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Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:35:01 AM   
sweetsatori


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Status: offline 		So Master and I decided to start looking for another girl oh about a couple weeks ago, so I started my profile here... first of all let me say that in our local community, I've heard everyone talking about the differences between the online BDSM world and the real world, and I never quite understood what they meant until I came on here... now I get it.

First of all, it really doesn’t matter what you write on your profile... you could put in BIG BOLD LETTERS!!!! I AM OWNED, and the stupid men STILL email you asking if you want to be their slave... oh yea... you have absolutely no honor, or morals or sense to read someone’s profile... which shows me that you are LAZY, and you expect me to serve you? LOL. Then there are the myriad of profiles who profess to be women but in reality are nothing more than men pretending... let me elaborate.

Member X emails saying hi my name is so and so.. I'm bisexual... boy your hot... could you tell me about your first bi experience? Well first off those are easy to weed out cuz those ones are nothing more than guys looking to get their rocks off on your stories, and when they get pissed off that you tell them its none of your business you can pretty much tell what they're after.

Then there are the ones who sound good, don’t push you.. want to be submissive and are obedient, polite and whatnot.. but the SECOND you say ok...I want you to call me so that we can verify you're a woman they disappear... no goodbye, no explanation... nothing... just vanished like a ghost LOL. Then we met this rather resourceful gentleman who said he's not willing to call us but he'll get on mic only to come find out that the whole time he was using a program that changed his voice to make it sound like a woman... .Master did a bit of research and found a whole bunch of them for cheap that would do that through chat programs like yahoo.

Oh... lets not forget about the ones who get outraged that you want them to prove they are a woman so soon in the communications process... like oh yea... lets chit chat for 3 months.. waste my time the whole time.. let you get your rocks off, then find out you were fake the whole time... sure.. that sounds like what I want to do. Oh and you cant forget about those who might be real, but flat out don’t want anything but online "use" yea like I want to waste my time fulfilling your fantasy by pretending to use and discipline you and get nothing out of it? Are you KIDDING ME???

Are there any real people out there anymore? Is everyone fake? Oh and anyone who says they want to be humiliated and treated like crap 24/7 yea... I just ignore them cuz those people have no idea what they are talking about and havent even passed the fantasy stage yet... but whats with most of the so called women online being nothing more than horny ass guy. I mean I've met some wonderful lesbian women who really quite honestly werent interested in me because I was with a man, and thats fine.. I can respect that, but cant these sites do something to certify that someone is really who they say they are? Hell cant they expect people to send in a picture of themselves holding up a sign that they wrote clearly on with the date, their screen name on the site, and something else to signify that they are who they say they are? Or are we left having to wade through the hip deep pile of idiots out there who wouldn’t know what honor or truth is even if it turned around and stuck a needle through their shriveled up excuse for a ball sack.

()&%)$Q*&%* ok I'm done venting now... Thank you.
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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:37:26 AM   
JerseyKrissi72


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From: Reed City, Michigan
Status: offline 		There is good and bad no matter where you go..I have met r/l alot of wonderful people here on CollarMe..Yes, I have had a few bad experiences but such is life...you have to learn how to weed out the good from the bad..And like I always say...if I have to meet 1,000 jerks to find one long lasting friendship, it would be worth it..good luck.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:39:07 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I am not real, are any of us really real

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:39:44 AM   
meatcleaver


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Status: offline 		If you are looking for someone online you get what you deserve and the people who email you get what they deserve. It seems to me you find each other.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:40:09 AM   
eyesopened


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From: Tampa, FL
Status: offline 		i have always looked at sites like this as going to the flea market...Yes, there's a lot of junk, but if you keep looking you can find some real treasures.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:41:04 AM   
KatyLied


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From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline 		Yet another whining thread about how people aren't *real*.
I award you one velveteen rabbit.


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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:44:37 AM   
MsBearlee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i have always looked at sites like this as going to the flea market...Yes, there's a lot of junk, but if you keep looking you can find some real treasures. 


Oh, I love that!  So true, too...
 
Bringin' out my hip boots, to go wading with friends I've come to know here...
MsB

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:44:40 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


Posts: 2464
Joined: 1/26/2006
From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		Takes more than a few weeks to find someone. Master and I have been looking for 8 months with no luck. So be patient. Maybe your local community things would be better to find someone. Online is not always the best place.

< Message edited by sweetnurseBBW -- 12/21/2006 6:51:21 AM >

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:46:00 AM   
ADomlesssub


Posts: 69
Joined: 3/6/2006
Status: offline 		me me me - i'm real!!

i think... or maybe i am so unreally - or is that unruly... hehe...x

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:46:06 AM   
stef


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Status: offline 		We've been blessed with another one-hit whining wonder.  Christmas came early this year!

