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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/22/2006 12:25:43 PM

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never recieved anal fisting have recived vaginal fisting

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/22/2006 8:52:09 PM

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Anal fisting can absolutely be done without damage. John has provided some excellent information.
I speak (as many do) from personal experience. Though I have not been completely fisted, I have taken 4 fingers and she stopped because I said ouch....which was not the safe word, but she was pretty nervous about harming me so that was enough for her. In a later scene it was her turn, and not only did it not damage her but it was an incredible turn on for her....I could feel it inside

But it must be done carefully and slowly and with full trust and a priority to safety.

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/24/2006 1:48:04 AM

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well I have medical issues most from having had 6 unmentionables...kids do wreck your life...well at least your sex life! when you are 4-9 and have regular size babies somethigns gott give...

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/24/2006 7:52:30 AM

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As good a reason as any, thankfully us guys do not have to endure that. I am however still seeking someone who will train me in this area and very frustrated by it too!

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/26/2006 3:21:20 AM

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greeting johnwarren

i heard so much about you your a legend but even if you that there is no need to be rude i see you a fan of this that is you kink i am not fighting with anyone about it but i ask again what is the pleasure factor submissive. a little pain it has to have some pain. i never wrote to you i have respect for you but not if you are being catty and i know my post is one o many you just turn you head at but i was not rude to you ever and fish on pizza is because they enjoy it. now i got my answer they enjoy it so much but may i ask the legend is there any tearing of tissuse at all ever is there long term damage such as having to wear a depents now i am not being funny or smart there was on adutl acotr a female who had to wear them from so many years of have lagre penis in her anus now this is question is again does this have bad things happen i saw a moive where the male had a man who two arms not one but two arm were in his anus up to the elbows this was shocking and i thought i had seen all what of this johnwarren does this cause damage and when it is a man's arm it is a whole different thing so that is my question i know about pizza i know about they love this arm up. but two are is there any danger there thank so for letting answer

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mons ( be nice your i heard so intelligent and have most of everyone quoting you i am not a enemy i am a friend here i do not wish to have a fight with )

thank you so

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/27/2006 6:32:27 AM

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mons,

I have read the drama of your personal story...as well as the drama you stir up when you missunderstand something posted.

Perhaps you should re-read a post and wait several minutes to consider what the person might have been saying...or have someone explaine what you've read when you find it 'catty' or if you think someone is being rude....BEFORE you go challenging what they wrote and suggesting that they are being rude..

While I'm sure John can defend himself; he probably wouldn't bother here...just more drama!

I will post what he said again...and explain it to you. He said:

" I'd just like someone to explain to me what's so enjoyable about fish on pizza.

Basically, if someone likes something, it's unexplainable to people who don't like it and if the other person likes it, an explaination is unneeded."

All that means is...it doesn't MATTER what people like OR why they like it. THAT they like it is enough...just like the fact that some like fish on their pizza and some don't. Who cares? People do lots of things that may not be good for them...unsafe sex, smoking, drinking...getting worked up over pixels on a screen. It really just doesn't matter, mons...they LIKE it...that's all 'we' need to know.

He was neither being rude, nor catty...
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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/27/2006 6:54:23 AM

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Well put too! Now can we get backk to the real subject, lol.

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/27/2006 9:43:40 AM

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umm I would also like to suggest that you RE-READ your post for typos and sentences that actually make sense.

I had to re-read your post a couple of times before I understood what you were attempting to say.

While I post infrequently, I read often. John is no way was being rude, catty, or otherwise disrespectful.

I agree with MsB, ask someone to explain what was meant before you go off being what you claimed He was, rude and disrespectful.

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/27/2006 10:08:45 AM

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I'm not sure whether, Beverly is referring to a "blossom' of HPV clusters or a collection of thrombosed hemorrhoids. I have seen some women with some of the aforementioned and the latter. The former were directed to a clinic for STD's, the latter were used for our mutual pleasures.
Even thrombosed hemorrhoids can be "navigated" when using some caution and lots of lube, taking ones time and reserving the urge to thrust until after the sphincters have been succesfully negotiated.
For those that might have evidence of the HPV or veneral warts and choose to engage in risky sex anyway, I say "Shame of you" for being part of the growing spread of the virus. If you really hate someone enough to want to kill them, I suppose that the Human Papiloma Virus is a possible "gunshot" to the cervix of your target. Cancer kills, and cervicial cancer is an insidious weapon that is used by the numb, clueless, stupid and misogynist that haunts My world.
I've never fisted a girl up to the elbow anally, but, I have deep fisted them vaginally and I DID NOT find them stretched beyond the capacity of My own thickness afterwards.
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John, Sir...

