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Killbotsgirl -> why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:39:33 PM)

i got a message today from a 57 year old Master who told me my Master was insecure just because i am trying to find another girl to please Master while i begin to prepare for the baby that is on the way? and why do some slaves think that our way of life is just a game?



slavejali -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:44:56 PM)

I'd remove the "please dont hate us" part of your profile..your effectively setting yourself up for those kinds of comments. Saying that is like a "defence" for what your doing and the choices you are making and there is no need.



amlonging -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:49:08 PM)

I agree with jali, but if he made your profile, suggest it to him.

People have their own ways and like to judge and tell others their ways are "wrong."  Never mind them... or it might create insecurities with in you.



MagiksSlave -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:55:20 PM)

Why do you care... Id venture to guess most people are butt monkeys weather in the lifetyle or not (LOL butt monkeys)

Magik's slave



DiurnalVampire -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:55:50 PM)

I believe part of the problem is that there are a lot of people out there that think a Master sending his girl out to find him a second is improper.  They see the Master as weak and needing someone else to do is searching for him. You dont meniton why you are looking, and you do have dont hate us, which implies you kow there are those out where who dont agree. 
I wouldnt worry too much about those that have what to say, I get plenty of posts about how I am not real beacsue I choose to keep only one when I could have more... everyone has their own take on how things should go.  Just browse the emails, and if they have nothing constructive to say then delete them.

DV



Killbotsgirl -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:56:08 PM)

i had a slave tell me that i am retarded and unattractive



MstrssScarlet -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:57:14 PM)

I would agree as well.  All you have to say is that you're looking for another submissive for him.  I see profiles like that aaaallll the time.

As for the people on here being butt monkeys....well, you're kinda on your own with that one.  We all find our own way to deal with it.  Sorry hon.

Mistress Scarlet



SamKeithsslave -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:57:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Killbotsgirl

i got a message today from a 57 year old Master who told me my Master was insecure just because i am trying to find another girl to please Master while i begin to prepare for the baby that is on the way? and why do some slaves think that our way of life is just a game?


Firstly congrats on the baby. I have often gotten another sub to help me please my Master. I am not sure I understand how you getting your Master makes your Master insecure? Perhaps I am missing something? I have had some insecure Masters, but their insecurity was usually because another man showed me interest and they were not into "sharing". Other Masters I have had have been very happy to share, either way I am happy to comply. My new Master will not share with other men, but will share me with other women and thats fine by me.
As for why some slaves think that this is a game? I cant answer. Some subs are only subs in the bedroom. For me its a way of life. I want my man to be my Master in all aspects of my life.
In what way are the slaves you are referring to treating it as a game?



Killbotsgirl -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 8:59:12 PM)

by the way we have been looking for another girl for about 7 months now and i am 4 months pregnant Master is at work most the time and it gets lonely when Hes not home



slavejali -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 9:03:58 PM)

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i had a slave tell me that i am retarded and unattractive


and i wouldnt worry about what people say about your looks. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When you think about it, we are all just a bunch of bones and skin and blood and meaty bits, kinda animals really are physical bods. Tell her to go fuck herself [;)]

P.S. I think it would be highly educational for every person to go to a wet-lab in their teens, it would put the human body into perspective for the rest of their lives hehe



PandorasInspratn -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 9:04:44 PM)

You need to just do what's right for you an what pleases your Master.  Why do you care what others think of you?  If your Master is what and who you say he is, then what others think of you, or say you are is ...nothing.

Though I will agree also with some others, putting "don't hate us" in the profile makes it sound like even you know that you are doing something wrong.   I would perhaps ask permission to take that part out.  Be proud of who you are, and what you are, be proud of your relationship.  If  you do that it will comand more resepct than just asking someone to criticize.

Ok, enough of my two cents.....   *smiles*

Jennifer




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 9:14:56 PM)

For the most part, subs who are looking for other subs online for their masters ARE in situations that won't work out well.  This, however, certainly isn't a license for someone to just email you to tell you that this is what's going on with you.

But people are people, ignore what doesn't work for you. 



babysburnin -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 9:20:21 PM)

I must agree to some extent with the 57-year-old Master ... I'm not sure it's insecurity, but perhaps selfishness.  I also agree with the others - if it's right for you - who cares what others think. 

I would want to be cherished at this time (Congratulations), rather than replaced (or supplimented).  I would be extremely insulted - but I am not you.  You sound like you would welcome female companionship.



Mikal -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/8/2006 9:31:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Killbotsgirl

... and why do some slaves think that our way of life is just a game?


'Cause they exist and they can. *shrugs* Same as with most things in life... laugh at 'em, and move on. Remove the "don't hate us" bit...you're just asking for comments othewise (imo).
 
Congrats & good luck!



Celeste43 -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/9/2006 6:03:33 AM)

I'm not sure it's insecurity but I don't think it's wise at a time you need to bond and to work on your soon expanded family to bring in someone else with a whole handful of needs that have to be met. Soon enough there will be a new person in your home with overwhelming needs.

Instead of looking for someone to take both of your attention off the family unit, why not meet other pregnant women or mothers of infants. You need someone in the same situation to talk to, plus you will be in more need of getting out and talking afterwards. Search for a Mother Of Preschoolers group or some such. You can make friends now and have them for the future.

And congratulations.



mnottertail -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/9/2006 6:08:02 AM)

Some are buttmonkeys, because they haven't learned as Aileen has, that you can't keep monkeys in the house, so a matter of experience, I suppose.

Ron



kyraofMists -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/9/2006 3:47:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Killbotsgirl

by the way we have been looking for another girl for about 7 months now and i am 4 months pregnant Master is at work most the time and it gets lonely when Hes not home


This is a little off topic but you realize that some people have been searching years for a third person to bring into their relationship.  I think it is unreasonable to expect to find another within a matter of months; it can happen but I certainly wouldn't expect it to.

The other thing I notice is that I find it hard to imagine a submissive wanting to enter into a M/s relationship with someone who "is at work most of the time".  If he is working most the time and doesn't have much time for one slave, then there will be even less time for two slaves.  It just seems like a bad idea to get involved with someone that doesn't have much time outside of work if they already have a partner.

I am curious why you are seeking poly in the first place?  What are you looking for in another girl?  What is her role going to be?  How is she going to fit within the structure of your lives?

Knight's kyra



sub4hire -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/10/2006 6:14:05 AM)

Because it is the internet and most people aren't real here anyway?



LordVelvet -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/10/2006 7:23:22 AM)

{pinches Himself to make sure He is real} Yep I am.



darksdesire -> RE: why are some Masters and slaves on here such butt monkeys? (11/10/2006 8:11:36 AM)

Because some people can only feel better about themselves when they put others down?  Don't know, don't have that sort of personality.



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