Mercurialdame -> RE: Age Play Dynamics (9/19/2007 4:00:22 PM)
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Hello MasterNdorei. We have tried age play ourselves. It has not been successful for us. Namely because of the 'attitude' my Dom has to it, he's squicked by it, totally. It would never of been a pivotal dynamic, just an extra for us. I read up, seemed a good thing, and we had a role play evening. This is where i went wrong. Id dressed as a pubescant girl. I was acting like this pubescant girl. What i found was, to my suprise, that i was regressing. I didnt want sexual attention, the 14-16 age range id aimed for, turned into 6-7 yrs. Where as i wanted to be cuddled, and have stories read to me, do some colouring, what i was getting was actually quite traumatic, as if i were experiencing the play as a 7yr old would. It was actually a very psychodynamic form of play, though neither of us had intended for this to happen. Regression, is a effect of age play, though it does not happen to many. It can. Be prepared for this. With lots of after care, we talked a lot about what had happened. How we'd not really thought this one through. Although he still remains squicked by the whole idea of age play, he does incorporate behaviours that bring on that 7 yr old in me, because he knows i like that. So whilst watching dvd, i get to sit curled up on the sofa with him, whilst he cuddles and strokes me. Tells me im a good girl etc. Put a school girl uniform on, and he's there with whistles n bells on! but that just dont work for me. Its strange, that whilst my inner censor goes off with the 'you'd like to fuck a daugher the same age as ours!' his doesnt. Whereas, you want to be 7yrs old? does. People are strange interesting creatures arent they. Personally, i admire the Daddy, Mommy/child dynamic. It looks very loving to me. Just not sure id be able to take that ever to a bedroom, so never sought it out. Interestingly, whilst searching for my partner, (im a switch) i only ever met one man that inspired the sub in me, this man. Most others annoyed the crap out of me and came accross as very pretentious. Daddy doms seldom seemed to come across this way. Most of them were older, mature, seasoned guys. Who often were bear shaped, and cuddly. Far less 'pushy' or arrogant, just that calm, not easily phased external aura, that i find very attractive in anyone, be they friend, colleague, lover. Mercurialdame
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