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adaddysgirl -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/15/2006 3:42:55 AM)
i have tried the ashtray thing a few times....ashes flicked on me and in my mouth but no cigarettes ever put out on me. i personally didn't like it and that was okay with him, so we never did it again. But it was kinda funny. After flicking the ashes in my mouth, he would touch my chin so my mouth closed then i was to reopen if after swallowing....kinda like one of those trash cans you step on a peddle to open.....lol. If i didn't hate it so much, i could have found it rather comical [&:] Daddysgirl

ownedgirlie -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/15/2006 7:50:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: adaddysgirl But it was kinda funny. After flicking the ashes in my mouth, he would touch my chin so my mouth closed then i was to reopen if after swallowing....kinda like one of those trash cans you step on a peddle to open.....lol. If i didn't hate it so much, i could have found it rather comical [&:] This made me grin....heh.

MasterSundog -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/15/2006 11:14:35 AM)
Thank you for all of your replies. I have read them all with great interest. I have definately come to the conclusion that its not a very popular practice. regards MasterSundog

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/15/2006 11:31:58 AM)
Sundog oh I could have told you that right off the bat if that's what you really wanted to know. It's more popular amongst the leather/homosexual communities, specially when it comes to cigar fetishes, much less so among general het kinksters.

MasterSundog -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/18/2006 3:30:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Sundog oh I could have told you that right off the bat if that's what you really wanted to know. It's more popular amongst the leather/homosexual communities, specially when it comes to cigar fetishes, much less so among general het kinksters. Hi. Yes I also have noticed this within the homosexual community. I also noticed that most of the replies to my question were from the usa and the uk. I lived in germany and holland for many years and also worked in 2 sm clubs as a resident Master. I found it a lot more popular there and regulary used female slaves as objects and ashtrays, one of which was my 24/7 slave for 2 years. I find it interesting that different countries have different interests/tollerances. for example I did a post on breast bondage/breast suspension and got some interesting replies. I practised it regulary in the 2 countries I mentioned but when returning to the UK found it very unpopular. Iff it wasnt for work I would continue to live abroad.

Sirandlittle1 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/18/2006 5:36:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterSundog Hi there. I'm a very experienced Male Dom with a particular interest in objectification. I allways train my female slaves/subs this way as I find it a very important part of their servitude. I also enjoy using them (their mouths) as ashtrays on a regular basis, and I am lucky enough to have a part time slave that enjoys this immensely. I was wondering iff any other female slaves/subs on here have been used in this way?? as I find it a subject not often talked about. I have known male subs used like this but not many female objects/ashtrays??? regards Hello MasterSundog. Your question has raised a few for me. Often, i will read of a particular play form, not understanding it. But then, after exploring and reading, although i dont personally appreciate the thought of say, scat, i can understand the humiliation aspect of play. With regard to objectification, why? What is it that you get from this? What need does it feed? How does it work mentally for each of you? Ive read LA discuss how becoming a 'object' free's her of having to think/do, she can just 'be'. I was curious then, this has re-triggered the curiosity. I would genuinely like to understand what elements are at play in this form of play. If you, or another reader could explain, id be grateful. either here, or via our contact details. regards littleone MasterSundog

Sirandlittle1 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/18/2006 5:40:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane I've seen a slave used as an ashtray by her Master. I was at a party at their home and they, myself and a couple of others were in the room designated for smoking, sitting around talking and she was required to eat the ashes of her cigarette and put it out in her hand (using saliva to help prevent burns) as well as eat his and have it put out in her hand. See that, right up there ^ that's why i dont do public! Ya just never know what your gonna see next. I have a hard enough time with Sir pushing my limits, damned if i want some aquaintence taking the liberty. littleone

asiandoll27 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/20/2006 12:14:16 AM)
Definately never had the issue raised - would have to wonder about a Dom or Domme who first looked at me and was only thinking i would be a good ashtray! It might happen, but just never heard of it until now.

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