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OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 8:45:30 AM

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Breasts.....How important are they to you in regards to physical attraction?

(Im sure this has been done before, but Im interested in fresh conversation) :)

To those men who would be so inclined to honor my request.....I am not interested in hearing in particular what "type" or "shape" of breasts you prefer....I am simply interested in the importance of it to your arousal when naked with your woman.

In other words, If you have a preference for a particular type of breast, but your sub/slave/lover/whatever does not have the size and shape you ideally prefer, how much or little does it affect your arousal ----and/or does it turn you off to any extent? If so...is it Alittle? Some? Not at all? Alot??

Please be honest, without the fear of appearing shallow. Thank you in advance.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 8:55:51 AM

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For me, there is a clear difference between initial attraction and lasting arousal.

Quite obviously, bigger is better in the initial sense of being able to catch the eye and draw attention. But then the subsequent step is does that initial attraction manage to prevail in the naked one-on-one (or heck, many-on-one for that matter) interaction and exchange?

I have come to find the most wonderful racks (38 DDD) quite useless in play because they were either overly sensitive or so profouondly and excessively desensitized that playing with a doormat might have offered more potential for diversion. And then I have found some of the most understated mamilaries (32 A) to an endless source of fun and pleasure, because they offered just the right levels and potential for creative and incessant use.

Hence - for me, big will initially catch the eye, but the arousal will actually arise from the use of the breast, not its size and shape.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:01:19 AM

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As far as physical prefference goes...I likes em small and natural. I'm more of an ass/leg/muff man so breasts aren't my main attraction and the womans size would not be of major concern to this guy. Fake tits would be a turn off for me.

What would make breasts more important to me would be how the woman responds to the way I touch....???? My last girl would occasionally cum from just tittie play and that was an ego booster for me so I naturally spent more time with her in breast play. I also like to be coddled in a womans lap and "breast feed" once in awhile (my sub side). So breasts are pretty important if the woman responds positively. If not.....down to that ass/muff/leg department!!!! lol

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:02:14 AM

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A breast, even a small one is a big chunk of body.........it is a moving part that we don't possess in any great degree (usually) it is going to end up like talking about the grand hunks of solid iron that ensconce the pelvic area of men, if you got tits the size of your head, thats all well and fine, but comes with a set of issues all its own.

If you got fried egg titties they have a certain charm as well.

Ron

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:03:37 AM

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I'm a leg and ass man so breasts aren't that important to me.
I do like smaller breasts on a woman though.
Big breasts just seem to get in the way.
To me "bigger is *not* better."
As for "attraction" breasts don't play that much of a role.
Slender with a nice ass and legs are what attracts me!
Small breasted women shouldn't be worried about being "small."
There are a lot of us guys out here who are attracted to them!
And don't get implants!
"Natural" is the best!

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:03:59 AM

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i'm fascinated to hear what is said as well. I just hope everyone understands what you're asking. You arent asking what "type" is best.. or what their preference is.... (ahem slavemasterly)

Please read this carefully

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If you have a preference for a particular type of breast, but your sub/slave/lover/whatever does not have the size and shape you ideally prefer, how much or little does it affect your arousal ----and/or does it turn you off to any extent? If so...is it Alittle? Some? Not at all? Alot??

edited to add - i dont think the question will ever get answered. Men are going to get too caught up on expounding the virtues and non virtues of the breastes

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:07:06 AM

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You want the truth? YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!

ooooh.. ...my little channelling of Jack moment now over.

No matter. Breasts do not matter much to me. Really. I've been aroused by women with A-cups and with DDs. I tend to like women, by the way, so this reply doesn't take into account the attraction of man-boobs (being fully honest here, Marie, as you asked.)

I am attracted to a person. Not a set of mammary glands, or just the eyes, or a good pair of legs (OK..I do have a weakness for a good pair of legs. But I digress...) Breast size, shape, color, conformation, etc. is really irrelevant.

I prefer they come in sets of two, but that's sometimes optional. I like them to be roughly the same size (although one of the most arousing women I know has a distinct difference between left and right - almost a cup size). And I find it disconcerting when they poke out the back, rather than the front, although when they do poke out the back, it makes slow dancing a lot more interesting.

Happy now?

E.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:08:11 AM

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no she's not her question wasnt answered

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:13:10 AM

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Riotgirl: no she's not her question wasnt answered

Yes, it was. Read carefully. Her question was if there is a discordance between a professed preferred "type" of breast and arousal with a woman who doesn't have that type. I replied that I don't have a preferred type. Therefore there is no discordance. What more do you want to hear?

