pixelslave
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ORIGINAL: petdave submissive men are more likely to look favorably on a Dominant woman's screenname that identifies a particular kink, than vice-versa. If you spend enough time trying to meet people in vanilla situations, when every encounter with potential is overwhelmed by the spectre of "How the hell am i going to bring up the whole fetish thing", a woman who leads with fetish is a breath of fresh air. On this one, I'd beg to differ. There's no doubt that if meeting a vanilla woman, the issue of how to tell her you have "kinks" is an issue that one must decide how to handle at some point in time, and in my experience simply being open and honest about who and what I am is more than sufficient. But when it comes to a Dommes name, I prefer it to be one that I could be proud of and respect. There are a few women that I've been contacted by that I would have difficulty using their screen names to refer to them with on an on-going basis. I was also quite astonished once to be contacted by a Domme whose screen name clearly indicated she was looking for something that was on my list of hard limits! Clearly, as many Dommes here so often complain, this woman had not bothered to even read all of my profile. - pixel
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Chivalry isn't dead! It's for those who have it in their hearts & are willing to be taught. It's a way of life, a code of honor; this one's armor still needs some polishing!
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