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In praise of switches! - 2/14/2005 2:08:10 AM   
MsSilvie


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I have nothing but admiration for you switch folks out there! Switches see the bdsm thing from all angles, they are generally better balanced than a lot of the "true" Dom/mes and subs and they just all around rock for play.

Switches are Great! Don't ever let anyone make you feel like you are less of something just because you can do both sides of the equation.
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RE: In praise of switches! - 2/14/2005 5:49:43 AM   
suberic


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Wow. This is a different reaction from the normal one of "why don't you just pick a kink?" Like it would just be that easy for a bisexual to pick one.

Thank you MsSilvie. *I* for one appreceiate it.

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RE: In praise of switches! - 2/14/2005 5:56:27 AM   
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Me too, this post made me smile. At least someone understands.

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RE: In praise of switches! - 2/16/2005 8:55:26 PM   
HuntrGreen


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Ms Silvie, thankyou for your kind words, believe me they are appreciated.

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RE: In praise of switches! - 2/17/2005 8:08:19 PM   
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Finaly someone out there seems to get the picture! Hmmm couldnt have put it better myself and ive been a switch since i could get it up.

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RE: In praise of switches! - 2/19/2005 10:44:35 PM   
MadameDahlia


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I'd like to praise one particular switch. You know who you are.

I enjoy getting to know more about you with each conversation... I enjoy your humor... your wit... and even the strange way you spell certain words.

I enjoy how much you make me laugh. I enjoy how often you make me smile. I enjoy your chivalrous gestures (hee hee) and I enjoy your willingness to try new things.

I like that soft sigh... the slight hitch of breath... the lip biting and whimpering. *GROAN*

I value your opinion, even if we do not meet eye to eye at all times on all things.

The only thing I don't enjoy... is missing you.

< Message edited by MadameDahlia -- 2/19/2005 10:45:32 PM >


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RE: In praise of switches! - 4/14/2005 4:40:20 AM   
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What a lovely thing to say! I am well happy with that, thank you Ms Silvie.
I for one am tired of hearing the same old same old, 'You'd make such a good pet, let's see if we can't beat that brat out of you', and 'I'll be the best sub ever, you won't need to do it yourself'... puuuurleease!
I wish people would stop assuming they have some magical solution that will 'cure' me of my 'blatent greed'. This is who I am, this is who we are. We do not need offers to 'make us right' or 'show us the way'.
Hurrah for switches, however hard they are to find here in the UK, however long and arduious the joureny seems, I, for one, am not about to give in to what others want from me.

To thine own self be true.

'Own yourself, even if you belong to another, never lose sight of who you are'. Me.

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RE: In praise of switches! - 4/14/2005 5:35:06 PM   
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How absolutely refreshing and welcomed!! Thank You MsSilvie!!





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RE: In praise of switches! - 4/23/2005 11:20:15 AM   
ajewl


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Such kind words MsSilvie,

Thank You for the encouraging words....

I sometimes pray that some day the rude/hateful/judgemental ones of this world will receive the biggest enema in history... systematically flushing all the negativity out of humanity.

I would like to extend well wishes to all of us in this world, we all have a journey to explore....a path to walk....and no one should stand in the way of another.

Be happy with who you are......ajewel

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RE: In praise of switches! - 4/23/2005 1:04:53 PM   
smile2cu


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Well Thanks! I see we're all over the place! And all very grateful that we're not alone. Something to really smile about!

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RE: In praise of switches! - 4/25/2005 7:50:59 AM   
westside


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Thanks for the kind words.

Being a switch is unique -- a sub group of a sub group. Perhaps we need support group...? Or a tee shirt?

Wes

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RE: In praise of switches! - 4/26/2005 6:57:17 AM   
naughtyprincess1


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I just want to say that it is wonderful to read all the positive things people are posting.
thanks!

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RE: In praise of switches! - 5/5/2005 6:04:45 PM   
Highheelboy


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I sometimes have a hard time understanding how someone would want to subrogate their lives to another. Or how someone would want to go to the trouble to maintain a slave. Yet I love to pin a woman and have my way with her and maybe later go across her lap for a paddling. Go figure. But it is nice to have the flexibility to go back and forth.

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RE: In praise of switches! - 5/31/2005 6:17:05 PM   
SwPuno


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Thank you very much for the kind words, MsSilvie, it is very nice to get some recognition and acknowledgement. I am pretty new to the actual scene, despite having years of fantasies and some pro-play, and have already run into some of the anti-switch attitudes. It's weird, I thought once I got into the scene I would be in a sprt pf safe zone where people would not judge people for their interest in power play and yet, what do you know, right off the bat there is still some room to dislike us "half-breeds" and marginalize some of the total group. Your words give me hope and strength to realize that we are welcome by at least some of the community at large.

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