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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:07:32 PM

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Actually if you may allow me to correct something... no, I AM looking for a commitment... LOVE, long term romance... someone who will be part of our family, my best friend, my confidant... I want forever... well as forever as anything is these days... but yes, I want to have someone be a part of my life for the long term... not just a once in a while thing... Does it need to be a live in type thing? No.. not necesarily, but I would LOVE it if she wanted to live with us, wake up every morning with us, have times when we I can sleep with her instead of Master for those times I want a soft female touch.

And for the vast majority of lesbians (women who'd like the same thing) your Master is a giant penis-possessed liability. It's not going to be easy for you, not remotely. I see a lot of what you want - but honestly the chance to sleep with you when you don't feel like sleeping with your Master sweetened with the opportunity to do your housework in part isn't exactly most people's storybook romance.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:07:45 PM

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Aww... but I just joined in. Does that mean I have to go away now?

Lol no way - i enjoy your posts way too much for that.

Yay! *does a happy dance*

What is that creature anyway?

I think it's a bunny without floppy ears.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:07:58 PM

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Oh my FREAKING LORD... you guys are talking about me overreacting yet I never said that everyone was a fake.. I simply said that most people on here are fake... Why are YOU taking it personally? Why do YOU feel I attacked you in particular about your sex? Did I say you're not really a man? No I dont think so.. did I say that everyone on here is fake? No... I simply said that most of the people I have interacted with have turned out to be fake.

It was a vent session... NOTHING more nothing less... I did not direct my vents at anyone in particular.. however I have been called a liar, an idiot, a child, immature, imapatient and a host of other things... Not in general like I did, but specifically me.. and you're questioning why I'm defending myself?

Are you KIDDING ME!?!?!

Oh ones! People are holding you accountable for what you said! Goshes and jeepers, Jughead, no one said anyone would do that.

Your OP didn't come across as "merely" a rant. How are we supposed to know the difference? You complained and it blew it up in your face.

Hmm... may I invite you to go back to my original post and read it.... and right at the very end... I suggest you read the part that says ok I'm done venting now.

How would you say that I never said I was on a rant?

I said it didn't come across as merely a rant. There is a huge difference between a rant that nobody feels needs responding to and then going off on just about everybody. Also, check the boards. This happens to everybody.

Your OP can across as whiny, "I'm not finding what I want and nobody reads my profile and nobody sends me what I'm interested in". This is why the online gods gave us the delete button!

Now, I'll admit - I haven't gone through all the posts yet. In the process of it. But you certainly appear to be taking low potshots, oh Miss-I'm-So-Damn-Hawt-You-Know-You-Are-Just-Jealous.

Because you know... there isn't any chance in the world that there is some truth to the "young and stupid" expression and you are acting it out. Not a chance in the world.

PS. I'm still young and stupid.

Just old enough to realize it!

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:08:01 PM

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Aww... but I just joined in. Does that mean I have to go away now?

Lol no way - i enjoy your posts way too much for that.

Yay! *does a happy dance*

What is that creature anyway?

Its a 'ranter' that has been tarred and feathered and is jumping around as the tar was just a little hot

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:09:41 PM

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Yay! *does a happy dance*

What is that creature anyway?

I think it's a bunny without floppy ears.

Really? I always thought it was a cross between a lamb and a marshmellow.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 12/21/2006 2:11:17 PM >

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:10:56 PM

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Its a 'ranter' that has been tarred and feathered and is jumping around as the tar was just a little hot

*Giggles* Oh... that's mean. And really funny.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:12:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Yay! *does a happy dance*

What is that creature anyway?

I think it's a bunny without floppy ears.

Really? I always thought it was a cross between a lamb and a marshmellow.

Hmmmm.....I can see the lamb marshmellow thing.......yes.
The world may never know.

Now let's all take a deep breath and focus on the bouncing marshmellow creature and relax.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:13:27 PM

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Hmmmm.....I can see the lamb marshmellow thing.......yes.
The world may never know.

Now let's all take a deep breath and focus on the bouncing marshmellow creature and relax.

