RE: What if?

RE: What if? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion

Message

Owned1 -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 8:01:43 PM)
Thank you Noah, I was starting to wonder if what I was typing was truly that difficult to understand. Owned

RedSavageSlave -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 8:42:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah quote: ORIGINAL: Kalira /raises an eyebrow, bows slightly, and smiles As you wish Oh please. /opens mouth, inserts finger deeply, and leaves the rest to your imagination. thank you for using some discretion on that one Noah LOL

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 9:48:08 PM)
If I had 24/7 as you..and unmentionables etc..then I would do exactly as you are doing..have a great time!!!!...walks away mumbling..."shoo I need a vacation"![&o]..(grin)....Tempting

Owned1 -> RE: What if? (10/31/2006 9:54:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub If I had 24/7 as you..and unmentionables etc..then I would do exactly as you are doing..have a great time!!!!...walks away mumbling..."shoo I need a vacation"![&o]..(grin)....Tempting lol well put, yanno sometimes 2 days of freedom is more of a vacation than one that is a week or more long. Virtually no preparations, no travel. I suggested to Master he may want to chain me to the bed for a length of time and leave me alone to ponder my behaviour up to this weekend. Dang it though he saw right through me and said there is no way you are sleeping all day saturday. Dominants what can you do with them?!?!? <smiles> Owned

PlayfulOne -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 4:45:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx But, that IS my reality. I don't have the distractions. Sure, the odd bit of laundry and housework gets accomplished, and the bills get paid. I go to work, but I'm in my own headspace most of the time there. Other than that, I CAN and DO live my 24/7 lifestyle world. Maybe that's because outside infringements aren't permitted. And I believe that would be part of the problem in finding a suitable partner. Most other people can't envision being able to live that life all the time. They have their own distractions. Jeff I think I'll borrow a cue from Noah and stick my finger down my throat. What you wrote is self righteous drival. I guess I should not have "permitted" my little ones grandmother to have a heart attack nor should I have "permitted" her to rush to her or to spend time helping tend to her. Distractions and life happen whether you "permit" them or not. You also obviously have no little monsters as their needs, problems, and concerns come before everything, either that are you were a terrible parent. Funny how people who say things like this are always "Looking" for a partner. Should that be a surprise? K

Celeste43 -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 5:30:05 AM)
Sorry, if I got two days off I want it to be in a hotel with room service. Someone else gets to do the cleaning, cook, change light bulbs etc. Being at home means I'm reminded of undone errands. Play lots. Catch up on missing sleep. Hug and kiss with no phones ringing or other interruptions.

deltadawn -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 5:39:43 AM)
I would light candles in a pathway to the hot tub, be waiting there in his favorite outfit with a silver bow tied around me and two glasses of wine in my hands, towels would be warming in the warmer and the rest would be up to him. Knowing him, it would be a wild 2 days. dawn

Dnomyar -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 5:45:40 AM)
Calm down PlayFul One. Because a person does not know how to relax is no reason to jump on them. I have a brother like that. Somedays I take him by the hand to go fishing to relax and get away from all of the home and work pressures. I had another workaholic brother that finally took his first vacation and had a heart attack while on it. Some people get so wrapped up in their family and work trying to make ends meet that they have to be forced to relax and stop and smell the roses.

gypsygrl -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 8:00:15 AM)
If I get 9 hours sleep, I think I'm on vacation. :) The two days would have to be some place outside of my apartment so I wouldn't be reminded of all that reality stuff and with someone I'm totally taken by so I can spend alot of time forgetting myself by doing a lot of worshippy kinds of things. Other than that, so long as I had a blindfold that I could put and take off at at will, I'd leave the details up to the other person.

amuzingtoyou -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 10:02:40 AM)
To the OP, i think its a wonderful question you asked. Certainly not one for anyone to get offended over. We live hectic lives filled with children and work and responsibilities. I love my life, however i would love to have 48 hours where it could just be me and him. I don't think there is anything wrong with desiring that. Selfish on my part? perhaps. What would we do? I can't really answer that, because it would be up to him. But to be alone with him for 48 hours without children or other people interrupting would be heaven. To the one who said she was happy with her life, and wouldn't change a thing...well im glad for you. However your post did come across as a bit self righteous. I don't wish to change my life, but i would like some uninterrupted time with the BigGuy. I think its ok as a submissive to say...hey i have wants too.

agirl -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 10:57:28 AM)
Coo..........I hope you enjoy your days of peace and tranquility, without the distractions of day to day life. It's bloody wonderful to be hedonistic and have the chance to give in to that and to switch off. My reality isn't exactly a burden........but having a total * island* of time to romp around the herb garden is utter joy, for me. And the memories......... and thoughts......knowing glances afterwards.....yeyy, enjoy. agirl

