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Dominate Male Difference? - 2/7/2005 9:50:13 PM   
knees2you


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Status: offline 		Does being a Dominate Male
to a Submissive Male feel Different
then Male Dominance to a female Submissive???

Does one give You more Pleasure
then another??

Sincerely, eyesofAslave




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RE: Dominate Male Difference? - 2/7/2005 10:05:46 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		what's a dominate male?

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RE: Dominate Male Difference? - 2/8/2005 7:34:13 AM   
MidnightWriter


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ORIGINAL: knees2you

Does being a Dominate Male
to a Submissive Male feel Different
then Male Dominance to a female Submissive???

Erm - first, it's dominant male, not dominate male - "dominate" is a verb.

But to answer the question you were trying to ask: yes, there is a difference. It's a very different flavor of energy exchange.
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Does one give You more Pleasure
then another??

That depends much more on the individual than on the gender.

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RE: Dominate Male Difference? - 2/8/2005 8:21:29 AM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Does being a Dominate Male
to a Submissive Male feel Different
then Male Dominance to a female Submissive???


Having topped both men and women, I have begun to realize that my BDSM impulses have little to do with gender attraction (or attraction in general). When I top, say in a wax scene, it matters little the gender or appearance of the bottom chained beneath my candle. I need not feel any sexual attraction to enjoy the sharp intake of air when a particularly sensitive spot is splashed wit a particularly hot drip of wax.

I think training, and even service, work in much the same way for me. Teaching a ritual or positions does not depend on attraction. I enjoy the dedication shown and the enthusiasm to please.

Currently, my partner and I are looking for both male and female slaves for ownership, training and play. When I think about owning a male slave, there is some difference to how I imagine using him then I would a female slave, however, I do think the desire to own comes from the same place and is satisfied in much the same way.

I have never had a problem topping both men and women, having realized that my kink is not gender based. However, I do also enjoy a strong sexual attraction to women that plays little in my BDSM play...

Taggard

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RE: Dominate Male Difference? - 2/21/2005 7:51:14 AM   
MistressDREAD


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As a Dominant
I feel no differance in the Dominate ing
of male or female slaves. Of course this
is just My feeling and only towards slaves.
as I treat both equally in All things subservient.

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RE: Dominate Male Difference? - 2/21/2005 8:08:14 AM   
MistressDREAD


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MidnightWriter would that be the same whom has
the leatherjourney site and the Knights of Leather
2005 KOL Tournament comming up?
If so You can post a link
here as Your Signature on this side which would
lead to Your online site by clicking on the My Profile
in the top right hand corner. MODS allow this.
( some good slide shows of the past tournaments
by the way......) JMPO~

http://www.leatherjourney.com/index.php?topic=Events
http://www.knightsofleather.org/tournament2005.htm

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RE: Dominate Male Difference? - 2/21/2005 8:31:32 AM   
Gemeni


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Status: offline 		Firstly I don't casual play.

Secondly, doing bondage or sensual play is very sexual to me,and I am totally straight.

So no,I don't "play" with men.

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RE: Dominate Male Difference? - 2/21/2005 9:26:20 AM   
MidnightWriter


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

[Excuse My Post in the Masters Section~


Me too, but I don't know of a better place to do this. Still kinda new here.

quote:

MidnightWriter would that be the same whom has
the leatherjourney site and the Knights of Leather
2005 KOL Tournament comming up?

Not exactly - I'm not one of the KoL, but I'm the only Midnight Writer in this neighborhood, and I intend to go to Tournament.

I'm the guy that runs TIES - a different, but allied, group.

Leather Journey is another guy, who IS a member of the Knights - but our online names (and real names, come to think of it) are not at all similar.

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If so You can post a link
here as Your Signature on this side which would
lead to Your online site by clicking on the My Profile
in the top right hand corner. MODS allow this.

It'd be nice to put the links for the TIES web site in there - but I'd gotten the impression that contact info was heavily frowned upon.

I'll have to ask management, to cover my ass, but thanks for the suggestion! Do I know you from the local scene?
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( some good slide shows of the past tournaments
by the way......) JMPO~

http://www.leatherjourney.com/index.php?topic=Events
http://www.knightsofleather.org/tournament2005.htm[/font]

Yup - the Knights do run a great event - I'm looking forward to being there this year - I've always loved it in the past.

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