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ElectraGlide -> Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 7:28:23 PM)

This is no question I just want to hear thoughts to see if I am thinking right. We all know Mommy Boys, they are in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, etc. I know a few that their Mother is their Dom because she never let go of them. No matter what the idiot boy does Mommy will back him on it, he is never wrong it is somebody elses fought. Yes they are 45 and live at home with Mommy and get 25 bucks a week to take out the garbage and cut the grass because they are too much of a spoiled sissy to hold a job. They never grew the balls to support their own weight and be self reliant. I have seen where the Mother resented her other kids that broke off and became independent. I have seen Grandmother Doms with Sub Grandsons also. There is nothing like seeing a teenage kid having to be driven to High School every day because somebody might pick on him. Being overprotective is one thing but smothering someones interaction with the real world is ridiculus. I am just raising a issue for discussion here, it might go nowhere lol, but the Collarme panel always has great view points.......




RedSavageSlave -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 7:29:48 PM)

My son is a 21 yr old momma's boy and yet strangely...he is also a dom...

riddle me this batman!




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 7:35:28 PM)

My x was a mommies  boy, it's eventually what forced me to leave him and end the relationship. I do NOT come second to any one's mom,  and I do not tolerate my mate allowing someone else to meddle in our relationship.




brat4u -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 7:35:40 PM)

i know of these types of men....i call them Ummmmm well at least one "the manchild"




ElectraGlide -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 7:39:41 PM)

When I say Mommies boy, I mean a hardcore Mommies boy. One that is in his 40s and is a raving crying lunatic in public because he is not getting his way. I mean someone that is emotionly brain fucked. We all tease our kids about being Mommies boy but I have seen some doozies.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 7:42:18 PM)

There are plenty of people who are adults in terms of age but do not take responsibility for themselves and get others to clean up their messes and take care of them.

I honestly don't know a single adult male whose relationship with his mother (or lack thereof) didn't severly impact how they view the world and treat the females around them. 




Lashra -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 8:51:29 PM)

I've seen a few of these. One case in point: Mommy told him that when he was young that he was "The Little Prince" or "The Man of the House" when Dad wasn't around. She gave him everything he wanted, told him girls were *stubborn* and would *lead him astray* that they needed to be taught to do what he wanted him to do. He was taught he was always right and that everyone else was to blame for his problems. If he did do something wrong, he was just being a *boy* so it was ok that he broke out neighbor's truck window with a brick. Anytime he got into trouble Mommy bailed him out. To this day the dude still lives at home with his elderly Mom. He can't hold a job, nor has he had a girlfriend for very long. Because his *everything is about me* attitude coupled with interference from Mommy ran them away.

To me trying to mold a boy into a man by crippling him, isn't going to help him. They need to learn to act as adults and think/judge for themselves. BTW this guy was in NO way sub, he was very Dom because Mommy told him ALL men had to be that way. Or was he Dom? I'd say BRAT fit the bill more precisely.

~Lashra




ElectraGlide -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:06:59 PM)

The Maryland Rednecks I work with seek the Mommy Boy types out to tease them so we can see a good spazz, for a source of entertainment. A good hint is when the 50 something year old guy has to have his 70 something year old mother drive him to work because he is too sorry to quit getting DUIs at his age. He was raised that the world is his litterbox and mommy will always dress him and pick up after him. You have to admit that the Mommy and her mommy boy is a mental mind domination. How about a post on sibling rivarly when two siblings drag it well into their adult years. Is that called two people trying to both be Dom but having hissy fits instead. I know I am geting silly, but human behavior is interesting and there are many parallels with who is on top and who is on bottom.




mnottertail -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:12:40 PM)

So, I am betting that you guys work at McDonalds or what?

Ronald McDonald




LotusSong -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:16:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ElectraGlide

The Maryland Rednecks I work with seek the Mommy Boy types out to tease them so we can see a good spazz, for a source of entertainment. A good hint is when the 50 something year old guy has to have his 70 something year old mother drive him to work because he is too sorry to quit getting DUIs at his age. He was raised that the world is his litterbox and mommy will always dress him and pick up after him. You have to admit that the Mommy and her mommy boy is a mental mind domination. How about a post on sibling rivarly when two siblings drag it well into their adult years. Is that called two people trying to both be Dom but having hissy fits instead. I know I am geting silly, but human behavior is interesting and there are many parallels with who is on top and who is on bottom.


