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RumpusParable -> RE: A question for switches (2/9/2007 10:56:56 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AlexAussieSub
Do you ever meet people who you find attractive to the Dom/me part of you, but not to the Sub part of you, or vice versa?
To date this is the only way I work. I don't switch with a single partner. Whether I'm dominant, equal or submissive to another is part of my inherent chemistry with them, not something I can or want to shift back and forth.
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Or is someone just attractive to you and it doesn't really matter whether you go Dom/me or Sub to them?
I am not one who normally has any romantic or sexual ties to my D/s partnerships. I sometimes will find a dominant personalitied person attractive, but never someone submissive to me. My sexual and romantic relationships tend to develop naturally for me with no consideration for D/s possibilities or inclinations... I just don't feel that way towards those submissive to me, sometimes find those dominant to be attractive, and only can have a solid partnership with someone who is equal to me with no D/s dynamic between us..
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If you're bisexual, do members of one gender tend to be attractive to the dominant side of you more than the submissive side, and members of the other tend to be attractive to the submissive side of you more than the dominant side?
No. For me so far no pattern like this has emerged. It's purely on an individual basis.
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