Aine -> RE: New person (11/22/2006 12:02:38 PM)
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There's a little thing that I like to fall back on. K.I.S.S. And no, not the band (though, gimme that tongue anyday! lmao) Keep It Simple Stupid. Keep things low key, friendly, open, playful, humorous. Like learning how to ride a bike...or roller skate. Don't end up equating it to something as demanding and stressfull as like......studying for a humongous test. Keep communication open and flowing at ALL times. Don't take yourself very seriously, be able to laugh at yourselves if things seem awkward. Because they will. Do a lot of reading, perhaps together, maybe come up with a scene based off of something you've read...again, something simple. Nothing too involved and complicated. I could go on for days...but really, I'm just trying to make generalities. That's the best I can offer since there is no set -kind- of relationship between you two (as in they aren't collared to you, etc). Jump in, have fun, stay in the shallow end for a while until you get used to the water.
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