Morrigel -> RE: If femdoms chose nicks like male subs... (11/25/2006 11:03:14 AM)
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ORIGINAL: petdave Betta? Sure. I don't dispute that sex is important. Nor do I dispute that many people regard sexual needs as "shallow", in this society, when in fact they are deep and primal. But I disagree COMPLETELY that someone who won't even discuss or consider your sexual needs is "your best friend" nor that this person"knows and loves your foibles and peccadillos". Again, a relationship can produce children, money and stability without being healthy. The vast majority of marriages that have existed throughout human history have been intended to produce children, money and stability, and no one in those societies ever knew or cared whether there was romantic love or sexual passion involved. In fact, it was often considered a bit of a joke how little the former things were compatible with the latter! [;)] Regardless, if you are happy to have a relationship with a woman where sex is the one thing you are likely to have in common--more power to you. Personally, in my experience, sex without deeper compatibility is a pretty empty thing. I don't object to it at all--it can be fun--but a lot of people seem to think that sexual attraction or compatible kink is SUCH a huge issue that it'll make someone Mistress Right automatically. And holy CRAP are they mistaken. --M
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