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pleasureforHim -> RE: wondering about friendships, sharing, learning (7/12/2005 8:09:17 PM)
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"All that being said, why is it that subs/slaves are so adverse to becoming friends with another lady in lifestyle? Do they fear the bi portion of their profile and think, jeeeez she is hitting on me? i have repeatedly said, i have no sexual interest in a woman if i am not friends first, if their is no chemistry or absolutely no interest. i would NEVER push who i am on another. Granted, IM and email chat is a hard way to get to know another lady and begin to share information about desires and struggles and victories, but it does and can happen."
i find this an oddity of the "lifestyle". in "real life" i have girlfriends...and will have them until one of us dies. But in the "lifestyle" i have found over and over that while women seem to know how to mimic friendship, they cannot atain it with another woman. And what seems even odder is that in the "lifestyle", women need support and shared information more than in "real life". The only thing i can use to account for it is the extremely high percent of women who are on CM who are fakes. The reason they are here is to harm Doms and Masters emotionally, but they will never be capable of, nor do they wish to, form a D/s relationship. Ergo, they have no interest in a friendship with a submissive woman who loves Men and adores Doms and Masters. i have uncovered approximately 8 or 9 such women in action...a statistically valid sample in my opinion.
i have of late been graced with the friendship of a couple of true submissive women, and the "click" is instantaneous and quite real. i am most grateful for their friendship.
pleasureforHim
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