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ProtagonistLily -> Tales from the Search Process... (2/6/2005 7:39:58 AM)
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Hi All,
Another Domme and I were discussing the idea of putting together a Blog for all the mail and yahoo messages that we've been receiving lately that clearly fall out of our search criteria as we have set up on our profiles.
But then I was thinking about how sometimes, when you aren't looking, a potential partner sort of comes along.
About three weeks ago (maybe 4 now) I was perusing another 'kink' personals site, and was coming up with the same handful of submissives I always do when I look in my specific city. For shits and giggles, I decided to widen my range, to encompass the 2 other cities that are about an hour away from me.
As I looked through the other profiles, I came across one that said "I get browsed a lot, but not much mail." So, being the nosey parker I am, I decided to give his profile a look. He was a paying member, but had only said a little bit about himself, and only filled out the easy point and click demographic questions. He had no kink list nor did he have any long answers filled out.
So, being the wonderful person I am, I jotted him a quick note saying he might get more action if he took the time to fill the other stuff out. Several days later, I got a mail note from him thanking me for the suggestions and that he would fill the profile out more. When he filled out the kink check list, he wrote me and I looked at it, and wrote him back saying "good boy, now how about the longer answers?" Again, I got a mail from him saying he would fill the essays out and when he did he let me know.
This was not someone, at first glance, I thought I'd be interested in. Seeing that he was a paying member, and my financial situation being a little tight these days, I just thought I'd give him a lesson in supply and demand, in that, if he supplied a little more information, he might find himself in greater demand. ~grin~
Well, after all this was said and done, he continued to send me mail, and we had a nice correspondence going. He offered me a picture, and I took it. He was attractive, and seemed articulate in his mail and hadn't said anything to that point to make me think he was an HNG.
Since these casual mails, we've gone to Yahoo Messenger and have begun regular phone conversations. This was not a submissive who at first glance on paper, I thought would be someone who I would be interested in meeting, however, he has become that.
Who knows what will happen? Maybe, just maybe, I've dealt with the requisite quota of frogs and my kinky prince has finally shown up? LOL. Either way, this connection has renewed my faith in the fact that there actually are boys out there who may fit what I'm looking for.
So, Ladies, you just never know....
Lily
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