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mgdartist -> RE: When will they learn? (1/2/2007 6:16:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: delawareman

I have a strict policy on honesty. Whether I'm at a party or on Collarme, I never lie about anything, including age. MGDartist man, you gotta calm down! I'm sure I've had many more disappointments over my age than you will. I am a young Dom and many people judge me immediately by my age. I don't think this is fair, but I don't see it as a reason to go around telling people I am older than I am. A key part in any relationship is honesty and, IMO, openness. I don't think it's very prudent to start a relationship (even online) without those.



Haha
Now that is choice...I guess you guys don't know me too good, and while I have a lurid history, I haven't been here so very long. Let me see if I can tell it like it is and keep it short. I am a BDSM visionary and after the last 10 years on 3 different subs, filming our scenes at their behest, being a porn aficionado, and winding up at the largest Porn BT site anywhere, finding 3 crap Kink vids Id' seen, nearly leaving, then turning around and deciding to seed from my own vast collection, including my private amateur stuff which became immensely popular on the site, being ever proud of what I am, and finding few who understood, and more who slandered us, set out in the forum to set things right, since, dunno if anyone noticed, but the boy can write.and can fight. Fast forward 3 years, the site now has nearly 1million members worldwide, and boasts the absolute finest, most varied, and high quality selection of bdsm video on the planet, bar none, hosting some 2000 titles-all free. All thanks to the help of many generous sharers but mostly the sites chief fetish architect, and defacto bdsm guru - me...ask ANYBODY. Somewhere in there, did the same by invitation at 3 other BT sites, and in that world am well known, and much loved.
Then I come here, during a time I was being hoaxed by a poser, who was this 27 yr old hottress, who eventually turned out to be 60. whatever...so here I am, lookin around, thinkin wow!, who knew about this place?...I'll have me a sweet subbie inside a week. HA! I had not a clue what I was dealing with, and since then have learned and read and studied and tried to find the key to what on earth is going on here, and have to get flack about every single solitary trifling, point of minutia that has ever existed in the world of D/s. "youre not this, your that, your fake, your wannabe, your not real, your too old, youre a kinkster, blah, bluh bleh on and prattle on, labelling, stereotyping, predjudicial, paranoid nonsense I got till I was blue in the face, and still, sad to say am. I never dreamed the world of D/s was actually this mindnumbingly bad, and while there are great people here, compared to what I envisioned when I arrived, It's a fucking nightmare. Ain't supposed to be like this people. We're supposed to love each other, stick together, welcome newcomers, treat each other with respect and have some class, and above all, HAVE FUN. Ever heard of that concept?

Well allow me to heavily generalize: What we are is about the most uptight, anal, rule loving, back-biting, no-fun, unfriendly, ball-busting, critical, frustrating, impossible, disharmoneous, disagreeable, protocol& ritual schlepping A-type pain-in-the-ass snapperheads I could have ever possibly dreamed of. You people are completely no fun!
Next question is always some snitty smartass askin"So why don't you just leave?"
Not my style, and they likely should, and as stated before, I stand and fight for what I believe. I believe in the concept of this site, and In the foundations and goodness of D/s, and all its people, and in a free internet, and free involvement and the pursuit of our dreams. This clique bullshit you guys have goin on in this forum sucks, and has to go. I'm sick and tired of people telling me how this site sucks, and knowing it does, but shouldn't.

sigh...oh yeah..I can rant sometimes.
so yeah, I'll likely be around, might calm down and might not.
Don't mind losin a "discussion", since thats the only time i usually get to learn. But if you can't dig what I'm sayin, feel free to cross me, but just remember this:

"I'm your huckleberry."

lol
MGD




mgdartist -> RE: When will they learn? (1/2/2007 2:57:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Zensee

I don't do the great white north thing, MGD. I live in the Florida of Canada, as if, I once lived there., aint that cold in vancouver and victoria, but the rain..omg. learned how not seeing the sun for over month could be quite depressing. man! We are too west coast to go looking for butt to kick but if there's one just hanging out there it's got temptation written all over it...I'm your huckleberry...lol

And if I boost the text size that rant will be10 pages - I just can't win. You make me sound so mean. I'm just trying to keep you out of trouble.No need to equivocate, just say you don't want to-sounded sorta like tact. nolo comprende.
lol

Z.








Zensee -> RE: When will they learn? (1/2/2007 3:50:33 PM)

You are quite right - I have no intention of reading that whole chat excerpt, at any font size.

For Canadians, not having your rain pile up in white drifts for half the year IS the living in the tropics.

And I suppose you might doubt my intentions, bud. If I am busy filling in the hole you are digging for yourself, while you are still in it, it could appear I am trying to bury you.

Again, I just can't win...


Z.




UtopianRanger -> RE: When will they learn? (1/2/2007 4:39:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Zensee

Well, I discontinued reading MDG's cut and paste because it was almost five screens of single spaced, 8 point text with no apparent relevence to the OP's point. Call me stupid or call me obtuse if you prefer twenty dollar words (adjusted for inflation).

