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emdoub -> RE: Anal Dominence (11/30/2006 11:21:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: acctonthelook
{...} I do have a problem that it's purely just because it's driven by Dominence.
Why does anal activity equate ownership for a Master?
Because she wouldn't do it in a 'nilla relationship.
FWIW, the lube, the going easy at first, the sensation itself, isn't really worth the hassle - it's a PITA for both sides, unless she already enjoys it and relaxes to it easily - in which case, it's really not all that special. (If the male is going for tight - Kiegels work better - really.)
But this is something that she wouldn't choose to do. She likes intercourse, and is rightfully proud of her prowess at oral - but she'd do those with a 'nilla partner. It's really hard to stretch the dom-muscles when you're making them do something that they want to do anyhow.
But when they're doing something they don't want, something they dislike - they're doing it as an act of submission. They're doing it because you're dominating them into doing it, and for no other reason at all.
That gets me into domspace quite nicely, thank you - so that's why.
OTOH, I've known them who were afraid of anal, who wanted to avoid it - and found themselves going seriously into subspace when dominated into going where they'd never go without the d/s - so you may want to look at it from that angle, and find your own joy in it.
Midnight Writer
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