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health and fisting - 10/27/2006 2:14:49 PM   
gemy


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Status: offline 		hi there ,,,,, i post this question here as i saw an earlier thread on a health issue, and thought perhaps this is the right place to ask this,,,,,,,,,

i was recently in a fisting scene, which was with a Dominant very well known and respected in the community, and Who has a reptuation for fisting expertise, as well as being known for many years by a Domme Whom i trust more than You can imagine ,,,

the scene was awesome! flogging, spanking, etc., and the fisting,,, rubbing, touching, oodles of lube, etc. ~~ however, it has taken almost 3 weeks for me to feel normal again ,,,,, at first the UTI feeling lasted probably a week, but with constant testing i know it was not a UTI, just the feeling of one ,,,, and i felt hurty and bloated for probably 3 weeks, sloooooowly subsiding till now i feel fine ,,,,,,,

my room mate, who does fisting relatively often, says she may feel those things for a couple days, but never for such a long period of time ~~

has anyone else had this problem? or have any feedback?

thanks so very much *smiles
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RE: health and fisting - 10/28/2006 2:17:41 PM   
Farlo


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Status: offline 		Hey Gemy
I think that your "Experianced" Domme may of rushed It ...
In my experiance ( I have fisted 12 Women, Some newbies and some experianced ) I have never known one to have much more than a tingling slight burning feel in there vagina for more than a day ...
The best advice I can give you is ... Make sure that the fisters hands are clean, nails trimmed with nothing sharp at all exposed, Lots of lube and take it real slow ... If the fister has too push hard your NOT ready !!!  It should give you a full feeling and a mind blowing G spot orgasm.

Cheers
Farlo

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RE: health and fisting - 10/28/2006 2:20:22 PM   
PrimitiveLogic


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Status: offline 		What was the hand : vagina ratio in size?  Should you have begun with a woman's hand first? 

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RE: health and fisting - 10/28/2006 8:22:44 PM   
BDSM05478


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Status: offline 		such prolonged feelings of discomfort are not the usual in my experience. Sounds like you had/have an abrasion, scratch or tear aong the walls that is being irrated when you pee ( i am assuming that is what you ment when you said UTI) Like Farlo said, hygien is very importent as is ALOT of lube and patience. If nails can't be clipped as short as possible, use a rubber/latex/surgical glove cause you would not believe how much bacteria is under the human nail.

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RE: health and fisting - 10/30/2006 7:20:31 AM   
gemy


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Status: offline 		hmmmm, His hand was large, but not huge *smiles* ~ He used latex gloves ~ and He says "use 4 times more lube then you think you could possibly need"  lol  and oh yes!! i had the most mind blowing g-spot orgasms ever

i'd do it again in a heartbeat

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RE: health and fisting - 10/30/2006 8:40:47 AM   
LadyKmtl


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Status: offline 		It may have been the rubbing against your vaginal wall that's right behind your bladder. It happened to me once, I had it treated as a UTI but my doc (who's very understanding of my lifestyle) told me that I had bruised my bladder. He told me that Gspot stimulation shouldn't be excessive, especially after ejaculating or having a very intense orgasm cause that could cause some serious discomfort.

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RE: health and fisting - 11/4/2006 10:18:01 PM   
dsamethyst


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Status: offline 		gemy..
there is something referred to as honeymoon cystitis and basically what it is is an inritation to the bladder wall...that canhappen from an abrasion to the wallof the bladder itis often treated as an infection but it isnt actuallly an infection...its an inflamation   so um what to do with  it??  explain thhat you had the area thoroghly irritated...if it continues consulta urologist...rather than just a plain old MD or a GYN...they think  horses  not zebras!