*stares*

Now I really want a s'more.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:13:32 PM

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Its a 'ranter' that has been tarred and feathered and is jumping around as the tar was just a little hot

*Giggles* Oh... that's mean. And really funny.

The funny bit was all me but im blaming the mean bit on my God - hes a bad influence

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:14:56 PM

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The funny bit was all me but im blaming the mean bit on my God - hes a bad influence

The Devil made me do it!

Speaking of the Devil, have you heard of Vampire pinot noir? It's quite tasty...

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:17:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

The funny bit was all me but im blaming the mean bit on my God - hes a bad influence

The Devil made me do it!

Speaking of the Devil, have you heard of Vampire pinot noir? It's quite tasty...

Noooo, wine i presume?

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:17:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

The funny bit was all me but im blaming the mean bit on my God - hes a bad influence

The Devil made me do it!

Speaking of the Devil, have you heard of Vampire pinot noir? It's quite tasty...

No but at our Christmas party someone brought some Chinese salad which was toasted raman noodles and raw cabbage....all mixed up. It was sooooo good.

Just thought I would share. I'm going for my cuffs :)

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:17:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72

There is good and bad no matter where you go..I have met r/l alot of wonderful people here on CollarMe..Yes, I have had a few bad experiences but such is life...you have to learn how to weed out the good from the bad..And like I always say...if I have to meet 1,000 jerks to find one long lasting friendship, it would be worth it..good luck.

this is off topic for a moment but hi Krissi :D laughs..... merry christmas hun. hope you and the boys have a great christmas.

on topic...

as other's have said there are many on here that are real unfortunately i believe many of those that may not be at times are more aggressive, more outspoken. i wish you and your Master luck in finding what you're both looking for. it takes time but don't be too discouraged. as krissi said, there are some many awesome r/l people that i too have met thru online.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:21:19 PM

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The Devil made me do it!

Speaking of the Devil, have you heard of Vampire pinot noir? It's quite tasty...

Noooo, wine i presume?

*nodnod* They make a merlot and pinor noir. It's imported from Transyalivana (how do you spell that?), of course. It's really nice, fruit and with a touch of sharpness. If you like reds, you should check it out.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:22:47 PM

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Wow. Almost a page an hour. Not bad for a noob.

If you feel under attack it might be because you kicked down the door and came in swinging. The people here understand your frustration with fakes and have all experienced it, here, other online places and in the mythical RL. A day without a first-poster complaining about fakes is like a day without napalm.

Unfortunately you chose to make your Collar Me debut to in the very place where there is the largest concentration of real people, the forums. To your credit you have come back to face the music but I think that your subsequent behaviour has pretty much spooked any potential game. Which leaves you with a few practical choices;

- Keep swinging - which is a losing battle as it can do nothing to improve your credibility. Basically you have been rude and will not admit it.
- Apologise - take your free, introductory lumps. Sit back, listen and learn with the real people.
- Burn your profile, wait a month and return with a new pic, new nick and a more respectful attitude.

Z.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:23:10 PM

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The Devil made me do it!

Speaking of the Devil, have you heard of Vampire pinot noir? It's quite tasty...

Noooo, wine i presume?

*nodnod* They make a merlot and pinor noir. It's imported from Transyalivana (how do you spell that?), of course. It's really nice, fruit and with a touch of sharpness. If you like reds, you should check it out.

I certainly will
I like this thread now - much nicer place to be.
And to think we disagreed once upon a time lol

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:23:22 PM

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And for the vast majority of lesbians (women who'd like the same thing) your Master is a giant penis-possessed liability. It's not going to be easy for you, not remotely.

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Thank you for understanding... I know... its going to be hard but Master understands that too.. thats why he said look... I wont expect anything sexual from anyone you chose to bring to the house. Are most people going to believe me? No, and quite frankly I really dont blame them.. but this went from me venting because not only do I have a tough road ahead of me because I have chosen to submit to a man and possibly sacraficed my desire to be with women, but I have an uphill fight dealing with fakes too... and if anyone thinks its any easier in the local community... its not.

