Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? Page: <<   < prev  2 3 4 5 [6]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 9:56:24 AM   
TreSwank


Posts: 1165
Joined: 3/5/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong


Maybe someone that is into it here will indulge us and  tell us Whit  is pleasurable about it all.


   Isn't there a sort of almost otherworldly sweetness present when you feel comfortable with all aspects of your partners body.....even the functions that alot of people perceive as being "gross?"  To be able to say,  "I love every part of you..............even the stuff that comes out of your ass", has gotta be a big step in a relationship.  I think that it probably creates some real, emotional rapport between two people.

(in reply to LotusSong)
Profile   Post #: 101
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 9:58:33 AM   
LotusSong


Posts: 6334
Joined: 7/2/2006
From: Domme Emeritus
Status: offline 		I'd never ask of my submissive to do anything I would not do myself.

(in reply to TreSwank)
Profile   Post #: 102
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 10:18:39 AM   
marieToo


Posts: 3595
Joined: 5/21/2006
From: Jersey
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Noah


quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

I think there are very few things that Im absolutely sure I would never do.  In my experience, I've learned that under the right circumstances in the right frame of mind, I have done things that I never thought I would do.  But scat....thats one that I don't think I could ever get past.  Even if I wanted to, I'd probably end up violently heaving.


Yeah? So?

Probly icing on the cake for your beloved ScatMan.

Might even inspire him to start easing you toward some edgey stuff.




Ha!   

"Please Sir, I want some more".



_____________________________

marie.


I give good agita.









(in reply to Noah)
Profile   Post #: 103
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 10:29:38 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


Posts: 4253
Status: offline 		**dare i say**

shit happens

LOL


_____________________________

Are we having fun, yet?

(in reply to marieToo)
Profile   Post #: 104
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 10:41:19 AM   
daddysprop247


Posts: 1712
Joined: 6/24/2005
From: DC Metro area
Status: offline 		*pinning my blue ribbon to my shirt* lol, thanks Tre.

i don't think it's such a big deal to do whatever your Owner demands of you, whether you like it or not. that's kinda what the whole ballgame is about.  but to those in other sorts of situations, i can understand them wanting to retain limits/no-go zones.
and as far as love goes, i agree that if you truly love a person then you gotta love all of them. that is why cleaning my Master's bum with my mouth after he goes no.2 (which is the form of scat we engage in) is not in the least bit humiliating or offensive to me. if anything i feel honored and priviliged that it's me alone he chooses to perform this service.

btw, this is something i am sometimes ordered to do for other Dominants i serve as well, and have no more issue with it then than i do with my own Master.

(in reply to LotusSong)
Profile   Post #: 105
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 11:24:29 AM   
adaddysgirl


Posts: 1093
Joined: 3/2/2004
From: Syracuse, NY
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn


Of course this is assuming that the Master is sane and doesn't request her to kill herself.  Extreme, but a possibilty.  (I am not specifically commenting on this sub and her Master, but on possible situations)


And with some slaves, this is a possibility.  This was just discussed throughly on 2 separate threads, starting with "consensual slavery...or not' and ending with 'everyone has limits' (both under general bdsm).   Interesting reads if you are so inclined.
 
Daddysgirl 

(in reply to LadyJulieAnn)
Profile   Post #: 106
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 11:28:31 AM   
Wildfleurs


Posts: 1650
Joined: 9/24/2004
From: Connecticut
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: TreSwank

   Even if scat isn't your cup-of-tea, would you try it if someone you really, really love requested "toilet play"?


Since the person that I love is my owner - Yes (and its not remotely my cup of tea).

I'd prolly use a lot of listerine afterwards.

C~

Edited for elaborations and typos


< Message edited by Wildfleurs -- 11/8/2006 11:35:06 AM >

_____________________________

"Just because you've always done it that way doesn't mean it's not incredibly stupid." -despair.com

~~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
The heart of it all - http://www.wildfleurs.com
~~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~

(in reply to TreSwank)
Profile   Post #: 107
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 11:57:29 AM   
diz


Posts: 1076
Joined: 9/6/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: TreSwank


For instance........I HATE going down on women.......despise it like Jesus despises sin......but I do it (well, despite my reluctance) because I know that women enjoy it, and I want to make them happy, because I am, arguably, a super-awesome person.  Now, how fair would it sound if I said to a girlfriend,  "If you love me, you should never expect me to eat your pussy during intercourse, because I detest the taste and smell of snatch."  I'd sound like an asshole. 

