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DesertRat -> Sandpaper? (2/9/2005 12:49:09 PM)

Has anyone heard of the practice of sandpapering a sub's pussy as a punishment for masturbating without permission? A sub I know was complaining that this was done to her recently and that she was quite damaged by it. Seems to me that such abrasions would be very prone to infection. The sub seems quite upset that this occurred, but I find myself wondering...why did she allow it in the first place? Anyway, I've not heard of this treatment, and was mostly wondering how common it is.

Thanks



suberic -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/9/2005 12:52:41 PM)

Well, who says that she wasn't tied down at the time it was being done, and had no choice to have it happen? If I were going to use such an extreme punishment, that would be the first thing *I* would do, tie the sub up so they couldn't get away. Gag them so there is no protest, then tell them that since they were very bad and mastrubated without permission this was their punishment.

I'd probably also tell them that (prior to this) that if they mastrubated, that this would be their punishment. Just to make sure that they knew ahead of time what they would suffer should they disobey. But, I would not use that since it is extreme.

I've also never heard of that, but that doesn't mean that it can't happen. I've not heard of a lot of things either.



sub4hire -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/9/2005 2:40:28 PM)

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Has anyone heard of the practice of sandpapering a sub's pussy as a punishment for masturbating without permission?


I've known people to use sandpaper in play. As punishment to sand a vagina. Well no, but then again just as eric stated. I've not seen it all.
Some people are masochists. Some sadists. If the sub has an issue about it she should be communicating that with the "dom" Only she can know if the dom is a sadist. If they are compatible. If the dom is an abuser. Or what have you.
If she is that upset...why is she complaining to people who cannot do anything for her, other than empathy? Why not complain to the source? That is the only way the issue will be resolved.



FangsNfeet -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/9/2005 2:47:18 PM)

I tend to keep sand paper away from the genitals. After all, why damage it if it means I wont be able to play or fuck it later?

Arms, legs, butt is different but if and when blood is drawn I use a first aide kit to clean and bandage the area. However this is very rare for me to do unless I'm with a real PAIN SLUT Masochist.

None the less the practice is rare for me to do.

Infection wise just keep the area clean and use neosporin or some other cream. Just be sure to read the labels to make sure you can use it on the genitals.




DesertRat -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/9/2005 2:54:35 PM)

Thanks for the replies, suberic and sub4hire. I agree with all the points both of you raised. And, in response to sub4hire's final point, I was somewhat puzzled as to why she was complaining to me. Maybe just to gauge my level of sadism? I saw a quote on this board recently: "There are no victims here; only volunteers." Something like that.



Sirensong -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/9/2005 3:05:51 PM)

Sandpaper is far to messy
One of those little nutmeg graters now..THATS far easier..
But yes..I have heard of the sandpaper..
I suppose it would depend on the corseness of it to the severity



BeachMystress -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/10/2005 3:29:56 AM)


One of our local shops sells a "sandpaper crop." The slapper part of it is covered with sandpaper. I haven't tried it and do not plan to in the future.



Sirensong -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/10/2005 6:16:00 AM)

Sandpaper crop?
What a GREAT idea..
I can easily adapt one of the ones have already for the job..
I wonder if it could be applied to a chamois flogger..along the tips?



suberic -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/10/2005 6:22:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Sirensong

Sandpaper crop?
What a GREAT idea..
I can easily adapt one of the ones have already for the job..
I wonder if it could be applied to a chamois flogger..along the tips?


Hmmmmm, I'm thinking about this.

I'm going to cautiously say "not practical". The problem is that there are so many tips, they rub against each other while it's being swung, and there is a high chance that it will pull off within about one session simply because of how the flogger is used.

The way I can actually see it being done is if you used leather glue, covered the last 1/4 inch of the tips, and dipped those in a fine grade of sand and let it dry. That would make the tips "sandpaper"-ish, but it would still wear off unless you went to some extreme means of protecting the ends when it's not in use. Say by keeping the flogger in question in a flogger bag.

It could be done that way, it would be somewhat practical, and would be a VERY intense experience for the bottom. It would also depend on the corseness of the sand.

If *I* were asked to do this, I would probably charge an extra $20 for it. Not a heck of a lot, but it would be a flogger that could only be used in limited circumstances.

A sandpaper crop would be better, you could control that completely and it wouldn't be that difficult to make.



ShadeDiva -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/10/2005 11:19:16 PM)

Sandpaper on paddles is common.

Or at least I've seen paddles with that more times than I could count.

lol

~ShadeDiva



proudsub -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/11/2005 12:25:14 PM)

This is another thread i'm not going to show my DOM.



suberic -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/11/2005 12:27:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ShadeDiva

Sandpaper on paddles is common.

Or at least I've seen paddles with that more times than I could count.

lol

~ShadeDiva


Old ping pong paddles have sandpaper on them. I know, that's what my mother used to whip us with. She kept a ping-pong paddle in the drawer. Never used it on our bare asses, but still....



MrThorns -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/11/2005 11:44:58 PM)

Abrasion play has been around for awhile, but I haven't seen many people do it. I really like this sandpaper crop idea though.
(Jots a few notes)

~Thorns



BeachMystress -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/14/2005 1:52:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: proudsub

This is another thread i'm not going to show my DOM.


*casually whistles, smiles innocently and tries to psychically transmit this thread to proud's Dom*



proudsub -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/14/2005 10:00:19 AM)

quote:

quote:

ORIGINAL: proudsub

This is another thread i'm not going to show my DOM.


*casually whistles, smiles innocently and tries to psychically transmit this thread to proud's Dom*


LOL, you are such a Sadist!![:o]



Whipenrod -> RE: Sandpaper? (2/14/2005 7:28:13 PM)

I have a loofa mitt that works very well as a back massage tool...and later I use it gently on my sub's cock head for effect (not punishment). I get their immediate attention.

I shudder at using sandpaper on a lady's privates as punishment. It's open tissue--very vulnerable.
(of course--giving her an oral job with ample use of a 5 o'clock shadow might be more humane...certainly more fun?)

Hey--did she actually SEE him use the sandpaper--or was she blindfolded?

--Lady Whipenrod

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DesertRat -> RE: Sandpaper? (3/17/2005 8:54:16 AM)

Gonna delete this thread. I know sandpapering happens, but in this case, it didn't. It was just a story told as part of a game by a sociopathic, cybering sub poser.

When she said "Online bores me", I completely misunderstood.

Anyway...I'll delete this in a day or so.



proudsub -> RE: Sandpaper? (3/17/2005 3:13:55 PM)

quote:

Gonna delete this thread. I know sandpapering happens, but in this case, it didn't. It was just a story told as part of a game by a sociopathic, cybering sub poser.

When she said "Online bores me", I completely misunderstood.

Anyway...I'll delete this in a day or so.


I don't see any reason to delete the thread, actually i think only Mods can do that anyway. But you might want to edit the original post so that someone new reading it will understand. I think the topic is an interesting one.



DesertRat -> RE: Sandpaper? (3/17/2005 3:55:57 PM)

You are right. I stand corrected. On some boards, you can delete your own threads. No big deal...I'm cool with it staying on.

Thanks,
Bob



Kinkypupper -> RE: Sandpaper? (4/6/2005 5:06:36 PM)

There are a LOT better means of punnishment for a girl for that kind of enfraction.
But sandpaper.. no too much physical damage possable plus the fear of the "grit" getting in the pors.

personally i would prefer handcuffs and chain and sit her infront of a really hot porn flick and keep her from touching herself.. or sit there with a riding crop and give her a swat when her hands "wander"

but myself it wouldbe something i would encourage NOT discourage



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