Do I have to put up with fakes? No... but I have the same problems you stated, thats the ONLY reason I'm here.... So I get on... I vent about it, and I CLEARLY state that it was a vent at the end of it, but no... people read part of it... immediately take offense and then jump on me calling me a whiner, a liar and everything else that has gone on... so yea... I got a little upset and I said some stupid things I shouldnt have.... Do I think I'm beautiful? No and quite frankly I'm AMAZED Master is interested in me at all... You want to know that I'm insecure and that when Master takes me to any of the local events I sit in the corner because I cant POSSIBLY fathom why anyone would want to talk to me?

Saying I am young and men want me instead of the person I was refering to being old and whatnot was stupid, and it probably hurt people I NEVER intended on hurting... but when someone throws eggs at every word I say, and critisizes everything for what? to help? no, simply to belittle, I get upset... you would too, and even I lash out.

So sorry to everyone I offended with that comment expect for the person it was directed to. Some of you on here and notice I say "SOME OF YOU!!!!!!!!!" Are Oh so wonderful... you're just the coolest with your little clicks... jump down everyones throat and nitpick at the tiniest thing you can find to make yourself look oh so cool and sophisticated... Nice click you have going on.

The rest of you... Thank you for your words, and your advice... I truly appreciate it, and this is the LAST time I will post on this forum.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:26:15 PM

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I certainly will
I like this thread now - much nicer place to be.
And to think we disagreed once upon a time lol

Yay! I did my part to make the interwebs a nicer place. We'll probably disagree sometime in the future but remember, when it's all over I'll share my cookie with you!

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:26:24 PM

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I'm sure this has probably gone off-topic by now, but in reply to the OP:

Yes, your concerns are valid- there are plenty of guys who are pretending to be gals to get their rocks off. Welcome to the Interweb.

I met my houseboy online, and we're desperately in love. My friend met her boy online, and they are sickeningly happy. I've met and played with many boys (and the odd girl) from here and other sites.

Be patient, stop whining, and remember that to meet a genuine, nice, sweet, wonderful woman who will fulfill your Master's requirements (and your own) is not an instant thing. If you want targeted matchmaking, you need to go to find a paid matchmaking site that screens them and finds you potential matches.

Hey - there's a thought! Someone could start a BDSM matchmaking service and make a million! I want royalties for the idea.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:29:15 PM

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Do I have to put up with fakes? No... but I have the same problems you stated, thats the ONLY reason I'm here.... So I get on... I vent about it, and I CLEARLY state that it was a vent at the end of it, but no... people read part of it... immediately take offense and then jump on me calling me a whiner, a liar and everything else that has gone on... so yea... I got a little upset and I said some stupid things I shouldnt have.... Do I think I'm beautiful? No and quite frankly I'm AMAZED Master is interested in me at all... You want to know that I'm insecure and that when Master takes me to any of the local events I sit in the corner because I cant POSSIBLY fathom why anyone would want to talk to me?

Saying I am young and men want me instead of the person I was refering to being old and whatnot was stupid, and it probably hurt people I NEVER intended on hurting... but when someone throws eggs at every word I say, and critisizes everything for what? to help? no, simply to belittle, I get upset... you would too, and even I lash out.

So sorry to everyone I offended with that comment expect for the person it was directed to. Some of you on here and notice I say "SOME OF YOU!!!!!!!!!" Are Oh so wonderful... you're just the coolest with your little clicks... jump down everyones throat and nitpick at the tiniest thing you can find to make yourself look oh so cool and sophisticated... Nice click you have going on.

The rest of you... Thank you for your words, and your advice... I truly appreciate it, and this is the LAST time I will post on this forum.

Yay! She apologized. Can we make peace with wine and cookies now?

Seriously, you don't need to leave. Everyone makes their social blunder and says something stupid that people fuss at them for. Even on the interwebs. Does anyone remember my "thoughtless" blunder? *cowers and hides* Actually, please don't remember that. From what I can tell, most of us don't hold grudges.

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