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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/6/2006 9:51:58 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		shamedmale, the second part of my response was directed toward the OP in response to his question.

The first part was clarifying to you that Lady Ellen was joking, not serious in her response.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/6/2006 10:29:11 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		My suggestion, taken from a friend of mine who was trying to train himself with chastity and was scared to death to trust someone else with the key.
Use ice. Put the key into an ice cube, and use the melting of the ice as your time control.  AS you move forward and want to increase the timebetween masturbation, just increase the size of the ice cube you freeze they key into.  The bigger the piece of ice, the longer the thaw and the longer you wait.
Granted, there are ways to cheat and get around this, but I have seen it used successfully for boys with ny Mistress to keep them in check.

I do know that using wil power alone is very difficult. My boy controls himself, and is only allowed to masturbate when he gets permission. He has requested a chastity device of some sort, becaue he admitted to me that it is very difficult on him sometimes. I would think that willfully trying to control that without the motivation of a Mistress' orders would be even more difficult.  Honorable, but asking a lot.

And if your not quite ready for the device stage, then that cold shower idea is right on target... or maybe some ice down the pants. Get rid of the hard-on and you wont want to masturbate, and there are tons of ways to get id of that.

DV

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/6/2006 11:06:32 AM   
LadyEllen


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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

self castration hmm i m glad im not serving you you seem extreme Lady Ellen in your ideas anyway im surprised by you


shamed - it was a reference to a thread in polls & random stupidity "really really bad advice" OK? Its likely on page 2 or 3 by now.

Thanks MsKat for your explanation too btw!

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/6/2006 11:44:53 AM   
shamedmale


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Status: offline 		thats fine
thank you

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/9/2006 8:12:49 AM   
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/9/2006 11:55:02 AM   
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/9/2006 12:02:52 PM   
LaTigresse


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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/9/2006 12:07:47 PM   
MstrssPassion


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ORIGINAL: mysteryshopper

I don't have a mistress, but I would like to stop.  I am on day #3 and I am having a difficult time carrying on.  reason for me stopping was that i was starting to see a decrease in size and firmness if i did it a lot!

Is there any tips to stop?  It seems chastitiy is outta the Q cause I have no mistress.



Use Bengay as lube

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/9/2006 5:34:35 PM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't stop a guy from masterbating...If he can't stop himself, if he is that hung up on handling it himself who am I to say otherwise. I had one that masterbated so much that it was the only way he could get a hardon. Needless to say... that didn't last long. Just something to think about... you know? Women are a strange bunch... we like to think we're more important and sexier then your right hand. So if knowing that your particular "problem" would be enough to stifle your chances of finding a Mistress isn't enough to stop you then more power to ya and may you and your hand have a wonderful relationship.
 
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/9/2006 5:37:57 PM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

My suggestion, taken from a friend of mine who was trying to train himself with chastity and was scared to death to trust someone else with the key.
Use ice. Put the key into an ice cube, and use the melting of the ice as your time control.  AS you move forward and want to increase the timebetween masturbation, just increase the size of the ice cube you freeze they key into.  The bigger the piece of ice, the longer the thaw and the longer you wait.
Granted, there are ways to cheat and get around this, but I have seen it used successfully for boys with ny Mistress to keep them in check.

I do know that using wil power alone is very difficult. My boy controls himself, and is only allowed to masturbate when he gets permission. He has requested a chastity device of some sort, becaue he admitted to me that it is very difficult on him sometimes. I would think that willfully trying to control that without the motivation of a Mistress' orders would be even more difficult.  Honorable, but asking a lot.

And if your not quite ready for the device stage, then that cold shower idea is right on target... or maybe some ice down the pants. Get rid of the hard-on and you wont want to masturbate, and there are tons of ways to get id of that.

DV


Yes, I've found this to be a highly effective method as well.