Excuse me.. WHY would you give a rat's ass about this anyway?  Yes, you are BEING (not 'getting' silly).  There are way  more important things in life to fret about than the size of another's "balls".  And who are you .. the official masculinity evaluator?  The MAJOR BALL CHECKER???  Cross your legs boys.. he's a lookin' :)





ElectraGlide -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:23:16 PM)

Oh well so much for fun and general discussion. Some one had to rain on the parade. Does any body have a pot of boiling acid to pour on me if that would cheer you up. At least I did not get hung in Iraq...




catize -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:25:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ElectraGlide

The Maryland Rednecks I work with seek the Mommy Boy types out to tease them so we can see a good spazz, for a source of entertainment. A good hint is when the 50 something year old guy has to have his 70 something year old mother drive him to work because he is too sorry to quit getting DUIs at his age. He was raised that the world is his litterbox and mommy will always dress him and pick up after him. You have to admit that the Mommy and her mommy boy is a mental mind domination. How about a post on sibling rivarly when two siblings drag it well into their adult years. Is that called two people trying to both be Dom but having hissy fits instead. I know I am geting silly, but human behavior is interesting and there are many parallels with who is on top and who is on bottom.

Hmmmm, so how long have you had these feelings of inadequacy?
<the psychiatrist is IN>




LotusSong -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:31:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ElectraGlide

Oh well so much for fun and general discussion. Some one had to rain on the parade. Does any body have a pot of boiling acid to pour on me if that would cheer you up. At least I did not get hung in Iraq...


You miss your mommy....    don't cha... :) 

You are the poster boy as to why women go Lez and/or DOMME :)




TPEOwner -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:36:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

There are plenty of people who are adults in terms of age but do not take responsibility for themselves and get others to clean up their messes and take care of them.

I honestly don't know a single adult male whose relationship with his mother (or lack thereof) didn't severly impact how they view the world and treat the females around them. 


You may be right, but it's an excuse that doesn't hold water with me.  People make choices.  For every abused kid who becomes an abusive parent, there are hundreds that no one ever hears about who becomes a great parent.  I fought my that woman ( I won't insult motherhood by calling her one) tooth and nail until the day I turned 18 and walked away.  Now a large part of my parenting decisions are made based on doing the opposite of what she would have done.  So while my mother may have had a large impact on the way I see the world, it was mostly to instill a desire to be nothing like her.  And she had nothing to do with the way I view or treat women.




Noah -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:37:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

So, I am betting that you guys work at McDonalds or what?

Ronald McDonald



Over at Wendy's (night shift, though, not like those losers who work days) we usually tease the bald guy who has the barbershop quartet moustache pasted onto his forehead. This isn't a question. I just want to know if I'm thinking right.




ElectraGlide -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 9:40:25 PM)

Ok you all win I surrendor say what you want after this post. I will be quiet. I was opening up thoughts about human behavior I find interesting. Yes there are more serious things in life, but there are lighter ones also, like I enjoy hiking and cycle riding and I will not give those up because they are not serious thinghs. Ok let me have it every body....




velvetears -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 10:07:04 PM)

i wouldn't say any woman who cripples her son to the point of him becoming a "mommies boy" is anywhere near being a dominant.  She's a very neurotic and insecure woman who clings onto her child out of desperation.  She more then likely has no life of her own and is probably terrified of being left alone.  i sure hope this doesn't sound like a dominant to anyone.

On the flip side of the coin this "mommies boy" is not a submissive, he's a lazy, self indulged, unmotivated looser who couldn't find his own way out of a paper bag. Not someone i'd want as my submissive.  Definately the type who would master the art of topping from the bottom real fast [&:]




JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 11:38:12 PM)

You have to give your children room to breathe-- you can still be very close to your boys and not smother them...Having four young boys there is always that want to shelter them from everything but heartaches are lessons in life..You have to learn to take a step back and let them spread their wings...that is true love.




IronLion -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/30/2006 11:52:47 PM)

Way to turn a kink into an ideology...  Yeah, politics and religion and society is secretly a reflection of how you want to get your rocks off.

Did it occour to you that a lot of subs might be looking for Mommies/Daddies whatever to hold their hands through life?  Nope...  instead, the human family unit is a bizarre satire of BDSM.

Do you have an idea or does an idea have you?




SweetDommes -> RE: Mom is Dom and Son is Sub think about it. It is called a Mommies Boy... (12/31/2006 12:33:20 AM)

Of the ones that I've met and would honestly call a mama's boy - the mother wasn't dominant, she was domineering ... big difference.




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