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learning new ways to please - 12/31/2006 2:08:02 PM   
ESCLAVOBI35


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Hello: my name is john, I am a slave who would like to ask you 3 questions and which is related as I am trying to give a plus when offering myself to future ownership. I was a slave to a very nice and experience couple residing in Mexico for 2 years. That was mainly why I am in Mexico residing until today. They were a very strict sadist couple that use me as a domestic servant and also train me in corporal punishment, maid training with Mistress and butler training service with Master. I was use also to experiment their sadist pleasure and also was taken very well as property often must be. They were both straight and I had a cb3000 on me 2477 and was milk once every 2 weeks follow by a good paddling to take any orgasm away.
I was free from duty because they wanted to have a child and take a break from BDSM.
As I seek out for new owners I thought about things I could do that would interest new owners in hiring me or take me, things that I didn’t do with my former owners, so I have started to taste my own piss and also swallow my own cum, my questions are:
Is there in a relation between owners-slave any health problem regarding the taste or drinking of piss?
Are there (after knowing that your owners are safe) any problems in swallowing cum?
Do owners look for this as part of the qualities of a slave or what would be things that I could learn or train to become a better slave?
I want to become a better slave but many times I don’t know if what I am doing or know is enough to make someone really get interest in me.
Thank you and happy New Year to all.
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RE: learning new ways to please - 12/31/2006 2:51:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ESCLAVOBI35
Is there in a relation between owners-slave any health problem regarding the taste or drinking of piss?{/quote]
Urine is waste products from your body. That means that it may contain waste medicines, chemicals or germs and viruses. Your own should be reasonably sterile to you. Other's may not be sterile for you nor yours for them.

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Are there (after knowing that your owners are safe) any problems in swallowing cum?

Once you are certain that they are free of disease, at least at a level that you are comfortable with, there shouldn't be any reason why you couldn't.

Do owners look for this as part of the qualities of a slave or what would be things that I could learn or train to become a better slave?

Not all. I don't. I'd rather that you clean the bathroom and mow the grass. It will depend on the individual person.

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RE: learning new ways to please - 12/31/2006 2:57:38 PM   
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RE: learning new ways to please - 12/31/2006 7:19:44 PM   
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RE: learning new ways to please - 12/31/2006 7:32:23 PM   
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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/1/2007 6:52:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well; then he has already learned one life lesson in general terms. 
Don't cross-post.

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/1/2007 10:37:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ESCLAVOBI35

Is there in a relation between owners-slave any health problem regarding the taste or drinking of piss?


Ask a trusted doctor. You'll get an informed answer rather than the opinions of a bunch of strangers on the Internet who may or may not know the facts.

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Are there (after knowing that your owners are safe) any problems in swallowing cum?


While you are talking to your doctor about urine, you can bring this up as well.


quote:

Do owners look for this as part of the qualities of a slave or what would be things that I could learn or train to become a better slave?


Some will, some won't. You'd probably do better to learn more generic skills which will be of use to a prospective owner, like how to cook, sew a button, care for leather, etc.

You know, you really could have asked your questions without the details of your previous ownership as they brought nothing to the table but the perception that you are just looking for some wanking material. You might want to think about how you present yourself on the forums or other boards you may frequent if you're going to use the Internet as a medium for partner search. Once you write it in black and white, it's here to stay.

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/1/2007 11:50:22 AM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		skills that would make you more desirable in my home
 
computer skills
glass blowing skills
cooking skills
electrician skills
yard work skills (not that you need many skills but willingness and a strong back)
cleaning skills
chess playing skills
communication skills


i honestly dont care about your cum and piss drinking aptitudes...truly john its not even down at the bottom of my list...

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/3/2007 7:24:40 AM   
emdoub


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Status: offline 		Quick answer - swallowing semen is not a health issue if there's no STDs or allergies.  Swallowing urine in small quantities will not usually cause health issues, but keep in mind that it's waste, and your kidneys will have to re-process it, putting some extra strain there - drink lots of water.

BitaTruble is right: I know that I know what I'm talking about, but you don't -  an internet forum is a lousy place to get medical advice.

