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RE: who to respond to - 12/2/2006 7:35:00 AM

MasterNdorei

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Start with the ones who pique your interest, and with whom you have the most in common. Remember you do not have to respond to everyone, and you do not have to respond right away. Those who are interested will be happy to hear from you, even if it is weeks from their original email, and will udnersatnd that you got slammed with mail. The emails usually slow down after a few weeks.

:::sitting next to DaddysRedHead and adjusting my foil blanket:::: Now back to that other topic.....

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RE: who to respond to - 12/2/2006 8:00:51 AM

Daddysredhead

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei

:::sitting next to DaddysRedHead and adjusting my foil blanket:::: Now back to that other topic.....

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RE: who to respond to - 12/2/2006 8:18:20 AM

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Reply to whatever you want, ignore whatever you want. It's your inbox.

I ignore anything that's not smart and precise to me. I ignore anything that's a blatant request- even if just to "help me out while I'm getting adjusted here." Anyone who is presumptuous enough to request that without even knowing me isn't someone I can trust judgement with.

It all comes down to good judgement- go towards what will serve you best.

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RE: who to respond to - 12/2/2006 8:29:48 AM

Missokyst

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Ummm... I think she is a new domme. That alone will bring her tons (weight hijack ignored) of email from sub males.
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RE: who to respond to - 12/2/2006 3:28:14 PM

MasterFireMaam

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Try making your profile a little more specialized or specific. Use it as a filter. For example, I get about 5 responses a month and, usually, 4 of them are the ones who are spamming everyone. So, I have an easy time of it.

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RE: who to respond to - 12/2/2006 5:03:53 PM

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For myself, I look for more than the one-liners or the ones that write their 3 page fantasies. Years ago, I would answer all of them. But now I look for respectful emails, that give me a bit of personal background and follow the instructions given in my profile. This weeds out the worst and gives me a few to work with.

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RE: who to respond to - 12/3/2006 4:07:54 AM

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greetings

i choose someone who has the same likes that i have i am not into bisexual man so i would not pick someone who is into that. you choose whom you will like read the profile carefully. it will tell what that person is truly thinking of and wants this is my way but it works so good luck now you may like bisexual men so that is it and you can also tell by what they write a scammer will make a mistake sooner or later

take care mons

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