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straight or sub - 10/27/2006 1:55:57 PM

needabitchforher

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I am currently seeking a sub for my sub, viewing ads, why do female subs/slaves say they are straight but then list that they seek Dom/Dom couples, Don't they realise they may have to serve the female sexually as well

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RE: straight or sub - 10/27/2006 2:06:53 PM

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Well, you're assuming their service is sexual in nature and it may not be.. and that Dom/Dom couples are Male/Female, which is also not necessarily true.. I would just go ahead and write the individual and ask them.

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RE: straight or sub - 10/27/2006 2:34:06 PM

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Most who seek couples are gay men pretending to be women, just like most teens with one bad picture, a short profile and no posts are almost all men.

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RE: straight or sub - 10/27/2006 9:05:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

Most who seek couples are gay men pretending to be women, just like most teens with one bad picture, a short profile and no posts are almost all men.

Why would a gay man seek a couple, unless the couple were both male and then what would pretending to be a women accomplish?

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RE: straight or sub - 10/27/2006 9:10:49 PM

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Service does not HAVE to be sexual. Sometimes, Dom/Domme couples, the male partner has femsubs that te female doesnt play with sexually. Ive been in situations like that were I have had a boy and a Dom partner, and my boy served us both, but my partner AND my boy were both straight... so there was no sexual contact.

It is possible.

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RE: straight or sub - 10/29/2006 8:24:59 AM

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a slave can be straight, but perform with another female on the occasions that it pleases the Master to see this. Just because she would not choose on her own to be intimate with a female, does not mean that she will not be intimate with another female to please her Master.

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RE: straight or sub - 10/29/2006 10:57:35 PM

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why would you look for a sub for a sub? is your sub really a switch? why wouldn't you just get a second sub for your household?

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RE: straight or sub - 10/29/2006 11:55:40 PM

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We owned a female slave for a while and neither of us ever had any sexual contact with her. Many Dom/Dom couples seek domestic-type service only, and are quite disinterested in a sexual relationship with their property. Sex isn't necessarily a part of every D/s, M/s, or T/b relationship.

Why would a gay man seek a couple? Maybe the male of the couple is bisexual, and the slave craves intense S&M scenes, which might necessitate two Tops. It takes all kinds. As LA always says, if you can think of it, someone's doing it.

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RE: straight or sub - 10/30/2006 10:35:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: needabitchforher

Don't they realise they may have to serve the female sexually as well

Noone has to do anything !!

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RE: straight or sub - 10/30/2006 4:09:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slave4Darby3d

why would you look for a sub for a sub? is your sub really a switch? why wouldn't you just get a second sub for your household?

I was going to ask the same thing. When i had an online dom years ago he gave me my own online sub as a gift and the three of us would play out scenes, but i had a terrible time domming her, it just wasn't my nature, so we ended up being sister subs instead.

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RE: straight or sub - 10/30/2006 5:47:00 PM

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....................... and some of us just lie about certain things to ward off those seeking simply sexual service.

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