~stef

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:52:15 AM   
justheather


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Status: offline 		People look for years to find the right fit.
Sometimes you get lucky and you find a gem online. It seems most people's experience shows the odds are against it, but that doesnt mean it doesnt happen.
I see it as something akin to going out to bars when I was younger. I never went out expecting to find my soul-mate there, but I was open to meeting all kinds of people and maybe if the stars were aligned that night Id meet someone like-minded Id like to get to know better.
Maybe you could take a less task-oriented approach and just get to know people here. You never know what the Universe is going to leave waiting on your doorstep when the timing is right. You might as well learn from and enjoy the people you meet while you are waiting.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:53:36 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		There is something about BDSM or whatever you want to call this, and you can see it over and over and over again, how maturity or thought processes go thru this metamorphosis, post one being a bitch post of some type, depending on your age, just how far you look down your nose is open to interpretation, post two (if there is one, and there often is not), kinda like a fuck all you guys post, then post three going along the lines of OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH-----------

and then it starts to get as real as anything on this site.

LOL,

Ron  

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 6:57:53 AM   
MasterLordguru


Posts: 73
Joined: 7/2/2006
From: Syracuse, NY
Status: offline 		I agree, what is real? IS it real that we come online to interact with people who are bits of electric impulses going over millions and millions of wires? Is it real that we try to get a grasp of who and what we are and that becuase the society around us has jaded us to the point of the "reality" that we come online to seek what we desire?

IF the Open Society around us would be more willing to bring our mindset and lifestyle in the open, there would be no online. Unfortunetly, not all of us follow doctrine like  Henry David Thoreou suggested in Walden Pond. Not all of us follow the Words of Ralph Waldo Emerson. Not all of us believe in the Doctrine of Fredrick Nietszche. Not all of us are Social Darwinist. Most if not all (and by all I say 99 44/100 percent ) are sheep. Very few can stand to the "standards" of the society and call ourselves Deranged, Perverse, Debauch, Sinful and take pride in it. And of course, why should we? After all, we aren't. We are who we are, people with deep emotions, feelings and desires and nothing to be ashamed about. It is "social" reality that makes what we do wrong and that we have to remain hidden.

Sweet Satori... There are real woman here. There are real men here. But its only as real as you desire it to be. Dont take anything to serious. And just like you said.. "are there any real woman out here".. how are we to know that you and your Master are real and not just a "Man" trying to get his rocks off? (laughs)

Master Lord Guru

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 7:00:23 AM   
UnvailedPurpose


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Status: offline 		The only thing real I can find throughout all you’re ranting, Sweetsatori, is, you are really out of control.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 7:00:29 AM   
kitriana


Posts: 62
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Status: offline 		Nope, no one on this site is real but you princess. You should just leave us all now while you are ahead.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 7:00:38 AM   
sweetsatori


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

We've been blessed with another one-hit whining wonder.  Christmas came early this year!

~stef


LOL... Oh all knowing... all online professional one... forgive me for not being used to lies... forgive me for not having wasted the last several years of my life online to have gotten used to it all.. .cuz we know that you're the all professional online godess who rather than ignoring my vent chose to try to make yourself look oh so cool by critisizing me LOL Its really a sad day when you think eh... everyone lies.. no big deal.. .just deal with it... no everyone SHOULDNT lie, you want to accept it and get used to it you go right ahead... I will not.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 7:06:10 AM   
thetammyjo


Posts: 6322
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Status: offline 		I'd say that if you are blessed with a local BDSM community that that should be the primary place you look for anyone else to add to your current kinky family.

I've never met anyone who become a long-term success with me and my household from only online searches.

If you stop looking for partners and start just interacting and getting to know folks as folks, I think you'll have greater success.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 7:08:52 AM   
meatcleaver


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsatori

quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

We've been blessed with another one-hit whining wonder.  Christmas came early this year!

~stef


LOL... Oh all knowing... all online professional one... forgive me for not being used to lies... forgive me for not having wasted the last several years of my life online to have gotten used to it all.. .cuz we know that you're the all professional online godess who rather than ignoring my vent chose to try to make yourself look oh so cool by critisizing me LOL Its really a sad day when you think eh... everyone lies.. no big deal.. .just deal with it... no everyone SHOULDNT lie, you want to accept it and get used to it you go right ahead... I will not.


Let me get my popcorn. I love bitch slapping sessions.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 7:10:21 AM   
aheartsdesire


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Status: offline 		I'm real.. really!

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 7:14:26 AM   
petdave


Posts: 2479
Status: offline 		There are, but i can't tell you where they are until you prove that you are a real woman. i'll need you to submit a video, approximately three minutes in length, showing you masturbating with a toy no smaller than three "C" batteries, end-to-end (material of your choice). To prove that it's not random Internet porn, i expect to have a bowl of Doritos in the frame with you, and have "...dave rocks my world!" written on one thigh (again, your choice) in blue Sharpie marker (blue, like the Doritos, is non-negotiable). Then and only then will the secret stash of real women (no icky gross men allowed!) be revealed.

Until then... nothing but penis for you, "satori"! (if that IS your real name)

...dave

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