The fact is, by the time the ice has melted, the sub has already used it to chill 3 or 4 well deserved Crown Royals, by which time he really doesn't give a shit anymore.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/10/2006 8:28:04 PM   
ToServeIsToLive


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

Use Bengay as lube


To some masochists (whistles nonchalantly), that's not really a deterrent.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/10/2006 10:52:13 PM   
BootBlackBlast


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Status: offline 		Lock the keys in a bank safety deposit box... takes a big process of going to the bank, talking to people, getting into the deposit box, going home or to the nearest restroom to take it off and then that's only if you want to masturbate when the bank is open. or just trust the key to me. I'll offer to be a key holder for anyone who wishes to have one.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/10/2006 11:31:43 PM   
sissifytoserve


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(KIDDING!!!)

Sorry..couldn't resist.

Seriously...once you get a Mistress...you will want to save it for her.

If not...she has every right to lock you up in a nice device of her choosing.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/11/2006 1:05:28 AM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mysteryshopper

I don't have a mistress, but I would like to stop.  I am on day #3 and I am having a difficult time carrying on.  reason for me stopping was that i was starting to see a decrease in size and firmness if i did it a lot!

Is there any tips to stop?  It seems chastitiy is outta the Q cause I have no mistress.



This is going to go against the rest of the group here, but seriously, you're only 20. If you stop, you might explode. ;)

I'd say, get your licks in now while you can, because when you're 50, you might not be able to and you don't have a Mistress right now anyway.

There are a lot of things besides masturbation which can effect your girth and firmness.. weather, stress, drugs/alcohol, sleeping patterns. I wouldn't assume it's related to self-gratification. If you're really concerned about it see a doctor, but hell, at your age, it's completely normal to masturbate a lot.

Celeste

< Message edited by BitaTruble -- 11/11/2006 1:08:26 AM >

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/11/2006 1:11:06 AM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		Ooopps...didnt see the age factor...you are right Bita trouble.

i remember how i was at that age (damn..im old!!)

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/11/2006 2:12:39 AM   
MistressMaamNH


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Status: offline 		It is wise for you to learn some self-control now, before  finding a Mistress. Because if you have no control, how can you give it to someone else.  No amount of directions or implements are going to control you if you can't do it on your own...there will always be a way around them.  As many have said, you can use chastity devices if you think that will help..but even those are not 100% effective to the really motivated.  The first and most imporant level of control, has to begin and end, in your head.  It is a question of will-power. If you truly don't wish to participate in any given activity any longer..then you find ways to distract yourself and occupy  yourself until such time as you get over the habit.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/11/2006 2:21:57 AM   
iced05


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Status: offline 		I having one slaves boys who love to masterbate doesnt matter either inside office or in home ....... he not only love to play with his  dick but pervert as well he will imagine those sexy ladies in his  list while peep them later him imagine about her and masterbate .. he attitude really  piss me off .... what i  do to him is make him frustated and humiliating him first  i show him  certain photo tht make him horny when he getting  so hard i make him apply iced on his dick till his dick turn to shrink and limp ...........then i tease him why he cant get an erection ........which the photo .... i make sure  he couldnt  cum .... on the day .... and last thing i set a new rule for  him if he want to masterbate he had bought a point he need to have certain amount of  point than he  can masterbate if broke the  rule he get  penalty + punishment ..... now
slow ly improved and adopt to his current life .....................

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/11/2006 2:38:21 AM   
mjazz3


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Status: offline 		what iced05 says is quite true. I am the one she wrote about and I am a cronic masturbator and a pervet as well.

The ice on the cock is a good way to get that erection down. Put some cubes on the head and I soon lose the urge to wank off.

Iced05 now makes we pay for points and earn the right to masturbate which is good. I want to please her now and do it when she lets me.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/11/2006 5:52:22 AM   
BossySSBBW


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Status: offline 		If the profile is correct on mysteryshopper, the age listed is 20.  Most 20 year olds seem to have a perpetual erection problem.  I have heard that males are at their sexual peak around this age, maybe the hormones are just more than this person wants to deal with.  The Depo-Provera shot is a good solution as it will block those hormones, otherwise, find a good Mistress.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/11/2006 7:50:44 AM   
DiannaVesta


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Status: offline 		Lock it up. I have a special custom wax sealer. When I am a key holder to someone who lives long distance I have the key placed in a ball of wax with my seal. Sure he can cheat but I’ll know it and he will be banished from my service.

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