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MissyRane -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 11:11:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve quote: ORIGINAL: WyrdRich Have you considered the possibilty that this is intended as a constructive criticism??? Hey Rich...I know you don't like me so...if you want to try and make me look bad do your worst. Won't stop me fromposting. I won't be driven off. honey how on earth is WyrdRich trying to make you look bad by making this suggestion? I think this was completely eligimate suggestion and as harmless as it could be. Alright, I give up. I can't possibly figure you out sissify, and I even did try.[>:]

WyrdRich -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 11:15:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve quote: ORIGINAL: WyrdRich Have you considered the possibilty that this is intended as a constructive criticism??? Hey Rich...I know you don't like me so...if you want to try and make me look bad do your worst. Won't stop me fromposting. I won't be driven off. See, now that would be an example. I like you just fine Sissify. If I didn't, I wouldn't bother to reply. I disagree with you about 99% of the time, but it certainly isn't personal. Ever hear of that school of Zen where the instructor whacks the student with a stick to get them to see properly?

sissifytoserve -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 11:21:49 AM)
I don't see it as "constructive criticism" when someone emails me...doesn't even say hello..or asks me how I am and starts laying into me about how I don't meet a certain criteria or standard that THEY feel I should live up to. Nor do I appreciate someone telling me" I will never find a Mistress." I think there are some wonderful dominants here who would disagree with that and like a submissive with a mind of his own.

philosophy -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 11:24:33 AM)
...well, you're definitely my favourite angry sissy......

sissifytoserve -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 11:29:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: philosophy ...well, you're definitely my favourite angry sissy...... Must be the Scottish spirit side in me.

theGuideGoddess -> RE: Whats the point of hate mails? (11/23/2006 12:24:31 PM)
As a recent member here I have found it interesting to say the very least to see complete strangers who reach out and vie for attention in such a fashion. Obviously these are people with personal issues, poor communication skills and in general lacking respect. This sort of behavior seems a pointless waste of energy reserved for those with pointless lives. Just maybe it made them feel good for just a baby second, like they had some form of power. Perhaps this is a manifestation of a need for a 'few moments' of discipline and forced education. I certainly wouldn't take something like this personal. The only energy I would expend would be to delete. I had a sub contact me in 'hopes' of a relationship and I'd yet to read the first email. I saw his name several times in the list and decided to read....the imbecile was flaming me for not responding to him promptly enough for his personal preference. I did bother to chastise him mentioning he might have noted that the emails had yet to be read that he was accusing me of not responding to and as a result of his behavior would now not be read. Thanked him for saving me from wasting MY valuable time. When we consider their behaviors it is quite easy to understand the lack of relationship or ability to find a suitable partner. Most fail to realize that one must first become attractive in various forms to attract and to retain takes something far more than surface level attractiveness. Of course these are strictly my own views and I would never force my views or beliefs on another. Other view points, presented in a respectful fashion are always welcome. The Guiding Goddess

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