What about those men who can grab their anuses with both hands, fingers inside, pulling outwards to show off their innards? What do they call such an opening; those with ...what, scar tissue surrounding the anus...some kinda flower? (no, it ain't ‘rosebud’, I’m sure)

Beverly

I'm afraid I haven't encountered anyone with that sort of skill in my social circle. I am, however, somewhat of an expert in scar tissue thanks some unfriendly souls in Cambodia, and I can state that scar tissue is both less flexible and more prone to cracking and tearing than the skin and muscle it replaces.

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/27/2006 10:10:36 AM

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Welcome home, Bro'.
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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/27/2006 10:49:44 AM

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Sounds like it could be alot of fun or alot of pain. I have thought about it have used large dildo on myself and enjoyed that. I would want someone to try it on me, but finding someone without huge hands may be hard. But I'm willing to try!!

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RE: Anal Fisting - 12/30/2006 5:07:03 PM

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I am here as a vetern of anal fisting. My partner and I have been together for 25 years. And as a fantasy fisting was interesting. It took me one year of playing each night to expand him and allow him to mentally realize what we were doing. It is a part of our play, yet I have to also advise that the anus does become looser. He plays with large dildoes and such so that even though I am not stretching him, he is stretching himself. I as his TOP find it a very "spiritual" experience. Think that I will probably get a lot of flack for that, but there is such a feeling of being "inside" of him, and giving him such pleasure.

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RE: Anal Fisting - 2/12/2007 8:41:49 AM

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i am sorry, i know this read is a month and a half old, if the almighty Moderators find this post a problem, pleese just remove it, and i am sorry.

i am in the procsess of acsepting my Master`s hand inside my anus, he have gotten to five fingers but have not gotten completly in yet. It is somwhat painful, but baring some soreness, there have never been any problem or damage done. I think the key to sucsefully analy fisting somone is lube, patience and trust and then it will most likely work after some time. Aslo remeber while a little pain might be expectant, excrusiating agony, the one that make you want to scream, that can be a sign somthing is wrong and must be taken very seriously.

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RE: Anal Fisting - 2/14/2007 8:10:09 AM

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I have always thought of the anus as an exit-not an entrance--Am I just behinde in the times or what?

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RE: Anal Fisting - 2/16/2007 2:16:51 PM

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In England people with lax anal spincters tend to use tampons to prevent faecal leakage. As an A&E (ER to all you Americans!) Sister i saw a huge number of people into anal play. During the 80's fisting was for pussies it was all head fucking- literally! In my time i have remove everything from light bulbs, guava fruit, huge dildos and live rodents from rectums and know that some people have an endless capacity when it comes to anal accommodation. It all depends on how much they are able to relax durng insertion and the lube used!

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RE: Anal Fisting - 2/16/2007 2:52:59 PM

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i have seen it done. That is soooooo not gonna happen to my rectum.sure it can be stretched.. Its isnt going to be though. noooo.... i like pain as much as the next depaved slut but on exposed skin only

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RE: Anal Fisting - 2/16/2007 6:03:35 PM

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anal fisting is about as intimate as u can get. take it slow and always always always wash ur hands before an afta and use a nail brush and keep ur nails short. i m a past master of anal fisting fell free to write me with any questions i gots the doctorate in dis subject

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RE: Anal Fisting - 2/17/2007 7:50:07 AM

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And I was worried about a fist! lol. That said it is nce to see someone with knowledge of such things, perhaps you may show me one day, lol.

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RE: Anal Fisting - 2/17/2007 9:37:40 AM

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Don't ask me why I know this, I'll deny it. But, I think the 'flowering' of the anus your are talking about is, in the uncommon vernacular, known as an "ass tulip". The medical term for this is rectal prolapse, and refers to the internal rectal walls sliding outside of the anus and forming something that looks like, well, a bright red tulip.

Yeah, seriously.

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RE: Anal Fisting - 2/17/2007 9:49:17 AM

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I've so enjoyed this post. I think I take fisting for granted. I have very small hands (my ring finger is a size four) I have fisted submissives, slaves and even my own Master (hey - anything that pleases him and allows me to serve him is all right with me!) W/we had a minute where we had trouble at the entrance of the wrist. I've found old fashoned vaseline is the perfect lubricant for fisting. (After all - it was used as a rectal thermometer lubricant for how many years?)

And its better than sheep (Wonder if ANYONE will ask about that one LOL)

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