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RE: The first time - 12/4/2006 7:35:09 PM

maybemaybenot

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OK you do realize this goes against everything sane? You're damned lucky you walked out of there in one piece, many with this exact same scenario haven't. What would you have done if he walked up behind you blindfolded & hog tied you then took something perminant to your neck?

I agree, Rose. A few years ago, after months of chatting online, phone conversations so on and so forth, The opportunity arose for me to meet a Dominant I was very smitten with. He lived a distane away from me, but was coming here on a business trip, so we made arrangements to meet at his hotel for dinner. In the resturant, not his room. All went very well, his conversation captivated me, his look was very appealling to me, his sense of humor made me belly laugh at times and we had a lot on common.
After dinner we went out for a nice walk and returned to thehotel lounge for a drink. At that point he told me he would like me to go up to his room < handed me the key>, get undressed and be kneeling at the door waiting for his arrival. There had been no discussion of this and I politely declined.
I had this image running thru my head that I would be there kneeling and he would come thru the door with a gun or knife, not for play either.
I explained my reasons for declining and he was a perfect gentleman about it. But I still didn't do it.
To the OP: while the incidence of something catastrophic happening on a first meet is probably low, I just don't think it wise to take that chance. I can tell you that I would never have a first meet at my home or his home, always public. I am glad nothing bad happened to you. Just a few words from one who wants to see you stay safe.
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RE: The first time - 12/5/2006 3:29:04 AM

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Hi
I know what I did was wrong But I had a feeling it would be OK. If something happen I would not be here today sorry, I went home hungry and loose...............tina

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RE: The first time - 12/5/2006 5:57:03 PM

syreena

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To the OP:

Where were your safe calls? You just felt it was Ok? Do you know if this supposed other person has any STD's? Do you know if this other person has any VD's? What about HIV or AIDS? Some of these may not show up for some time. my guess is that too if things had gone the other way you would be on here crying about all of this. In addition i never recommend playing on the first meeting as He couldn't have known you or your body. i am certainly glad you are alright however, there are many people out there that .... well... have ended up dead because like you they "felt" it was going to be alright. Don't believe me? Ask the girls in KC who were found in the barrels. Sorry to be harsh but you were very fortunate you did walk away.

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RE: The first time - 12/6/2006 8:22:50 AM

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did you learn anything from this experience?

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RE: The first time - 12/6/2006 8:50:48 AM

gemy

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my question is --- why did you both to ask anything here in the first place? with all the information given, all the advice, all the personal knowledge and information given to you in this thread~~

you totally freakin ignored it all and not only played, but got tied! tied! something that you cannot get out of !!

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