Nor would these skills appeal to me - they're not exactly skills.  (Swallowing, you've been doing since you were born - everyone can.)  The ability to deep-throat would be more appealing, but still not a decision-maker, just a bonus.  Work on a skill that takes you longer than a day to master, and has function to the people you wish to serve.  Service is, at the end of the day, very little about entertainment, and quite a bit about making someone else's life a more pleasant experience.

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/3/2007 10:35:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

skills that would make you more desirable in my home
 
computer skills
glass blowing skills
cooking skills
electrician skills
yard work skills (not that you need many skills but willingness and a strong back)
cleaning skills
chess playing skills
communication skills


i honestly dont care about your cum and piss drinking aptitudes...truly john its not even down at the bottom of my list...


You forgot...
Nunchuck skills...
Bowhunting skills...
Computer hacking skills...


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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/3/2007 12:09:19 PM   
Archer


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Status: offline 		A serious recomendation is to research all the various domestic job discriptions, Butler, Valet ,Footman, Gardener, Chaufer, Personal Assistant, Social Secretary, Cook etc select the skills on their job discription that speak to you most. And then become an expert in those areas of service.

Lists of their job skills are available on websites that act as placement agencies for domestics in many cases.

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/3/2007 12:59:13 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

Service is, at the end of the day, very little about entertainment, and quite a bit about making someone else's life a more pleasant experience.


From your mouth to God's ear, Emdoub.

Celeste


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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/3/2007 3:25:28 PM   
Necroletariat


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Status: offline 		I've never had swallowing be an up front criteria. More what i'm able to do outside the bedroom, such as cleaning or cooking. I'd work on a more practical skill.

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/9/2007 1:09:05 PM   
slavenumbersix


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Status: offline 		im a slave to a master but im am unable to suck his cock what do i do to get over this.
                                  slavenumbersix

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/9/2007 10:23:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavenumbersix

im a slave to a master but im am unable to suck his cock what do i do to get over this.
                                 slavenumbersix


I really do have to ask...What do you mean by unable??  Do you puke/pass out/break out in hives when your master approaches you with his penis??  There is a difference between can't and won't.

If in fact you are breaking out in hives or some other similar reaction is occuring then you may benefit from speaking with a therapist...not to be condesending...sometimes we could all benefit from a good talk with an uninvolved party.

If it is that you just won't...then that sounds like you need to ask yourself if he is the master for you.  This may just be a hard limit for you and if it is...you have two choices...express your limit and hope for the best or open up and suck cock!!

Take care and Be Cause!!
Ladydeeddlit

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/10/2007 8:53:28 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

skills that would make you more desirable in my home
 
computer skills
glass blowing skills
cooking skills
electrician skills
yard work skills (not that you need many skills but willingness and a strong back)
cleaning skills
chess playing skills
communication skills


i honestly dont care about your cum and piss drinking aptitudes...truly john its not even down at the bottom of my list...


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Glass blowing skills?  If you were male Crouching, I'd say I've never heard oral called that.. but since your not, I've just GOT to know...why glass blowing?

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/10/2007 4:44:05 PM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		desert dancer, first welcome back! you and your shimmy have been missed......to answer your q, i am a glass artist....and....lazy...hehe.
 
heather, i nearly fell off my couch! that was Sweet!
 
 
 

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RE: learning new ways to please - 1/10/2007 10:03:21 PM   
Viciousbabe


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Status: offline 		Urine is highly acidic. Some times it will not jive well with the acid in your stomach. I know a slave who said her Master made her drink his morning urine and she would be sick all day. That said, urine is actually very clean with minimal bacteria, unless someone has a urinary tract infection. Most urine is yellow tinted and you can pretty much see through it. If it is cloudy or looks like there is some thing floating in it, it is most likely that there is a UTI going on.

As far as cum, to spit or to swallow seems to be purely a personal preference. Cum is full of protein, but is nowhere near what you would require to sustain your normal daily activities.

Every Master/Mistress is different. They will tell you what pleases them. I am a newbie to a lot of things, but through guidance I am learning to please.

I do recommend going to your doctor for any questions. There are always risks involved in certain behavoirs. Even if someone tests negative for an STD, it could just not be manifested yet.

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