Im hoping by now you are doingbetter..

little red

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RE: health and fisting - 11/4/2006 10:28:03 PM   
Emperor1956


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Status: offline 		gemy:  little red may have hit it right with "honeymoon cystitis" (although generally I don't like online, nonprofessional diagnoses).  I have another thought:  What lube was used?  Many of the "sex shop" lubes contain scents or fillers that are very allergenic in some people.  It sounds like you might have an allergy, and believe Me, there is no better "patch test" in the world than coating your vaginal and cervical area with a substance and waiting for the itch.  Try good old KY, or Astroglide, both of which are pretty hygenic, or check out some of the high tech lubes that are sold at quality sex stores like Good Vibrations.

You might also douche after a fisting, using nothing but water and maybe a bit of vinegar or similar anti-bacterial/fungal stuff (assuming you aren't allergic to it).

E.

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RE: health and fisting - 11/5/2006 8:32:15 PM   
LadyKmtl


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Status: offline 		But do watch out, especially with vinegar because if you have a tiny little abraision, this will hurt like...it'll hurt a lot, I talk from experience.

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RE: health and fisting - 11/5/2006 8:42:46 PM   
Emperor1956


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quote:

LadyKmtl:  But do watch out, especially with vinegar because if you have a tiny little abraision, this will hurt like...it'll hurt a lot, I talk from experience.


You are correct, miss.  But you know what we say:  No pain, No gain.  *GRIN*

E

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RE: health and fisting - 11/6/2006 2:39:17 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		greetings
 
did you go to see a doctor? you may have injure you tissue there this is not something to take lightly . how were you bowel movements this is a question that can answer what may had gone wrong . i find this to be a harsh way to have pleasures a fist you ones ass is big and some take it up to elbow that is reaching into you small intentines this feeling od bloating is strange was this you first time i can not see if you said it was. when you fo this is the fist open or close. does she move her fingers around you should had went to a doctor really very dangerous stuff take care and go to a doctor
 
mons wish you health

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RE: health and fisting - 11/6/2006 8:20:09 AM   
Emperor1956


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did you go to see a doctor? you may have injure you tissue there this is not something to take lightly . how were you bowel movements this is a question that can answer what may had gone wrong . i find this to be a harsh way to have pleasures a fist you ones ass is big and some take it up to elbow that is reaching into you small intentines this feeling od bloating is strange was this you first time i can not see if you said it was. when you fo this is the fist open or close. does she move her fingers around you should had went to a doctor really very dangerous stuff take care and go to a doctor 
 


Mons, and all:  This is totally inaccurate and somewhat hysterical.  Mons, you apparently don't know anything about fisting.  There is NO way that a fisting goes into anyone's small intestine -- it is physically impossible and your lack of anatomical knowledge coupled with your apparent dislike of fisting does everyone a disservice.

I am willing to tolerate your dyslexia and inability to express yourself in writing, Mons, but when you start talking out of your ass about things you don't understand, you should get called on it.

E.

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"It's the same thing," he said.

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RE: health and fisting - 11/15/2006 2:28:38 PM   
gemy


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Status: offline 		thank Y/you all very very much!  yes, i do feel much better and all those bad feelings went away ~~ as i said before *smiles* i would do it again in a heartbeat - it was THE most awesome experience to date ,,,,,,  i cannot wait until i am owned and can experience not only the beautiful, physical delights that await, but the service, commitment and power exchange that are also awaiting me ,,,,,,,,,,,

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RE: health and fisting - 11/15/2006 3:01:13 PM   
tade


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Status: offline 		My wife and I have been fisting (God I hate that term) for a few years now. Among our dirty little circle of friends we are the ones everyone comes to when they decide they want to try and we have never had any problems. As long as you feel good now and your instincts aren't saying "Slow the fuck down" then I would tend to think everything's A-ok. Just remember the next time to go as slow or as fast as your body is telling you to. Some woman I have known took the whole hand right off the bat and others have had to work at it for weeks or longer. It's a journey, not a destination. Good Luck and have fun...