There are two separate issues : witholding your age for reasons of privacy - lying about it in order to attract people. This thread is about the second one. So get over it already, man.


Z.



Heh.... This one's still going?!?  I thought the candle woulda blown-out a long time ago.



- R




mgdartist -> RE: When will they learn? (1/2/2007 4:46:14 PM)

hehe, you funny. Zen
i'm from down south and when i lived there, I learned one very important thing about the culture difference, vis a vis friends.
Down here, everyone is friendly, strangers even say hi on the streets, and seems like you have lots of friends...till you actually need one...then you learn how superficial it can be.

There, hell makin friends. people arent over friendly if at all, but after I finally made some, know what? they are still friends today. Best friend here in texas is from toronto. Make a canadian friend, they are for life usually.

Unless they decide to bury you in your own fuckin hole you dug. Plus they all had weapons.
hope all the ladies here don't see how youre actin to me, they wouldnt like it...lol.




Lorelei115 -> RE: When will they learn? (1/2/2007 6:03:42 PM)

~Fast Reply~

You know.. as this thread so eloquently demonstrates, age really doesn't matter. One can be mature or immature at any age, and its maturity that counts.




mgdartist -> RE: When will they learn? (1/3/2007 12:19:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lorelei115

~Fast Reply~

You know.. as this thread so eloquently demonstrates, age really doesn't matter. One can be mature or immature at any age, and its maturity that counts.


Typical tongue-in-cheek forum regular insult, precisely as described in the big rant above. likely directed at someone like me, but not having the  buns to say so.
If maturity is your issue, Ive addressed it earlier, and am working to "grow up"...but once i do, i truly pray im not as condescending as you. Since if that's what it means to be mature?...pass.

You got something to say? say it. This is a forum, i really can't bite you, promise.




MmakeMme -> RE: When will they learn? (1/3/2007 12:38:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mgdartist


Well allow me to heavily generalize: What we are is about the most uptight, anal, rule loving, back-biting, no-fun, unfriendly, ball-busting, critical, frustrating, impossible, disharmoneous, disagreeable, protocol& ritual schlepping A-type pain-in-the-ass snapperheads I could have ever possibly dreamed of. You people are completely no fun!



Indeed. ~calm gaze~

Could be a self-fulfilling prophecy, Grasshoppa.




mgdartist -> RE: When will they learn? (1/3/2007 4:46:35 PM)

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Could be a self-fulfilling prophecy, Grasshoppa.



Not a chance in hell. As most of the traits I outline in your quote of me are based in known left-brain tendencies. I'm all right brain, and my left brain has been dysfunctional for years, and since I didnt like it, or the things I read that it did, decided not to fix it.
It's useless IMO.
and good riddance. Id much rather have half a brain.
lol

Edit: if youre implying that those objects of my desire who might read that then vindictively decide to make it my reality for spite....
that ship has sailed.





Lorelei115 -> RE: When will they learn? (1/3/2007 8:39:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mgdartist

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lorelei115

~Fast Reply~

You know.. as this thread so eloquently demonstrates, age really doesn't matter. One can be mature or immature at any age, and its maturity that counts.


Typical tongue-in-cheek forum regular insult, precisely as described in the big rant above. likely directed at someone like me, but not having the buns to say so.
If maturity is your issue, Ive addressed it earlier, and am working to "grow up"...but once i do, i truly pray im not as condescending as you. Since if that's what it means to be mature?...pass.

You got something to say? say it. This is a forum, i really can't bite you, promise.



Wow, reading into things much? No, that actually was not directed at you. Hence why I used the "Fast Reply". But thanks for playing, and no, you're really not the center of the universe.




mgdartist -> RE: When will they learn? (1/3/2007 9:30:54 PM)

oh my, my bad, guess I over-reacted, as I was already working at my maturity.level increase.

As far as you saying im not the center of the Universe, well...
You honestly expect me to buy that?





SirKenin -> RE: When will they learn? (1/3/2007 9:31:32 PM)

Holy shit.  I mean..  Really.  What on earth is wrong with people?

First, you get the people that come in here and whine and complain because someone will not give an age.  MOVE ON!  There are lots of fish in the sea.

Then you get the people that come in and defend why they will not give their age and make a big scene about it to defend their position.  WHO CARES?  It is your issue.  Deal with it.

Personally, there is no issue that I will not divulge.  I figure they will find out sooner or later so might as well be honest up front.




Lorelei115 -> RE: When will they learn? (1/3/2007 9:34:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mgdartist


As far as you saying im not the center of the Universe, well...
You honestly expect me to buy that?



I think that debate belongs over in the Religion vs. God area. *laugh* I really wasn't directing at you, honestly. It was actually being directed more at people who can't seem to get over the age issue.




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