, walk the dogs.

If he brought someone over for play after school let out, then I'd throw them both out. I expect that in front of the small people, everyone should act in a manner that is appropriate. And coming on to him is inappropriate for them to see.

But he knows you have large, protective dogs and yet did not bother to mention it to her? He owes an apology to her for that and to you for sticking you with a guest when he knew you had work, and to the small people for subjecting them to her. You however owe her an apology for not offering her an explanation when she arrived that this was not a convenient time. And if you were deliberately rude, you owe one for that.

If she knew you were not expecting her, then she owes you one for showing up unannounced expecting you to drop everything to entertain her.

Basically, you all could do with a course in manners.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 8:31:45 PM

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EDITED: Now having read the rest of the posts, I have a better idea of what happened. My first post was in response to only the original post. I'm sorry!

I think that the OP and her master need to reevaluate their relationship - specifically to determine what each wants from the relationship. If he wants poly and agreed to being monogomous, then that's going to be an issue at some point.

I feel that the majority of the blame here is on the master. He brought another slave into the OP's home, knowing that there were unmentionables and dogs that would make the other slave uncomfortable (knowing her history of being bitten) and with NO warning. The master knows his slave's problems with other females and this should have been something that was eased into, rather than jumped into.

That's irresponsible, both in regards to his slave and the one he brought over.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 9:16:48 PM

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I have a headache.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 9:25:44 PM

crouchingtigress

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Any one care to interpret this thread for me.....maybe a readers digest version....????....anyone....anyone.....bueller?....

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 9:50:57 PM

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Crouchingtigress, i think... the OP was about a guest and a vist that ended badly, and aplogy due or not due, and manners about guests and pets and Masters keeping to promises about mono vs poly... then Master defense as slave was taken out .. then a tribunal of friends posted thier mediation solutions.. <pant,pant,pant>

THEN... appearantly the whole originating post was typed by someone who got into the account and posted a false story, then falsely posted as the Master, then falsely posted as the tribunal... SO...

Either the original owner of the account really embarrassed herself and now wants to disavow the whole story, blaming "Hijakers" OR.. there was a breach in her account, and it was done to frame the couple and make everyone look stupid.

i think someone will put a poll up to vote on which version of the story rings truest. (i think that's what i got so far, but i could be wrong)

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 10:01:16 PM

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lol thankyou~!....thats what i thought, but i kept thinking i was missing something.

BTW Mavis I love reading you.

i have to admit that there are times i would use the old, someone-hacked-into-my-thread-excuse if i was naive enough to think anyone would believe it....*grin*

ahhhh to be that young again.

to the OP and secret santa of the OP: Wolves and tribunals...i think you might have us confused with a Star trek episode.....

sorry that was snarky....i could not help it...i tried ...i honestly did.....but i am only human.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 10:04:03 PM

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In summation, did anyone notice that the "false story" with the dogs and the hatred of females and such was posted on 10-25, at 1:48:16 pm (collarMe time) and then a post about growling in one's sleep was posted that same day at 1:57:21 (collarMe time)by the same "author". So the account was hacked, a phony post (because she has no dogs, lives with Master in utter bliss in a tiny apt, you know the drill...) was posted...and then another phony post in an ongoing thread was put up a bit less than 10 minutes later? Or is that post on growling real and the first post hacked? Or...

I submit, jury, that there is reasonable doubt as to the veracity of any of these people. I move we convict them all (Master, sub, dogs, visitor) of incurable idiocy, and adjourn for a beer.

E.

(Yah....I notice things ... like times and inconsistencies and discrepancies. I can't help it. It makes Me better at My job, and probably makes Me a better (certainly more obsessively attendant) Dominant. But sometimes I wish the little elves in my brain would take a break and I could be just another happy idiot.)

OH, and edited to add:

quote:

crouchingtigress: i have to admit that there are times i would use the old, someone-hacked-into-my-thread-excuse if i was naive enough to think anyone would believe it....*grin*

Did you also try "My dog ate my homework?"

WAIT. I'm sorry....She doesn't have dogs!

OH that was snarky (GRIN)

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 10:12:38 PM

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... the 60's were good to them!

Now, dammit, where are my meds?

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 10:15:32 PM

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RE: post 117 (since i can't figure out how to quote yet)

i was thinking the same thing when i read all this a couple hours ago, but didn't want to jump in and say anything bad in my first couple of posts on these boards. Another discrepancy was that the dogs both eyed her visitor, but one of them was in the bedroom??

Is this really a game of clue??????

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i'll take that beer now........this has worn me flat out.

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