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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 6:51:00 PM

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God, your red hairists make me sick, I have it and I'm actually not bad to look at (bloody great compared to most of you) I've copped shit about my hair all my life and it does cause psychological issues which I'm still dealing with. I doubt you'd tell anyone you didnt like then because they were black or asian. Just a thought.

Hey domguy55, people are talking about personal preferences; not how they judge a person. I personally love red hair on a woman, but i have to admit that most guys with red hair and pale skin tend to look awkward and unhealthy... i personally don't care for blonde women, but i have been with a number of them, because it's just a preference and not a be all end all judgement

i'm sorry you have had bad experiences; as many of us have because we were fat, thin, blonde or whatever. Please try not to take what we say so personally and welcome to CollarMe.com.

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:06:40 PM

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fast reply~~~

The guy kind of has a point. If you replaced "red haired men" with "fat women" this thread would take off at the speed of light.

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:07:03 PM

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I don't care for men with blond hair, I am really attracted to tall heavy set brunettes with blue eyes

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:09:18 PM

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fast reply~~~

The guy kind of has a point. If you replaced "red haired men" with "fat women" this thread would take off at the speed of light.

Hmm what if your fat and have red hair? Actually mine is a very light reddish brown. I guess I am 2 for 2 then.

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:11:20 PM

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fast reply~~~

The guy kind of has a point. If you replaced "red haired men" with "fat women" this thread would take off at the speed of light.

Thats why I stayed out of that "fat women" thread...because everyone has a right to their own opinion.

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:12:58 PM

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fast reply~~~

The guy kind of has a point. If you replaced "red haired men" with "fat women" this thread would take off at the speed of light.

true, but that just says something bad about our culture of ultrasensitivity; not us... a person can't express an honest opinion without having to run through a gauntlet of lawyers first, and you still can't make everybody happy

here goes, i love fat women but i can't stand fat women who can't get it into their heads that they are beautiful

so, for the most part, i hate fat women, because generally they tend towards depression annd self loathing

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:23:21 PM

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here goes, i love fat women but i can't stand fat women who can't get it into their heads that they are beautiful

so, for the most part, i hate fat women, because generally they tend towards depression annd self loathing

What if they tend towards depression and self loathing for other reasons? I have both of these problems, and I accpet the fact that I'm fat, and the only one who can change it is me...I do love a man who likes a little something to hold on to!

So...getting back on topic, I really don't like guys that think they have to be all big and tough and have muscles so big they can't move their arms...as for women, I like them with red hair, blonde hair, orange, green or purple hair...it's only hair!

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:29:56 PM

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I like men. Period. I have general preferences towards tall, heavily built, long dark haired, blue eyed men, but the reality is, I just like men and I have never met a man that has not had something about him that was attractive. Same goes for women.

AND I do like men with red hair, as long as it is clean and neat. Especially if its long red hair. My first crush in highschool was a guy that had long red hair he kept pulled back in a ponytail and I just thought he was the sexiest thing alive. :)

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:30:57 PM

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I agree. And whats with the guys with big built up chests and skinny little legs? Thats a turn off and weird looking.

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 7:34:21 PM

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What if they tend towards depression and self loathing for other reasons? I have both of these problems, and I accpet the fact that I'm fat, and the only one who can change it is me

my issue comes from the fact that i have a side to me that is quite cruel and manipulative, this is a side of me that i don't like that actually terrifies me... unfortunately, being around people i see as weak (basically those who choose to live as a victim and live suffocated by their own deflated sense of self-worth) brings that side of me to the surface, and i cannot forgive them for that

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 8:09:00 PM

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This is my reply to a question in the Jokaroo forums at least a year or two ago; after saying that Pam Anderson doesn’t turn me on, people wanted to know what I was attracted to… It may be a little dated, but it’s all still the same.

Well, first let me say that i have no actual type (this means that the entire description is an ideal, a fantasy... and i don't know how happy i'd be if i were to meet someone that fits the whole thing... one of the worst things you can do with a fantasy is to fulfill it), each woman must be judged on an individual basis... but yes, i have an ideal, this is the woman who stars in most of my masturbatory fantasies:

red hair, long and wavy, not to curly, at least down to the waist, but i love it bound up just so i can watch it fall...

about 5 to 5 foot 4 and 125-160lbs... this is to say, i don't really want thin

pale skin, plenty of freckles to kiss, count, categorize, and name... no tan lines because there's no tan... green eyes behind cat's eye type glasses

she has to be dominant in bed and in a relationship... i'm not a push over and she would have to earn that dominance, but that's what i like

she should have a very strong belief in how she believes the world (at large and her immediate surroundings) should be and take some steps to making it so (she doesn't have to agree with me, either... rather hope she doesn't... i love a good passionate debate)

she has to be willing to try stuff that she may not be comfortable with at first, willing to try new things, and at least a little kinky

she has to have a sense of humor and a kind spirit

she should either dress goth or punk, but be happy going out in just anything... i really don't need a fashionista...

i don't want false modesty

beyond what i think of her, she has to be able to look into the mirror and tell herself, with conviction, that she is beautiful... i don't really want cocky or arrogant, but she has to have confidence and belief in herself in all that she is... she has to love herself; because without that, i know that she could never truly love me

there may be more... but this is all i can think of right now

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 8:21:14 PM

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Damn....going by that description...aside from that Dominant part...I'd be your masturbatory fantasy perfect woman!!!

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 8:26:12 PM

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I really like bald guys, but then again any male or female who is ABLE to dominant me is perfect... NOT that i easily submit FAR from it... i am a HUGE brat, just who i am....

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 8:33:38 PM

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Well, if we are going for body types now...I like the teddy bear type......so why is it the skinny guys are attracted to me...lol

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 8:36:54 PM

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Well, if we are going for body types now...I like the teddy bear type......so why is it the skinny guys are attracted to me...lol

just like i collect submissives

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 8:52:19 PM

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Cuddles:

I was engaged to a red haired man and he was a fun person to be with; however, after 18 months, I broke up with him because he was lazy and a mama's boy.

There are a lot of worse things out there in seeing a man with red hair. The last blind date I had was with a man who had bad breath and kept staring at my chest whenever we converse. In the end, I knew he was not going to have me or my breasts and could not have been happier leaving the restaurant in a record time of 45 minutes....just like the cartoon characters who run through the door!

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 9:01:56 PM

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I tend to lean more towards a man with dark hair. Blonds and redheads don't do it for me, but I have liked blonds. Redheads..not so much..then again, I'm one..and I think that has something to do with me not liking it. I love my hair colour and length, just don't like the hair colour on a guy. Eyes are usually a big thing for me though...

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 9:06:59 PM

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A bit off topic here, but a kind of question inspired by darch's post/physical things that turn you on/off. What is it with some men and glasses? What is it about a woman in glasses that turns men on? I've known a few in my life, and it's always made me wonder. Me personally, I love being able to look straight into a person's eyes with no metal or glass in the way. Just curious.

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 9:10:46 PM

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I love slaves with black hair, dark eyes, and fat squishy bodies. I always thought it was strange that I attract so many blonde male slaves, but after reading darchChylde's post about attracting submissives it makes more sense. I had assumed from the self confidence that comes through in his posts that he was dominant, I will have to reread & rewrite my profile again - this time I will think about how it comes across to others.

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RE: Hair Color - 12/12/2006 9:12:39 PM

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Lorelei, glasses used to be considered a turn-off as was epitomized by the old saying,

Men seldom make passes
at girls who wear glasses.

Naturally, Dorothy Parker had a couple of humorous responses.

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