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insanityprevails -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/20/2006 8:31:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: littlesubjess

Wow, I'm finding this post bizarre ... I never knew things like this happened .... can i ask a question, Insanityprevails ? Its just merely out of curiosity, but doesnt it marr the image you have of your Dom, and alter your perception etc ? I think I would be qiute confused in your situation. Credit for taking the time to research and understand the topic for the sake of your Dom though ...

Submissively,
Jess xxx



Nope, doesn't marr my image at all, considering I'm sadistic, but I can't stand dominating. I've just never been able to be sadistic until now, so I'm rather happy :) I just don't quite know how to do it, as it's always just been a fantasy.




Rover -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/20/2006 8:49:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: insanityprevails
[Nope, doesn't marr my image at all, considering I'm sadistic, but I can't stand dominating. I've just never been able to be sadistic until now, so I'm rather happy :) I just don't quite know how to do it, as it's always just been a fantasy.


Interestingly, I've found some submissives/slaves to be incredibly sadistic.  Some in a direct fashion, others more vicariously.
 
John




lateralist1 -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/20/2006 9:06:26 AM)

I'm mainly a sadist but I have some masochistic tendencies and as long as I am totally in control of the sub and the relationship then I like to instruct my slave in anyway to please me.
It looks as if I am not unusual from the posts above.
However I should talk to your Dom about how he feels about you coming up with the ideas.
I know how I'd feel if my slave tried to come up with them. Just the same as I feel when slaves come up with ideas on how I should dominate them lol.
If a slave wants to please me then he does as I say.
But then every Dom/me is different and he might be happy with you finding ways to please him.
Do make sure though. I would hate you to get it wrong for your sake.




shadevarr -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/20/2006 12:44:11 PM)

*nods* Myself, I hand her a very exact script when I am in the mood to recieve pain. I also see nothing wrong with masochism and dominance. They are seperate aspects of BDSM to me.




akisha -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/20/2006 2:27:38 PM)

Wear Spurs to bed *eg*




mymasterssub69 -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/20/2006 2:37:00 PM)

don't know if anyone said this but if i wanted to hurt my Daddy i would merely squeeze tight the balls / cock and not let go





TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/20/2006 7:30:18 PM)

Hummm...a good left hook?.....[8|]...Tempting




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/20/2006 8:34:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Rover
Tell him the neighborhood adolescents are bigger than he is?
 
John
   [sm=biggrin.gif] LMAO
To the OP, pick up a book called "The Family Jewels" and you'll learn new wonderful ways to hurt him.    M




LotusSong -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/22/2006 8:56:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rover

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ORIGINAL: insanityprevails
Does anyone have any ways to hurt a dom during sex, from the bottom? Any help appreciated!!


Tell him the neighborhood adolescents are bigger than he is?
 
John
 



 
... or a simple "...is it in yet"?
 
But seriously.. try  some nipple biting or tweeking.




Donnalee -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/22/2006 9:14:03 AM)

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Tell him the neighborhood adolescents are bigger than he is?

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... or a simple "...is it in yet"?


LOL...we could probably cross this thread with that one Michael of Georgia had a while ago..."What not to say to your Dom"





MrrPete -> RE: Hurting Dom During Sex (12/22/2006 9:35:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LordODiscipline

Then sharpen your nails - run them down his back during the buildup of passion - and, at the "moment of truth" - grab a handful of salt and apply liberally.
 
~J


Or swab his back with an alcohol soaked cottonball. Just make sure you broke the skin while scratching.




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