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serving as an ashtray - 11/21/2006 5:06:54 AM

ashtray34

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Hi there Superiors.

i am a genuine well trained male slave who has been serving long term Mistress's in the UK for over 12 years. i am fully trained in objectification and was regulary used as an ashtray, and embrace this as an important part of my servitude. i have recently relocated due to work and have found myself without a genuine Mistress to serve. i have applied to a lot of Mistress's on here and had some wonderfull replies but none desire the use of an ashtray! i was wondering iff this is a thing of the past and what to do next. i have visited local munches also, again with no luck. i am very genuine and would like some advice as to what approach to take next.

many thanks

slave ash

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RE: serving as an ashtray - 11/21/2006 5:27:43 AM

LadyEllen

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Hi Ash

Can I ask, where are you located?

Your profile says "southwest and suff". Is this UK, or where please?

If UK southwest, the Femdom Society is based in Devon, so maybe there could be a good place to look? By "Suff", I'm assuming Suffolk, in East Anglia, but thats a bit confusing next to southwest. I'll be down in Suffolk later today (almost every week, I'm down there), and smoke like a chimney btw!

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RE: serving as an ashtray - 11/21/2006 5:29:27 AM

r4l884slave

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My only advice is that you need to find a sadist who will enjoy the scarring, but also realize it is not about what you want if you are a slave-It will be about new Owners need, whether she decides to use you for an ashtray or a side table. If you have been searching that amount of time, and not found one who wanted to use you as such, then find one who you are compatible with on other things, and you can hope one day you are at her feet when she is looking for a place to put her cig out!

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RE: serving as an ashtray - 11/21/2006 8:22:06 AM

ashtray34

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hi there.

im in the SW, Devon and yes Suff means Suffolk where i used to live. i still visit there frequently but will not be there till december now due to work.

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RE: serving as an ashtray - 11/21/2006 8:24:10 AM

ashtray34

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ORIGINAL: r4l884slave

My only advice is that you need to find a sadist who will enjoy the scarring, but also realize it is not about what you want if you are a slave-It will be about new Owners need, whether she decides to use you for an ashtray or a side table. If you have been searching that amount of time, and not found one who wanted to use you as such, then find one who you are compatible with on other things, and you can hope one day you are at her feet when she is looking for a place to put her cig out!

Thank you for the reply. i do agree it is about the owners needs foremost.

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