mp072004
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Youngmistress, you seem articulate and sensible, which is great to see. You also have some clear ideas about what you want and how your relationship should be structured, which must have made it much easier for authors of the above excellent responses to offer good advice. If you're interested in improving his anal elasticity, stretching is good, but exercising the sphincter may be even more helpful. Effectively, he needs to do Kegels with his ass. It's never too soon to start having sex, if that's what you want. If you're into having control, it's about your desires, isn't it? If he can't restrain his orgasm, he can tell you. You might make a game of it--you'll give in to his pleas to stop fucking him, but he has to do something else (within agreed-upon parameters, naturally) that you want that he may dislike/find humiliating/find painful. Since you mention a strap-on, I'm reminded of another option for you to have sex. I think I read this on Mistress Matisse's blog (mistressmatisse.blogspot.com). Affix your favorite dildo to your harness, then attach it to him, near his flesh penis. Enjoy a good fuck with the dildo. This may frustrate him, which is why it's fun. It occurs to me that if you want to do verbal humiliation, you can do a nice little riff on how his original equipment is so inadequate that he needs to attach a cock. If emasculation appeals as a fantasy, you could take that line a bit further, and dirty-talk your way into suggesting that he should have his dangly bit removed, since it wasn't really any use to you and gets in the way. Monica
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