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bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome who... - 12/22/2006 1:23:01 AM

mons

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greetings to all

i have a question for the males i have some very nice males write to me and i enjoy hearing from them and writing back but the moment i look at there profile it is always the are bisexual and i have no probelm with this but it is not for me some domme may like this i do not for myself i just had a wonderful letter from a male and he was bisexual this to me is a hidden person who wishes a domme to have him perform force bi this is not what i want in the male i choose not at all so males please if you can answer why this is happen so much thank you males

warm wishes for christmas to all

mons

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/22/2006 3:00:19 AM

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Well I disagree with your accessment of a bisexual male as someone who is hidden and only wants forced BI activity with his Mistress.

For one thing where is the hidden part, it is openly stated they are BI, so you are saying that every Bi person on this site men and women all want forced BI performance from there Mistress? I don't believe that to be true.

Look at my profile, I'm listed as bi and as a trans switch, I'm a crosssdresser. I get messages everyday from men on this site who list themselves as "straight" and married but always wanted to be with someone like me. There message has nothing to do with BDSM, they are looking for sexual service from a sub. These "straight" men are the ones in hiding, and most are also listed as married and I wonder if their wives know what they are seeking.

If there messages is about a desire for forced Bi performance that is one thing and you have a valid point, if however they do not and you are just assuming they desire this because they list themselves as bi, then perhaps you are assuming to much.

As for why bi males subs write you when you state you are only intersted in straight males, well who knows. I think every person on here can ask why is this or that person writing me when I state I have no interest in that

Have a Merry Christmas and a Spanking New Year

nikki

< Message edited by nikkicd10 -- 12/22/2006 3:02:36 AM >

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/22/2006 8:38:29 PM

MzMia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: nikkicd10

Well I disagree with your accessment of a bisexual male as someone who is hidden and only wants forced BI activity with his Mistress.

For one thing where is the hidden part, it is openly stated they are BI, so you are saying that every Bi person on this site men and women all want forced BI performance from there Mistress? I don't believe that to be true.

Look at my profile, I'm listed as bi and as a trans switch, I'm a crosssdresser. I get messages everyday from men on this site who list themselves as "straight" and married but always wanted to be with someone like me. There message has nothing to do with BDSM, they are looking for sexual service from a sub. These "straight" men are the ones in hiding, and most are also listed as married and I wonder if their wives know what they are seeking.

If there messages is about a desire for forced Bi performance that is one thing and you have a valid point, if however they do not and you are just assuming they desire this because they list themselves as bi, then perhaps you are assuming to much.

As for why bi males subs write you when you state you are only intersted in straight males, well who knows. I think every person on here can ask why is this or that person writing me when I state I have no interest in that
Have a Merry Christmas and a Spanking New Year

nikki

I agree with you totally nikki, if the man admits he is bisexual, he is not hiding.
I am sure you do get a lot of offers from "straight" men.
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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/22/2006 8:51:51 PM

hisannabelle

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i don't quite get why bisexual has to be a bad thing. i'm bisexual and i've been in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships with perfectly straight men...just because i'm bisexual doesn't mean i have to have both at once (although it's nice). i would think it would be the same for a male...being bisexual to me simply means i can be attracted to, and can love romantically and sexually, both women and men...not one to the exclusion of the other. for me, personally, it's because i usually don't see a gender when i'm talking to someone.

as others have mentioned, the man is openly admitting he's bisexual, but showing an interest in serving a -female- domme. he's not hiding, and he's a male seeking a female domme, which i imagine falls within your sphere of interest.

eta: i see that you do say you are only seeking straight males. maybe you should consider putting this at the top and bolding it?

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/22/2006 9:13:23 PM

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What the heck? What makes you think a bisexual man wants you to order him to have sex with men? I'm a bisexual woman and I would be deeply hurt and troubled if my dominant ordered me to have sex with a woman as we agreed on monogamy. Not every bisexual is poly and not every male bisexual is going to want you to order him to have sex with men.

Also... please start using punctuation. It's very hard to read your posts.

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/22/2006 10:48:35 PM

DevilsVendetta

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Your passing judgement much too quickly on a situation you know nothign about. Perhaps you should simply talk to these bi subs first, I'm sure many would be happy with a monogamous straight relationship.

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/22/2006 10:51:13 PM

Grlwithboy

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I had to bend over backwards to meet a bi man who wasn't married and closeted - who knew?

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/23/2006 4:36:20 AM

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Hmmmm, that's strange, I had to bend over forwards to meet one

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/23/2006 4:47:11 AM

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Ok, if a man comes on collar me and says he is bisexual, i doubt seriously he is looking for a domme to force him to be bi. He has already admitted he is bi, so why would you assume he needs to be forced.

As far as people writing you that don't match what your looking for in a partner...this is the internet, just ignore them. i get emails all the time from male submissives wanting to serve me. i guess they don't get what lesbian means.

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/23/2006 4:50:31 AM

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I disagree im bi and would love a mistriss

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/23/2006 9:01:40 PM

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mons,

Maybe they're guys who are open to bisexual activity, but are prepared to give it up if you're not happy with it.

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/24/2006 3:34:29 AM

corysub

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all of us are different and D/s to me is more the need to exhange power and control to a strong woman. There are enough opportunities for a bisexual man to find a male partner and not be dishonest with his Mistress and use her for that purpose. Just my thoughts on this thread.

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/27/2006 8:26:18 PM

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I've had one woman on this site tell me this. I told her that while I've had sex with men, it wasn't my focus. I enjoy the different dynamics, and think a polyslave situation would be interesting.

But I'm looking for a Domme, which is why I wrote to her. I'm not going to do something that she doesn't like. It's not a big deal for me not to do both genders.

But, whatever...

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RE: bisexual males slave and submissive why pick a dome... - 12/28/2006 8:45:08 AM

pinkkeith

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I have to agree with everyone that has posted on her. I would just like to add that bisexuality is not just found among submissive men, but there are also vanilla bisexuals as well. You shouldn't draw conclusions about someone simply based on their sexual orientation. There are many bisexuals who are poly and there are also many who are monos. You may want to ask these men what bisexuality means to them.

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