   You would not sound like an asshole to me..... i HATE receving oral sex.... i always shop in my head and do not even bother with sound effects, i have got to the stage where i warn folk that i dislike it.... Master knows not to bother now...... i have the art of cumming from giving oral sex so both winners really!!!

Would i indulge in toilet play for the One i really really love.. my compromise has been licking Him clean after anal play and thats as FAR as my love goes!!!!



edited cos i ain't got the hang of quotes etc and the keyboard keeps jumping around when i am trying to spell!!! pffftttt

< Message edited by diz -- 11/8/2006 11:59:03 AM >

(in reply to TreSwank)
Profile   Post #: 108
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 12:09:55 PM   
TreSwank


Posts: 1165
Joined: 3/5/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: TreSwank
To be able to say,  "I love every part of you..............even the stuff that comes out of your ass", has gotta be a big step in a relationship. 


That is, without a doubt, the funniest damn thing since Paul Lynde.  I know that it's in bad taste to quote yourself, but I really do say some fucking off-the-wall shit that even I can't believe sometimes.

quote:

ORIGINAL: daddysprop247
i agree that if you truly love a person then you gotta love all of them. that is why cleaning my Master's bum with my mouth after he goes no.2 (which is the form of scat we engage in) is not in the least bit humiliating or offensive to me. if anything i feel honored and priviliged that it's me alone he chooses to perform this service.


I think that's cute, and very sweet of you daddysprop247, to serve your Master with such enthusiasm and dedication.

< Message edited by TreSwank -- 11/8/2006 12:14:25 PM >

(in reply to TreSwank)
Profile   Post #: 109
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 1:58:40 PM   
caitlyn


Posts: 3473
Joined: 12/22/2004
Status: offline 		I would get poluted drunk and give it a try.

(in reply to TreSwank)
Profile   Post #: 110
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 1:58:55 PM   
Noah


Posts: 1660
Joined: 7/5/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

If they 'really really loved' me, they wouldn't ask me to


Bingo!  Add  "Respected" to that also.


Wait. Some guys actually ask their subs to do things?

I just love the principled thinking behind the sort of sentiments expressed above. I mean if you believe that kind of talk is operative then why can't he say: "If you really really loved/respected me you'd quit fucking whining and submit"? And then have a big "Nuh uh!" Uh huh!" pissing contest.

Oh I saw the wink. I'm talking about the people who seriously let this kind of shit escape their lips on either side of any question.

What then what cuts the knot? The trusty old "Subby Is Always Right" rule? Or the "Invariant Principle of Domly Ultimaticity"?

The way other people run their relationships is a frequent source of wonder and amusment for me, and no less in BDSM than among the good people.

Don't imagine that I'm promoting one view over the other in the above imagined squabble. They both partake of the same incoherence.

Draw your limits where you care to and enforce them as vigorously as you wish, but that "If you loved me you'd ..." talk is a hard limit, as a subcategory of the "Don't Try To Manipulate People With Incoherent Crap When You Can Just State Your Limits" rule.

(in reply to LotusSong)
Profile   Post #: 111
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 2:02:39 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		Now, that right there is something I could get in front of in a big way, can I pick thru your clothing and see what you are going to wear?

Yea!!!!! caitlyn.


Ron

_____________________________

Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30


(in reply to caitlyn)
Profile   Post #: 112
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 2:13:16 PM   
windchymes


Posts: 9410
Joined: 4/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: TreSwank

quote:

ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

fast reply to no one in particular:

if i really really loved someone, OR if i happened to be owned by someone who requested/demanded this, then yes i would do it. as it so happens, someone i really really love and who happens to own me does demand some things of this nature, and it was not nearly as gross or terrifying as i had previously imagined.

One.


Now that's a very respectable position, daddysprop247.  You are the next recipient of today's blue-ribbon award.

It seems so odd that men will resort to the most extreme sorts of behavior to please someone for whom they possess affection, but the majority of women can't even stomach a little bit of the "brown glory."