Shalyn -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 11:04:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gypsygrl If I get 9 hours sleep, I think I'm on vacation. :) I can relate here. I usually get only 5-6 hours of sleep every night. If I sleep in past 7 in the morning, then that is a vacation for me. Honestly, I do not know how i would spend my time. I am leaving tomorrow morning to visit my Master face to face for the first time. We have been chatting online for 8 years now, have a wonderful online relationship, and now we have decided to take it to that next level. I am looking foward to it. I will say this tho, 4 days without my 3 kids will be both good and bad. I will miss them more than enough but at the same time, i plan on enjoying my time away. I say just ave a good time with your 2 days...Enjoy it!! :)

Tikkiee -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 11:33:29 AM)
quote: if you knew you had 2 days to spend escaping from that reality how would you envision your 2 days/nights. I would envision them to be no differently. The two days would be spent doing exactly what I do normally. quote: Master and I rarely have uninterrupted time alone in the house. To achieve that more often than not we need to go away to be 100% overtly who we are to each other. What a terrible shame that you have to hide your true selves on a normal daily basis.

Sinergy -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 11:43:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 I suggested to Master he may want to chain me to the bed for a length of time and leave me alone to ponder my behaviour up to this weekend. Dang it though he saw right through me and said there is no way you are sleeping all day saturday. Dominants what can you do with them?!?!? <smiles> Owned This is why I am generally opposed to 24x7 caging. There I am, shopping, cleaning, paying bills, rescuing cats from trees, freeing the world from Aliens, defeating Al Qaeda, working to bring about world peace (whirled peas), etc., while she is locked in a cage to masturbate all day and watch Jerry Springer. Who is really the Dominant in this picture? Sinergy

Sinergy -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 11:47:54 AM)
Hello A/all, I have to plan my days off months in advance. :( If I had two full days to spend with my submissive, I imagine they would be spent in a cabin in the woods where we could sit and enjoy the silence and peace. If I had more time than that I know of all sorts of places I want to go. On the other hand, spending those two days in bed, only getting out to get the delivery pizza, change the DVD, get another bottle of massage oil from the medicine cabinet, or to beat her silly and bang her cross-eyed on the washer on spin cycle, is pure heaven. Just me, could be wrong, but there you go. Sinergy Just me, could be wrong, but there you go. Sinergy

ExtremeOwnerIL -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 11:59:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gretchenS I have to agree with ExtremeOwner. But in my case, I would be the girl bounded up with ropes to the bed... Sounds really nice! o.O I'm going to have to go check and see who is bound in bed with my girl now... Regards (with interesting thoughts...) EO

RedSavageSlave -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 1:29:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy There I am, shopping, cleaning, paying bills, rescuing cats from trees, freeing the world from Aliens, defeating Al Qaeda, working to bring about world peace (whirled peas), etc., while she is locked in a cage to masturbate all day and watch Jerry Springer. Who is really the Dominant in this picture? Sinergy well yanow... if YOU were the one putting her in the cage and deciding when she could come out.. you would still be the dominant... you might also be the dominant of a whole harem of willing females at that <wink> think about it LOL

mstrjx -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 5:07:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx But, that IS my reality. I don't have the distractions. Sure, the odd bit of laundry and housework gets accomplished, and the bills get paid. I go to work, but I'm in my own headspace most of the time there. Other than that, I CAN and DO live my 24/7 lifestyle world. Maybe that's because outside infringements aren't permitted. And I believe that would be part of the problem in finding a suitable partner. Most other people can't envision being able to live that life all the time. They have their own distractions. Jeff I think I'll borrow a cue from Noah and stick my finger down my throat. What you wrote is self righteous drival. I guess I should not have "permitted" my little ones grandmother to have a heart attack nor should I have "permitted" her to rush to her or to spend time helping tend to her. Distractions and life happen whether you "permit" them or not. You also obviously have no little monsters as their needs, problems, and concerns come before everything, either that are you were a terrible parent. Funny how people who say things like this are always "Looking" for a partner. Should that be a surprise? K I call it not having living family, avoiding having vanilla friends, and just because you feel you understand me so well....... I don't feel like looking anymore. Pleased? Jeff

PsyVamp -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 5:33:28 PM)
2 whole days....I might have had one day but then came the emergency operation on My youngest son... Life intrudes....and one must prioritize Now I'm trying to plan 2 whole days around Thanksgiving....and having dinner without the flatware...just to start things off right. Damn Vampyre

MistressSassy66 -> RE: What if? (11/1/2006 6:07:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalira I am sorry, but I have no wish to 'escape' from my reality. I find it to be the most fulfilling existance I have had, and will ever live. There is nothing that could be done in 2 days that I can not do on a normal day. [:)] I have to say I agree with that. I feel the same way.I do have to add not all days go as smootly as I would like. Overall,things are good the way they are.

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 4 5 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.046875