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ADomlesssub -> Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 8:50:00 AM)

 

Masters,

i know that shyness is not permitted, and with my last Master i was starting to get there..... however when it comes to all things kinky my experience is limited.....

if were playing truth or dare, he would often dare me to do something kinky to him..... eek... after the usual, i got somewhat lost....

please please could you let me know what you Manly Masters like your slaves to perform on/for you so i may have some ideas for my next Master?

many many thanks
ADomlesssub
xx

p.s i would change my username to snarfwench but don't know how...



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 8:57:23 AM)

Maybe your next master won't get into performances at all?

Go to any performance art class...then practice nude and with kink themes.



daddysprop247 -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:05:48 AM)

i'm no Dom...but who says shyness is not permitted? one of the things that attracted my Master to me was my sometimes paralyzing shyness. some will see your shyness as yet another way they can control, use and enjoy you.



Kalira -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:06:45 AM)

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i know that shyness is not permitted

It's not? Well shucks, you learn something new everyday [8D]

Actually LA gave pretty good advice at one way of getting over shyness. Another is just to walk around your home naked when you can [:)] Become acquainted with your body; learn to love it.



MsKatHouston -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:16:50 AM)

I know this was mostly geared to the males but for me, I find shyness, as long as it is not debilitating, rather endearing.  It also gives me some really amusing stuff to work with. 

Every man will be different in their preferences so you would have to ask the one you're with.  But in the meantime, work on yourself.  Be confident, learn useful skills so that the dominant has some "ready made" acts to choose from.

Try learning personal service techniques such as massage and grooming.  Learn sexual techniques and practice them (does not to be with another person).  Learn good housekeeping skills.  Learn to cook a wide variety of dishes.  Learn some useful crafts such as toymaking.  Those things will hold you in good stead to where you will be a Really Useful Engine :)



r4l884slave -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:17:28 AM)

Yes, I prefer very shy, timid femmes. So each is different, just like everything else.



ADomlesssub -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:33:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalira

quote:

i know that shyness is not permitted

It's not? Well shucks, you learn something new everyday [8D]

Actually LA gave pretty good advice at one way of getting over shyness. Another is just to walk around your home naked when you can [:)] Become acquainted with your body; learn to love it.



apologies i should have explained further... my last Master was Gorean and in this they do not believe their slaves should be allowed to be shy.....

xx



Kalira -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:37:14 AM)

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apologies i should have explained further... my last Master was Gorean and in this they do not believe their slaves should be allowed to be shy.....

Ok, now you have REALLY confused me.

Please define shy here?

Because I know of a number of Gorean men who have no problems with shyness in their slaves; its actually an endearing quality.



ADomlesssub -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:42:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Kalira

quote:

apologies i should have explained further... my last Master was Gorean and in this they do not believe their slaves should be allowed to be shy.....

Ok, now you have REALLY confused me.

Please define shy here?

Because I know of a number of Gorean men who have no problems with shyness in their slaves; its actually an endearing quality.



ok must have just been "Him"

i'll continue to endear away!!

xxx



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:45:58 AM)

I'm not exactly sure I understand the question, but consider that your next Master may be totally different than your last Master in what he wants from you.  What a man wants and likes will vary whether he's vanilla or kinky, so that's where good communication can help.

I would suggest getting in touch with your own fantasies and desires, working from those for now.  If you're not coming up with anything there, maybe try reading some erotica for ideas.  Then when you find yourself in another relationship, talk to him about his fantasies, likes, dislikes, etc...





LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:46:30 AM)

I think she's trying to euphemistically say that her ex really liked her to show off for him and wanted her to get excited about it, and she's generalizing that most masters want their slaves to be exhibitionists who enjoy performing and don't hold back.



MstrssPassion -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:55:16 AM)

don't go into the light

[sm=rolleyes.gif]



PONYSEEKER -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 10:13:46 AM)

Your next master might be compleatly different and like different things from your last master however if  you are interested in learing how to strip better oral ect. then there is tons of material out there.  I myself love a great show especially if its really kinky so I can kind of understand your previouse Masters desires, there is nothing like a great show especially if its unexpected actions at unexpected times!



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 10:42:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ADomlesssub



Masters,

i know that shyness is not permitted,

Who said? I'm betting it was your last Master...but know that it's not a universal thing.

quote:

please please could you let me know what you Manly Masters....

Guess that leaves me out...although, I did install the garbage disposal all by myself without chipping a nail. [:D]

I'd not worry about it too much. The likelyhood of your next Master wanting, or even liking, the same things as the first is slim.

Master Fire



ADomDoc -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 10:59:02 AM)

Personally, I find a little shyness in a sub as attractive. 

Put it into your profile (if not already there). 

Approach Doms who like a shy sub.  I know some folks believe the Dom should make the 1st move ... for myself ... if someone finds someone they are interested in ... and they don't make a move ... then they shouldn't bitch that they weren't approached by that person.

If you find that ALL Gorean Doms hate shyness ... then get away from the Goreans. 

But if you choose to live in a fantasy world ... then you need to follow those rules. 

Pick one.




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 11:20:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam
Guess that leaves me out...although, I did install the garbage disposal all by myself without chipping a nail. [:D]


I changed out the front porch light fixtures all by myself and didn't chip a nail, didn't electrocute myself and didn't burn down the house........ and they work! [:)]  LOL!

Oooops sorry for the brief hijack... [&:]



Daddy4Princess4 -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 11:22:26 AM)

You're going to have to find the flow there and follow it....



PiercedDaz -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 5:51:58 PM)

Next time he asks you to do something kinky to him...

Force him down onto his chest, ram a clothes brush up his arse (preferably a yellow one), somehow pee into your own mouth and then spit it over him.

I can assure you that he'll go off this game quite quickly and soon find less demanding games to test your submission.

Result!



Celeste43 -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/5/2006 9:20:06 PM)

He doesn't usually mind my attacks of shyness. I hide my face in his chest and he holds me. What's wrong with that.

If you're talking about being an exhibitionist, there are a lot of private men out there who don't want you flashing all and sundry. Figure out who you are, what you need and search for someone complimentary.



ADomlesssub -> RE: Giving kink pleasure (12/6/2006 4:12:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PiercedDaz

Next time he asks you to do something kinky to him...

Force him down onto his chest, ram a clothes brush up his arse (preferably a yellow one), somehow pee into your own mouth and then spit it over him.

I can assure you that he'll go off this game quite quickly and soon find less demanding games to test your submission.

Result!



Genius - suggestion noted and off to B&Q for a length of hose......xxx



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