If this is the case, then why do men freak out and hand the baby off to the mother to change when the diapers are loaded?  And the mothers just take it all in stride, but the men gag, retch, and hold the package as though it's toxic waste?

_____________________________

You know it's going to be a GOOD blow job when she puts a Breathe Right strip on first.

Pick-up artists and garbage men should trade names.

(in reply to TreSwank)
Profile   Post #: 113
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 2:43:06 PM   
akisha


Posts: 2071
Joined: 6/25/2005
Status: offline 		FR.

I'd say no, plus I honestly don't think I'd be attracted to a Dom that scat was one of their "have to have" kinks.

Thank goodness Sir has the same view as myself. Pretty willing to do anything but scat is definately out. just too icky and un hygenic for me.

_____________________________

I'm confused.... No wait!!! Maybe I'm not

It's not a blonde moment! It's momentary peroxide posioning. ;)

Your pain makes me smile ~ Happy Bunny

532-095-649

(in reply to windchymes)
Profile   Post #: 114
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 3:20:17 PM   
onlythewindknows


Posts: 259
Joined: 10/22/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Bluebird

I have no interest in changing a diaper (baby or adult)


ah ya get used to it - with a baby at least - poo is just a fact of life.


_____________________________

As Darth once said: "you are beaten. It is useless to resist."

(in reply to Bluebird)
Profile   Post #: 115
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 5:14:26 PM   
Bluebird


Posts: 384
Joined: 2/17/2006
From: Las Vegas
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: onlythewindknows

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bluebird

I have no interest in changing a diaper (baby or adult)


ah ya get used to it - with a baby at least - poo is just a fact of life.



LOL - I don't have children for a variety of reasons, and believe it or not, this actually is not top of the list!  If someone I loved was in need of "personal care" due to illness, stroke, MS, etc., or if for some reason I was caring for a small child, I would do whatever needed to be done to keep them in a comfortable and hygenic environment.  I don't have an INTEREST in it (read that to mean, something I would do for fun or sport) but I would certainly tend to the needs of a loved one in a clinical and caring manner.  Note, however, that contents of said diaper/dressings would NOT be played with! 

_____________________________

Love is patient, love is kind. I am neither. Get over it.

(in reply to onlythewindknows)
Profile   Post #: 116
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/8/2006 5:26:22 PM   
Sinergy


Posts: 9383
Joined: 4/26/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

If this is the case, then why do men freak out and hand the baby off to the mother to change when the diapers are loaded?  And the mothers just take it all in stride, but the men gag, retch, and hold the package as though it's toxic waste?



I urinate standing up.  I have an adams apple.  I know how to spit.  I can tune up my car. 

My parts dangle down most of the time, but can be coaxed to stand at attention some of the time.

And yet, despite all these male sex-linked characteristics and stereotypes, I was the one who changed my kid's poopy diapers most of the time.

Although, I was also smart enough to not have my son pee in my face, the way he did 3 or 4 times to my ex-wife.   Reminds me of that line from Cool Hand Luke, "Some people you just cant reach..."

There is nothing about scat play that I find even remotely interesting to explore, but that is just me and I could be wrong.

Sinergy

_____________________________

"There is a fine line between clever and stupid"
David St. Hubbins "This Is Spinal Tap"

"Every so often you let a word or phrase out and you want to catch it and bring it back. You cant do that, it is gone, gone forever." J. Danforth Quayle


(in reply to windchymes)
Profile   Post #: 117
RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? - 11/9/2006 2:46:17 PM   
windchymes


Posts: 9410
Joined: 4/18/2005
Status: offline 		LOL....you remind me of the first night I brought my beautiful little baby boy home, all full of maternal love and joy.....and how shocked and offended I was that he had the NERVE to pee in my face, the little shit!  I learned quickly to recognize the warning signs and slap a diaper over it! 

_____________________________

You know it's going to be a GOOD blow job when she puts a Breathe Right strip on first.

Pick-up artists and garbage men should trade names.

(in reply to Sinergy)
Profile   Post #: 118
Page:   <<   < prev  2 3 4 5 [6]
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: Would You Do It For Someone You Loved? Page: <<   < prev  2 3 4 5 [6]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.109