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BDSM Firsts - 5/2/2004 9:19:34 PM   
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Greetings, (i don't have any questions, just wanted to share!)

i was so excited, i went to my first ever play party last night!

Thankfully, i was escorted by my buddies from a local munch that i attend, so i felt safe...they gave me the heads up on what to expect, and proper etiquite (sp?) as well.

Since it was my first time attending, i just decided to talk and observe. By the end of the night however, i was so aroused, i didn't know what to do with myself!

Actually, by the time the party ended, i felt like playing, but with any luck, i'll be invited back. i only wish i had had the time to run home and get my new French Maid costume on...but next time i suppose.

i must say that it was quite satisfying to watch the sub males submitting to CBT and spankings.....i really do think i might be a switch! ::::evil grin::::::

Cheers,

~rain~

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/3/2004 8:55:34 AM   
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LOL
Well congrats and welcome to
the real world of BDSM munchies
it sounds as tho y0u might have
a good one in your community.
Glad to know your first was positive.
Being a Munches Owner and member
of such for close to 45 years now I
always enjoy to hear of sumones first
and positive action into Our World.
Again welcome rain. DREAD

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/3/2004 3:17:23 PM   
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Congrats on taking another big step rain! I'm glad you enjoyed yourself and had an overall positive experience. :)

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/3/2004 3:34:13 PM   
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I'm glad you had such a good time rain, and hope it's the first of many. Maybe next time you will be telling us how you participated, mmmmmmm.




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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/31/2004 9:26:44 PM   
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proudsub,

So glad you asked! i know it's been a couple of weeks since i posted this thread....

However, i had a GREAT weekend! Between shopping at IML and the Shibaricon conference, wow, i can't believe it's over already!

Met up with a cute acquiantance...who is usually the bottom, but for some reason i brought out his dominant side, a side rarely seen by those who know him well, and had the time of my life!

Chained up to a cross, got my entire backside flogged, while simultaneously getting my nipples tortured while blindfolded! whoahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Very intense. One thing that was a bit strange, to me, was that after about 20 minutes or so, i got very queasy. It may have been that i had eaten dinner an hour before and/or the fact that it was VERY warm in the dungeon....but, i was released quickly, and was well tended to by my playmates. Once i recovered though, i experienced a most amazing high....hard to describe exactly, but my eyes were closed and felt.......wow....

The only thing i can compare it to is: if you've ever spent time in high altitudes....light headed, somewhat dizzy, but elated - sheer bliss....

mmmmmmmmm, still glowing

even more fun was the take down scene & being tortured by tickling.......and making a spectacle of myself........hehehe

that's the latest...

<eg> for now

~rain~

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/31/2004 9:44:07 PM   
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Woooooohoooooooooo good for you!

Ain't they FUN?

hehehe

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/31/2004 10:26:22 PM   
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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/31/2004 10:45:05 PM   
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quote:

hard to describe exactly, but my eyes were closed and felt.......wow....


Glad to hear you had such a good time rain. Do you think that feeling was "subspace"?

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/31/2004 10:51:21 PM   
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yep, that's the word i was looking for, thanks proudsub!

subspace=bliss (for me anyways)

~rain~

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/31/2004 10:55:37 PM   
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Im a super user now?

What I do?

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 5/31/2004 11:08:15 PM   
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Sinergy,

Now grab your cape and head for the nearest telephone booth!

There are novice subs out there who need some assistance!

~rain~

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 6/1/2004 12:26:30 AM   
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I used to think I would never play openly at a public play party....until I visited New Orleans and I was with a dominant that I trusted. We had a GREAT time! I ended up being naked and wrapped in cellophane completely and a vibe placed on my clit....I had a lovely orgasm...and I experienced the single tail for the first time too. I think though, what made me feel free enough to experience this was that I was in New Orleans...a state away, and I was not worried about seeing someone that I worked with. It was quite liberating...and in New Orleans, no one cares what you do, so it was great. I had a blast and was really turned on by the fact that people were watching me. Try it....you'll like it!!

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 6/1/2004 2:13:01 AM   
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I'm glad that you had a good experience.

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 6/1/2004 3:22:56 AM   
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Glad to hear you enjoyed it ~rain~... Film at 11, LOL

When it pores, it rains!

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 6/1/2004 1:08:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: rain
Met up with a cute acquiantance...who is usually the bottom, but for some reason i brought out his dominant side, a side rarely seen by those who know him well, and had the time of my life!


Wow! You converted a bottom to a top by your very sweet, responsive, bottomly nature!!!! I LOVE a good romance! Or at least a good ending!

Jan

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 6/1/2004 6:41:03 PM   
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quote:

Now grab your cape and head for the nearest telephone booth!

There are novice subs out there who need some assistance!


Does this mean I should put up a post such as the following...

Any submit need a Dominate, IM me.

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RE: BDSM Firsts - 6/1/2004 10:08:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinergy
Any submit need a Dominate, IM me.


Bad Sinergy ... BAD!

*chortle*

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