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RE: health and fisting - 11/17/2006 6:59:35 AM   
Denny17


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Status: offline 		Fisting is an all time favorite of mine.  Prepare to spend alot of time each time.  GO SLOW. First clean the ass with an enema.  Don't use soap or water that's too hot; just take it  easy and get the water high inside and as much as you can get in him. Some  guys/girls have a rule about passing clear water three times before the ass is ready.  Stay out of scat here.  After he's/she's cleaned out, let them relax for a while and recover, enemas take  a lot out of a them, pun aside. Both of you will enjoy it more that way. Dont bare fist. Wear surgical gloves or don't do it at all! Blood vessels are close to the surface around your  fingernails,  that makes it easier for the little beasties to get in and  like shaving, it is possible to have nicks, cuts and scratches that are  too small for you to see. So use the damned gloves and clip yoru nails and file them.  You don't want to pierce the colon not to mention puncturing the gloves and what THAT  can do to you!  I know gloves will reduce your sensitivity, but would you  rather have the reduced sensitivity for the session or for eternity?  Be freakin  
be extra careful about what you do inside her or his ass.   Get the
elbow-length gloves (if you can find them).  

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RE: health and fisting - 11/17/2006 8:44:42 AM   
LadyKmtl


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Status: offline 		I've never done anal fisting, I find it a little scary esp since I've trained most men I've met anally. Thanks Denny, I like your advice!

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RE: health and fisting - 11/17/2006 9:52:38 AM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		I have a very delicate system I am very highly prone to urinary tract infection, yeast infection, etc...so I would never consider fisting ...my body is so tight that once a man tried ....three fingers hurt  to each their own....anal fisting? that is so out of the question lol

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RE: health and fisting - 11/17/2006 1:50:43 PM   
medievalwench


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Status: offline 		its not something i fancy trying at this point, actually i think that i would get so freaked out that it wouldn't be possible, i guess it is another hard limit for me,
wench


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RE: health and fisting - 11/18/2006 2:15:55 AM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Farlo

Hey Gemy
I think that your "Experianced" Domme may of rushed It ...
In my experiance ( I have fisted 12 Women, Some newbies and some experianced ) I have never known one to have much more than a tingling slight burning feel in there vagina for more than a day ...
The best advice I can give you is ... Make sure that the fisters hands are clean, nails trimmed with nothing sharp at all exposed, Lots of lube and take it real slow ... If the fister has too push hard your NOT ready !!!  It should give you a full feeling and a mind blowing G spot orgasm.

Cheers
Farlo



Hey I was going to say about the fish....I told her to have him  come over and shower 1st.

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RE: health and fisting - 11/19/2006 10:54:02 AM   
CandleInTheWind


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

quote:

did you go to see a doctor? you may have injure you tissue there this is not something to take lightly . how were you bowel movements this is a question that can answer what may had gone wrong . i find this to be a harsh way to have pleasures a fist you ones ass is big and some take it up to elbow that is reaching into you small intentines this feeling od bloating is strange was this you first time i can not see if you said it was. when you fo this is the fist open or close. does she move her fingers around you should had went to a doctor really very dangerous stuff take care and go to a doctor 
 


Mons, and all:  This is totally inaccurate and somewhat hysterical.  Mons, you apparently don't know anything about fisting.  There is NO way that a fisting goes into anyone's small intestine -- it is physically impossible and your lack of anatomical knowledge coupled with your apparent dislike of fisting does everyone a disservice.

I am willing to tolerate your dyslexia and inability to express yourself in writing, Mons, but when you start talking out of your ass about things you don't understand, you should get called on it.

E.



this poster obviously doesnt know his anatomy either..if fisting ones  anus  one wouldnt be ablet o each past probably the sigmoid colon at all...the smallintestines about um 9 feet past the anus...  think sigmoid 1/2 ft  desccending colol3 feet  transverse colon 3 feet ascending colon 3 ft  poof small intestines 

may be you could push a bit on different parts of the colon  but to touch them   uh not a likely thing

just the opinion of 3 1/3 years worth of anatomy education

little red

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