E.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:13:20 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

i'm fascinated to hear what is said as well. I just hope everyone understands what you're asking. You arent asking what "type" is best.. or what their preference is.... (ahem slavemasterly)

Please read this carefully

quote:

If you have a preference for a particular type of breast, but your sub/slave/lover/whatever does not have the size and shape you ideally prefer, how much or little does it affect your arousal ----and/or does it turn you off to any extent? If so...is it Alittle? Some? Not at all? Alot??

So I wasn't clear enough...my preference is small (i.e., more than a mouthful is a waste). But ultimately, my preference of breast size, shape, gravitational defiance (or not), taste or color (with maybe some shades that might indicate serious health defects) is irrelevant in the way my arousal is impacted. It is the use/usability of the breast that arouses, not the other factors...this is what I elaborated in my first post.

Was this more concise and to the point?

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:19:48 AM

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The last three relationships I've had all three women had cup A-B size but they were petite women so their breasts weren't so small in proportion to their overall body size. I have to admit I'm not attracted to large breasts but that is initial attraction, breasts aren't a deal breaker. I prefer something to get hold of but not something I have to use both arms to get hold of, though one can say that more than a mouth full is a waste, I prefer them a little bigger than that. Pert breasts are the best, breasts that stand up and say hello, with nipples you can hang your hat on.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:20:25 AM

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i expect to hear the life story of you breast arousal.

i dunno - i think i'm wired on diet coke

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:25:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

i expect to hear the life story of you breast arousal.

Do you want the Freudian version that includes earliest cognitive impressions of being breast-fed?

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:32:45 AM

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I have a occaisional play partner that was shortchanged in the breast dept and I'm attracted to her because she's very obedient. she has very responsive nipples that I enjoy pinching and biting.

I like breast play and anything over a D is too much for my style of play but if you are obedient size doesn't matter. I'll adjust my play accordingly.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:33:01 AM

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I am a bit curious about this also. I know that my Master prefers bigger breasts, which I don't have. I fill in a C cup, but that's it. I do wonder if it changes how aroused he gets with me. He says it doesn't, so I just try and think about that instead of how he is used to bigger ones.

I think the only time I really get bothered by it at all is when I see porn or something he has looked at that has the big old boobs in it. I know that was stuff before me, but I also know it turned him on a lot. I know that his past partners all had at least a D cup, and usually much bigger. I try my best not to think about it though, and if I do bring it up, he is very good at reassuring me.

Kasha

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:43:09 AM

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Much contrary to popular belief, not every man looks at women as the life-sustaining portability devices that are attached to their tits. There are a great many other features on women -both physical, emotional and intellectual- that find appreciation by men.

I really think that a lot of women are overly conscientious of the breast issue and self-inflict a lot of doubt and insecurity. Look at riotgirl's response posts for example to me and Emperor. While we felt that the question was fully answered by us, she felt that we missed the point of the discussion altogether.

In most instances, the breast question is probably quite simply this: make sure that you have two of them, that you carry them with you at all times, and that WE (men) can access and play with them whenever the mood strikes us (and it strikes more often than the employees of the Italian postal services).

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:46:37 AM

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I'm a 42 d and I have never had a man complain about them

Whether they are big, small or in between ..breasts aren't the only thing that makes a woman...

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:47:34 AM

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Dear M2-

My favorite thing about brests is that they are attached to women<g>. With the exception of one young lady I knew who had extemely asymetrical teats, they have never been something that I would change or wish to be changed.

I have noticed, interestingly, that I find larger ones more attractive when clothed, and smaller ones more attractive unclothed ( my notion of 'large' or 'small' parses right between a C & D cup)...

Stay warm,
Lawrence

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:52:02 AM

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OP:

This is precisely the woman's mirror image of a man's will you love me if I don't have a big wiener...............................

Men, although somewhat slower than women to realize it, like boobs, but only fall in love with them at first, the long haul is the support sytem attached to them.

But, now; if you wanna ask if your butt looks to big, that's another thing entirely.......(noting that alotta men like JLo's bewttocks......food for thought)

Chesty Puller (Commandant, USMC (ret.))

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:56:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

But, now; if you wanna ask if your butt looks to big, that's another thing entirely.......(noting that alotta men like JLo's bewttocks......food for thought)

True, true...it is neither the pants, nor the dress - but commonly when the question is asked, the answer is that it is actually the butt that makes the butt look big.

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